The Way You Come Off...

[mark4tg]

The age old battle, Pervy guys being very sexually agressive online with You Girls. Its pretty retarded in my eyes because I try to conduct myself in a quite normal respectful fashion. Ive never hounded any lady online in any way that most of your girls get hounded. Im honest & upfront with thoughts & intentions & about who I am. Ive got load of picts of myself & readily tell you about all the crap you may find dorky or unapealing about me.
Yet to no avail even the most genuine guy gets nowhere because of the pervs that ruin it all. So in the guy realm there is 2 sides.

So what about the TGirl side. Im starting to see more of a dividing line with the TGirls in the Sex Biz VS TGirls that are not. Now not saying one is better than the other or anything but hear me out.
Ok so you are a Tgirl making her way by being in the Sex Biz. You either escort, do films, pose for websites, or all of em. You could he that hot so why not do it. You could just like sex that much, awesome. Its also one of the easiest ways for a TGirl to live & achieve her goals. All of that fine. Ive dated girls that did this, no problem. But for those of you that do dot this & also make it part of your personality or define who you are. How you gonna get pissed when a guy treats you like an object or fanatasy fulfillment? How is the guy being an asshat when chatting you up. By all means you may not be a whore or slut BUT you certainly are wearing the uniform.

Now I totally dont agree with anyone being a bother to anyone else online or otherwise. Certainly no one has a right to hassle or insult anyone else. Im just saying hows a girl gona get jaded when making money off of horny guys is how she gets by.
Ther are some exceptions to this. Like our Admin for example. Sure she has naughty pics & movies, but she doesnt present herself to anyone like that totally defines who she is. Shes got loads more going on then just being naked for us guys. Therefore its pretty sad that someone would present themselves as an asshat hornball & bugg the shit out of her.

Im just saying that BOTH sides need a brain about it all. Guys got no reason to treat anyone as an object & Girls shouldnt be suprised to be confronted with such behavior if they only present themselves as an object.

(this inspired by my own recent conversations in chat room & people bugging the shit outa Jenna this way when clearly she doesnt present herself in such a manner to warrant it)

[WendyWilliams]

Mark I totally disagree and let me inform you of why.

I do not come online to meet and or find a guy to date,,,,,,,,,My website, videos, escorting are just that WORK and I dont feel it is my duty to make sure that guys understand that what they see on film or internet isnt what or who I am everyday. I dont get all glammed up and start fucking the moment I wake up.................Therefore when I am speaking to a guy online it makes me SICK and MAD when the first thing he says is "how big is it" "what do you like sexually" "can you fuck me like you did in video blah blah",,,,,,,,,,,,,WTF just because you see this online or video Persona of "Wendy Williams" doesnt mean thats how I am 24-7. Yes I must take some responsibility since I choose to have this type of lifestyle but that doesnt give guys the right to disrespect me and or assume anything about who and what type of person I am or any other lady who chooses this lifestyle or JOB.

Of course there is a thick line between non industry ladies and industry,,,,,,,,,First of all most ladies who choose to live a pretty relaxed life automatically use the defense mechanism of "Atleast I do hook or sell my body" sadly they are usually the first to give a guy a bj they just met online or at a club, HOW HYPOCRITICAL or its a jealousy issue Not always but alot. Then you have ladies who could care less and focus on themselves.

As far as Moni seperating herself well of course she can because she runs a forum which isnt dedicated to just tgirl sex therefore she has the oppurtunity to showcase her other attributes and aspirations with her career so kudos to that.


Remember "Never judge a book by its cover" who are you or I to say that just because you come off as something that people should be able to type cast you.

Just a thought
Wendy

[kellylicious23]

I will also disagree.. I have never talked dirty to the boys in chat...nor do I talk privately in chat... and when I put pictures up of me they are clothed and my videos I show are clothed... But yet men still feel they can treat you as a sex toy... that you don't have feelings...and you are automcatically a slut..no matter if you are in the industry or not!

[WillowQueen]

I'm surprised how men treat me. Yes, I'm know I'm treated like an object. I do not like it, but I'm not surprised. I could complain all I want, but that would get me nowhere.
I might be jaded. by only seeing on aspect of men (their lust) I see all men that way. But then my logic kicks in and I know ther is more to some men. I have meet some men in my work that have given their side a good light. Some even treat me as a lady should be treated. That always surprises me.

Online is a different matter. I don't try to pick up guys online, that's just something I don't do. Their anonymity is their security, so they can do and say anything. It's where their real assholistic tendencies come to the surface. It turns me off and I make that known. Now, not all of them know that I'm an escort or model, but they automatically talk to me like I'm a slut right off the bat. And for those that do know... I guess that's where I am at fault. They know what I am and I tell them off for it. I don't really know what to say in my defense.

[Professor X]

i think wendy put it best. just because thats her job dosent mean thats who she is.

Mike Tyson dosent just walk around beating people up all day.....

[roseofsapphire]

i think wendy put it best. just because thats her job dosent mean thats who she is.

Mike Tyson dosent just walk around beating people up all day.....

Either you are trying to be funny/malicious or you chose a very poor example in Mike Tyson.

[flombago]

I would avoid a chatroom or forum where too many people are rude or "pervy". Not a problem here, of course. It also helps that this forum is moderated in a reasonable way.

My original post was too complicated, so I decided to keep it simple and short.

[AugenGn.]

Therefore when I am speaking to a guy online it makes me SICK and MAD when the first thing he says is "how big is it"......

Wendy, i promise right now that if i ever have the priviledge of meeting you. i'll only be referring to the cup of Starbucks i'm offering to fetch for you when i ask that particular question. :idea:

Wow Mark!!!!.. Did you just state that MOST of the girls on here involved in sex work have a whorish personality?!?

Well you have balls and I am surprised if they are not cut off by now..

But... I agree that I have seen this aswell.. in SOME:P I also think that this is mostly image and the true person if you were to meet them would be nothing like that. But the internet allows for that. Some men that would not normally follow someone to their house and make harassing phone calls have the option to freely act like a stalker online.

I have been in the chatroom and a lot of girls act slutty.. but it is all in jest.. many of them are single and just waiting for a guy like you:P Many of the guys who are decent never approach the girls as to not act trollish.. but most of the girls are not going to approach you.

Why don't you try chatting to a girl you like then asking them out nicely? and see what she says... rather than trying to get them to fall all over you with your 'normalness'. Then if she says no develop a friendship or try another girl.

This process sounds a lot easier than posting a long winded explanation of how most of these girls are sluts.. and expecting results... lmao!!!

You just won...Biggest Laugh of the Day Awrd:P

[Ashleigh]

Oops that guest reply was mine... forgot to log in :!:

[amberjack]

Oh Mark! I've just been dying to meet a guy that understands us T girls so well and tells it like it is! When can we meet up? Can we.. you know, have sex on the spot? So looking forward to hearing from you soon!

</sarcasm>

[bolton113]

i had posted a reply yesterday, and I guess my language or wording was a bit inflamatory, and I did regret it, and glad it got delated....
sooo I will try again.....
you come across here as sucking up...
there, hope that's better!












The age old battle, Pervy guys being very sexually agressive online with You Girls. Its pretty retarded in my eyes because I try to conduct myself in a quite normal respectful fashion. Ive never hounded any lady online in any way that most of your girls get hounded. Im honest & upfront with thoughts & intentions & about who I am. Ive got load of picts of myself & readily tell you about all the crap you may find dorky or unapealing about me.
Yet to no avail even the most genuine guy gets nowhere because of the pervs that ruin it all. So in the guy realm there is 2 sides.

So what about the TGirl side. Im starting to see more of a dividing line with the TGirls in the Sex Biz VS TGirls that are not. Now not saying one is better than the other or anything but hear me out.
Ok so you are a Tgirl making her way by being in the Sex Biz. You either escort, do films, pose for websites, or all of em. You could he that hot so why not do it. You could just like sex that much, awesome. Its also one of the easiest ways for a TGirl to live & achieve her goals. All of that fine. Ive dated girls that did this, no problem. But for those of you that do dot this & also make it part of your personality or define who you are. How you gonna get pissed when a guy treats you like an object or fanatasy fulfillment? How is the guy being an asshat when chatting you up. By all means you may not be a whore or slut BUT you certainly are wearing the uniform.

Now I totally dont agree with anyone being a bother to anyone else online or otherwise. Certainly no one has a right to hassle or insult anyone else. Im just saying hows a girl gona get jaded when making money off of horny guys is how she gets by.
Ther are some exceptions to this. Like our Admin for example. Sure she has naughty pics & movies, but she doesnt present herself to anyone like that totally defines who she is. Shes got loads more going on then just being naked for us guys. Therefore its pretty sad that someone would present themselves as an asshat hornball & bugg the shit out of her.

Im just saying that BOTH sides need a brain about it all. Guys got no reason to treat anyone as an object & Girls shouldnt be suprised to be confronted with such behavior if they only present themselves as an object.

(this inspired by my own recent conversations in chat room & people bugging the shit outa Jenna this way when clearly she doesnt present herself in such a manner to warrant it)

[Xander maddoX]

i think wendy put it best. just because thats her job dosent mean thats who she is.

Mike Tyson dosent just walk around beating people up all day.....

Either you are trying to be funny/malicious or you chose a very poor example in Mike Tyson.

i guess it was a poor choice in mike tyson... my point was thats hes a boxer , thats his job. when hes not in the ring he dosent beat up random ppl on the street. i only chose mike tyson because i figured evryone would know who he was.

[kellylicious23]

i think wendy put it best. just because thats her job dosent mean thats who she is.

Mike Tyson dosent just walk around beating people up all day.....

Either you are trying to be funny/malicious or you chose a very poor example in Mike Tyson.

i guess it was a poor choice in mike tyson... my point was thats hes a boxer , thats his job. when hes not in the ring he dosent beat up random ppl on the street. i only chose mike tyson because i figured evryone would know who he was. Oh Xander don't worry... the rest of us understood what you were saying...she/he is obviously just bitter and needs to take the corncob out her ass....We know you didn't mean any disrespect to Wendy or any of the other girls.

[angel_glow]

i just wana thank mark for speaking out for us kiss kiss,you dont see many guys speaking out for tgirls only very few,hope you have a wonderfull valentines....

[Xander maddoX]

i think wendy put it best. just because thats her job dosent mean thats who she is.

Mike Tyson dosent just walk around beating people up all day.....

Either you are trying to be funny/malicious or you chose a very poor example in Mike Tyson.

i guess it was a poor choice in mike tyson... my point was thats hes a boxer , thats his job. when hes not in the ring he dosent beat up random ppl on the street. i only chose mike tyson because i figured evryone would know who he was. Oh Xander don't worry... the rest of us understood what you were saying...she/he is obviously just bitter and needs to take the corncob out her ass....We know you didn't mean any disrespect to Wendy or any of the other girls.

whew, when rose wrote that i wonderd if my point got lost. glad to hear it didnt

[OrlandoTim]

LOL, But Mike Tyson DOES beat up random people on the street, he even has road rage as well. It is well documented.

[Xander maddoX]

LOL, But Mike Tyson DOES beat up random people on the street, he even has road rage as well. It is well documented. DAMNIT!! ok then help me out, i dont know boxing..... or sports for that matter.

[WillowQueen]

Yup, he punched out an old guy in the street after a minor fender bender. ...Pyschooo.

[bolton113]

he trains here in Vero Beach when he is fighting.(for money!) Buddy Mcgirt has a gym here and alot of top fighters come thru. Pretty cool! I see some of them running where I run.