Relationship Preferences

[TSMorena35]

Do you prefer long term relationships and will not engage in any sexual activity if you are not in one?

Do you prefer long term friends with benefits situations?

Do you prefer quick sexual no strings attached encounters?

Do you prefer a long term relationship, but will engage in quick sexual no strings attached encounters or long term friends with benefits situations while waiting for that someone special with whom to have a long term relationship?

[edgeoflife]

I desire a LTR. I will not sleep with a girl unless she is the one and we have a relationship. Ive always been that way and dont plan on changing.

For me, She must be both my g/f and my closest friend.

And the greatest benefit would be her love to me.

[Quinn]

Long-term friends with benefits is how I would describe most of my relationships, which definitely fits my preference.

-Quinn

[MsDazzler]

in my experience, "straight men" will have LTRs with Tgirls only if they are full-time and passable so they can be seen with them out in the public.

Otherwise, we Tgrrls are relegated to the sleazy nightclubs or hooking up at hotels. sad. :shock:

[wmlover4u]

I prefer quick sexual no strings attached encounters

[etture]

its seems so hard I'm done with the one time because in the end its a empty feeling.I'm 32 and I want to find my future TS wife but I like to have a LTR but it seems even harder in the TS community

[miketrannylover]

hey MsDazzler i dont think u should care about beiing seen in public cause ur so hot. Any time any were any place i wouldt mind being seen with you ur like a 20 on 10 and plus ur asian so u have it all baby

[Filipina-TG]

I choose LTR 8)

coz of.... what do you call this.. STD's ...??

yeah, im scared of that thing :?

[Transsexual702]

Do you prefer long term relationships and will not engage in any sexual activity if you are not in one?

Do you prefer long term friends with benefits situations?

Do you prefer quick sexual no strings attached encounters?

Do you prefer a long term relationship, but will engage in quick sexual no strings attached encounters or long term friends with benefits situations while waiting for that someone special with whom to have a long term relationship?

Personally I wouldn't have it any other way than a monogamous Long Term Relationship. At a certain point in ones life, the casual sexual activity for free or pay is a waste of time when you can have the world and some.

My idea of friends with benefits is taking turns covering the bill during an outing and doesn’t include any sexual activity - For I do not engage in intimate activity with any of my friends.

Thanks to my upbringing and raising three siblings, I had to set an example and believe that if I can't have it all – I don’t want it at all. Never settle for less when you can have the best!

Ms. LyriCáh V. Salazar

[Ecstatic]

well, Morena, mine is option E, which you didn't list: Being in an LTR and occasionally engaging in no strings attached sexual encounters on the side. 8)

I am in an LTR--have been for 31 years, married for 24--and I wouldn't have it any other way. My wife and I love each other deeply and fully. She also knows of, supports, and fully understands my occasional encounters with TS escorts. There are many reasons for this, but the main reason is that my wife is asexual--doesn't care for sex, never has--but she wants me to feel fulfilled sexually. For many couples, lack of sexual compatibility would be grounds for divorce, but I've never even given that any thought because I love her so much and because our lives together are so rich in so many other, more important ways. For us, this works beautifully; we are closer than ever and she has even met my favorite companion at a restaurant (they got on fabulously). Moreover, being with a TS companion satisfies the bi aspect of my nature, something which I had not felt free to express since we were married.

I don't expect all to understand my position, as it is rather different, but it has made our lives richer. I am so very happy to have a few "special friends" in my life that I wouldn't know otherwise. Yes, I pay for play in this situation because it's the best way for me, but I have also cultivated real friendships with several girls which brings much joy to my life. This is turn has made our (my wife and my) relationship stronger. And the spectre of an unsatisfactory love life has completely vanished from our marriage.

[TSMorena35]

well, Morena, mine is option E, which you didn't list: Being in an LTR and occasionally engaging in no strings attached sexual encounters on the side.

My apologies Ecstatic, leaving out option E was an oversight on my part. :oops:

[JohnnyPaycheck]

I think right now i am falling into "D". I desire a long term relationship with a girl, however while i am waiting for the right girl, if something falls in my lap i'd probably roll with it. I have had my share of one night stands, they are fun, but unfulfilling in the end. I desire a long term relationship because i am a one woman type guy, and it feels really good to be able to pour all of your attention/affection on a girl that you really love and care about. In all of my relationships that ive been in, i've never cheated on any of them, as i tend to get tunnel vision, only thinking about/seeing the girl i am with, but in this mind set you tend to get hurt more easily when it doesn't work out for whatever reason in the end,,. But in my search for the next LTR, i do run into one night stands, flings, what have you, always hoping in the back of my mind that maybe this girl is the one? lol. No but a lot of girls i stay friends with, but never developed into a serious relationship. Im rambling again,, but yea, i think that puts me in "D".

[Ecstatic]

My apologies Ecstatic, leaving out option E was an oversight on my part. :oops:
Thanks, Morena. I don't know that many who fit into E (unless they are cheating, which is NOT what I'm about). My first encounter with a tgirl did occur before I talked about it with my wife, so technically, I cheated that first time--I was overwhelmed and not sure how to broach the subject. But that very evening she and I talked about it, and I found her very receptive (a little mystified by what it means to be TS, but only at first).

[MsDazzler]

hey MsDazzler i dont think u should care about beiing seen in public cause ur so hot. Any time any were any place i wouldt mind being seen with you ur like a 20 on 10 and plus ur asian so u have it all baby


Thank you, honey, but I was referring to straight men who dont want to be seen in public with Tgirls who are not passable or full-time, not my own personal feelings. :wink:

[Hugh Jarrod]

Honestly I like all. I am bit of a slut.

[WUTANG]

i would have 2 say its what she wants ,i aim 2 please

[Scott]

I got to a point some time ago ( I wont say how long because most think I'm lying) that I decided to abstaine from sex until I met that one special lady that I could really connect with and hopefully be in a LTR with. I know for a fact that special lady is out there ;) and I am more than willing to wait for her. :)


Scott

[angel_glow]

if its genuine honest loyal relationship then definately long term but if not id rather go back to the sinlge life no matter how hot the guy is

[Juliana_Dominguez]

i want to be in a long term relationship with a man! there's should be loyalty, trust, respect, lots lovin'

i want a man who will love and accept me for who and what i am...

[fun1990]

There is also option F (no listed) - that is my option, prefer all the above, but don't get any except from oneself ;)

[AugenGn.]

i'd go for the LTR without a doubt....of course, being as i've been exercising Option Z (celibate) for a while now, the right circumstances could tip the scale to a quick roll.... :twisted:

[DjWilde69]

Long Term........... FOREVER!

i would never want a longterm witha man whos not finacially secure and is homeless..thats a no no cause they usually use tgirls who has lotsa money

[marissaaz]

ltr only but since i have been in one for over 8yrs now, i guess its not really an option for me .... lol

[sicksam]

Well a few weeks ago i would have said LTR but since the woman i wanted to spend the rest of my life with left me i don't really give a F*** about relationships now.

[Juliana_Dominguez]

Well a few weeks ago i would have said LTR but since the woman i wanted to spend the rest of my life with left me i don't really give a F*** about relationships now.

awww, that's sad... i want LTR too... but im 21, am i too young for LTR?!?

[JeanClaude]

in my experience, "straight men" will have LTRs with Tgirls only if they are full-time and passable so they can be seen with them out in the public.
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Alas, Juliana, you're right.... mostly.
Okay, I must admit that, beside the fact I'm looking for a smart, well-grounded, honest, humorous, lovecaring One, I'm also a man who loves feminine round shapes. I have to be honest on that subject. Very attracted to cute faces, lovely bodies (not big breast, I don't like that very much *bites his nails*), charming walking allure... yep, tha's me. And you can add me in this vaste Group of Men who like to show their GF in public.... but just for this case.

(I *hate* that "passable" use you, american people, you are making of this adjective. In France, passable means = beurk! (eww, in english, if I'm not mistaking). You guess now that it does not mean : lovely, attractive, beautiful for me. So, I will use : lovely. Better for me.)

I'm not only that kind of Guy. If I want to show MY Girl in the Public, that's because I want to show the Beauty she is (for me). I want to give her a sort of "Special Gift" to her. Kind of to give her an Hommage to The Beauty (outside/inside) She REALLY is (for me). I want to "honour" her this way. (I don't think if you understand me correctly). In my mind, it's like that :

"Hey, stupid guys!!! Look at MY Girl! Look at Her Beauty in Her Mind, in Her Body. Isn't She lovely? Why don't you do the same, with your GirlFriends? Why don't you LOVE them fully, deeply? Why don't you love YOUR own GF like I DO LOVE Mine? I show you MY Girl, because I LOVE Her."

You will certainly tell me :"You're stupid and crazy, JC." And you would be right. Because, yes, I can be wayyy seriously stupid when I want. But that's me. LOVE is unconditional in me. When I LOVE, I want MY Girl to know that I LOVE Her. Maybe it's a funny way to proove it :lol: , but it's my way. (Parenthesis closed).

Now, for a Long Term RelationShip (har question, for me), for my experience, what could be best for me is THAT :

When I'm sure She LOVEs me fully, deeply, madly, then, well, let's not be hypocrite(istic?), the "usual things" happening between a Girl and a Guy will happen certainly. Let's not hide our faces behind Faux-semblants. It's no use. Beside, I'm not fucking on First Date. It's kinda not very honest for a Guy meeting a Girl on First Date. Mnnnnaaah, not my kind. I don't want an adventure, not a one-night-...shoot... I want something more concrete.

That's me. And it's too late to change my mind. I'm already 47, this year. :o

[phoejay]

i prefer having a long term relationship. its much secure and safe. and i guess this is only applicable if you found someone you trully love and someone who youll be satisfied with.

[tgirlzoe]

awww, that's sad... i want LTR too... but im 21, am i too young for LTR?!?

My little sister got married at 18, she is 20 and pregnant with her second child (all totally planned, she just didn't want to wait). Several of my friends / ex-boyfiends from high school have gotten married, some with kids. I was engaged to my ex-fiance when I was 19 and he was 18. People definitely do get married at our age (I'm 23).

After my last relationship took a lot more out of me than it gave me, I'm wary but open. I believe there is a man out there searching for me as I am searching for him. I just don't want to pour all this time, money, and energy into a relationship that will fail in a year or two. I want my husband.

As to the original question, I am mostly a long-term, intense relationship person. However, I have a tendency to sleep with my friends. Not one-night stands in the bar hookup sense, but just things that happen among friends ~ guys or girls (usually girls like this, even GGs). I just love my friends, a lot...