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flombago
12-19-2005, 12:45 AM
Allow me to introduce myself, briefly. I am a 45 yo white professional, tall, slim, and reasonably attractive for my age, who in the last 10 years has grown attracted to T-girls. As escorts, I prefer T-girls over women. Why is perhaps the subject of another post. It wasn't always that way with me, but that's the way it is at present.

My favorite way to meet T-girls is at bars where I can assess whether there is some mutual attraction. I like paid relationships with no strings attached, friendly but unfettered. I'm afraid I've never met a T-girl who was not an escort -- note, this is just a statement of my own experience, NOT a commentary on the T-girl world.

In August of this year, I met a beautiful 24 yo black T-girl at our local gay bar (I am not interested in men), and we started a paid relationship, and it was immediately clear that she was naive and inexperienced in this business. Her beauty was breathtaking, and our sexual encounters were very intense from the beginning, as I used all my experience to make them mutually satisfying and to treat her like a lady. She had a boyfriend at first, but has since broken up (not because of me, she says), and for the past 2 months has been alone, which is a little strange since she is the most lovely and sweet T-girl I've ever known, and I would expect her to have many suiters. But maybe not.

Because of our age difference I have no expectations, yet to my surpriise she does like me. She calls to see how I am doing, and has had me visit more often, for which I "don't always have to pay". But I don't begrudge her the money because she is poor and has had trouble holding a job.

I could be wrong, but I think I am her only client and probably her only sexual contact at the moment. Could a relationship born of lust and exchange of money evolve into genuine feelings of sympathy and friendship ? And how can someone so beautiful and sweet as my T-girlfriend be lonely ? Not for long, I imagine. The time will come when she finds a suitable young partner and asks me to stop visiting, and I have told her this is inevitable and that I will accept it.

Ecstatic
12-19-2005, 02:21 PM
Could a relationship born of lust and exchange of money evolve into genuine feelings of sympathy and friendship ?
I think it's difficult and unusual, but it can and does happen. I've developed strong friendships with a few girls I've known and continue to see as escorts, but the nature of that relationship (provider/client) definitely puts up obstacles to moving beyond its bounds. What's the old saying, once a trick, always a trick? But it's not necessarily so.

Many guys seem to think that if you're friends with a girl, then you shouldn't have to pay for sex. Well, if she doesn't want to ask you for her donation, that's certainly cool, or if she wants to give you extra special service, that's cool too, but I have no objection to dropping the donation when I see a girl, any more than I would object to paying a friend who happens to be a carpenter or plumber or computer tech who builds my deck or fixes my faucet or rebuilds my motherboard.