How hard is it to meet someone off line?

[MsDazzler]

I have talked to like hundreds of men online in a course of a year now, and I ve barely met like ten out of them. Is it difficult for you as well?

[kalina]

I have talked to like hundreds of men online in a course of a year now, and I ve barely met like ten out of them. Is it difficult for you as well?

It's hard for anyone to meet someone else via an online chat or message board. I think most guys just want a chat buddy than to meet a girl in real life. I commend those guys who go out and make an attempt at meeting girls in real life.

[GrouchoM05]

The reverse is also true. It's hard for guys who really do want to date a TS to break through all the defenses you gals have built up to deal with all the jerks you've had to deal with while being online. It's totally understandable and regrettable though. Mahalo

Matt

[christoronto]

i would agree it's tough to met anyone online. lots of factors like logistical issue (i.e. travelling), and the last thing you want to appear as is a "tranny chaser" by being overly eager or pushy. then there is the issue of internet persona vs real life persona... but i think there are a few diamonds out there in the rubble...

well ive met one guy from online ever since i first started using the net , :we made an aggreement that if we dont like what we see in person we would both just turn around and leave no hard feelings...i think thats the best way, to be have a coffee with them as least see them on cam first too make sure they re not fake cause i have dealt with guys who was totally not what they say they are in their picture untill you meet them in person its a diffrent person :?
"im all about the truth"

[Texxx]

i have met a couple, but it was through AFF so we both agreed and understood it was just for sex.
just trying to meet up with someone i have chatted with in a more romantic sense just never worked out- by the time one of us would have the time/money to travel, the other would be in a relationship and other things like that.
it is definitely possible to meet in real life, but you just need to always be direct and honest.

[AugenGn.]

i've had little luck, none regarding TG's, but that's been more trepidation (gutlessness) on my part than anything else.

but i can change that right here....right now. i work as a bartender in the Maryland exurbs of DC. so that makes meeting real easy and painless. any of you ladies that find yourself in the area and are so inclined just have to drop me an IM. i'll give you the location and, as long as you drop in when i'm not in the weeds, we can chat with the safety of 18" of granite separating this. if there's no click of any kind, you just have to walk out the door :lol:

[edgeoflife]

I have met ladies offline from the web. Been nice dates, some not. Some left me stood up. Some didnt.

[slayerpsp]

I have talked to like hundreds of men online in a course of a year now, and I ve barely met like ten out of them. Is it difficult for you as well?

It's hard for anyone to meet someone else via an online chat or message board. I think most guys just want a chat buddy than to meet a girl in real life. I commend those guys who go out and make an attempt at meeting girls in real life. not true i want too meet the girls i talk too but most ts wont meet unless its for money cant people just hook up and have some fun for free i guess not

[kalina]

I have talked to like hundreds of men online in a course of a year now, and I ve barely met like ten out of them. Is it difficult for you as well?

It's hard for anyone to meet someone else via an online chat or message board. I think most guys just want a chat buddy than to meet a girl in real life. I commend those guys who go out and make an attempt at meeting girls in real life. not true i want too meet the girls i talk too but most ts wont meet unless its for money cant people just hook up and have some fun for free i guess not

I'm one of a rare breed of tgirl then. Seems that me, Dazzler, and a handful of others do go out to meet guys and we don't charge anything. Nada. It's fun meeting new people. However, that doesn't mean that things will come easy for you. With escorts/hookers, you're guaranteed something because you paid for it.

its very possible to meet in real life,its just a matter of getting off you're ass and organising it lol heck id even travel half way across the world and meet someone and have a great holiday at the same time i work for my self so i got the time in the world :wink:

[fun1990]

I have talked to like hundreds of men online in a course of a year now, and I ve barely met like ten out of them. Is it difficult for you as well?

Meet ten of them. That is a good number.

For me, I chatted with many, but when it comes to meeting, we don't. Probably because the conversation goes like this"

"Want to meet up"
"Yea"
"Come over to my house than"
"Do you live down the block?"
"No"
"Oh, my car is only able to drive block before breaking down"
"Oh, than get lost you loser"

[kalina]

For me, I chatted with many, but when it comes to meeting, we don't. Probably because the conversation goes like this"

"Want to meet up"
"Yea"
"Come over to my house than"
"Do you live down the block?"
"No"
"Oh, my car is only able to drive block before breaking down"
"Oh, than get lost you loser"

You're assuming the loser even has a car. :D

Except for the last couple of pics, these are a few of the guys who actually agreed to meet me... take me out to dinner, etc... they're cool in my book!

http://www.transvamp.com/kalinapix/guys/index.html

[mobile]

For me, I chatted with many, but when it comes to meeting, we don't. Probably because the conversation goes like this"

"Want to meet up"
"Yea"
"Come over to my house than"
"Do you live down the block?"
"No"
"Oh, my car is only able to drive block before breaking down"
"Oh, than get lost you loser"

You're assuming the loser even has a car. :D

Except for the last couple of pics, these are a few of the guys who actually agreed to meet me... take me out to dinner, etc... they're cool in my book!

http://www.transvamp.com/kalinapix/guys/index.html

I am hoping one day to meet Kalina

[fun1990]

Yea, I saw those pictures Kalina, they seem like very nice people, you been blessed in meeting a lot of nice people...good job

Oh and I am sure your car travels a lot farther than mines

[bolton113]

I have talked to like hundreds of men online in a course of a year now, and I ve barely met like ten out of them. Is it difficult for you as well?
vero beach is a small town.
Not far from some bigger cites where there is life for those who prefer there women of a certain......lol(me!)
but i have had some success online.
I think it depends on the sincerity of the individual...it doesn't take long to figure out who is a waste of time, or not interested, and that fine...no harm, no foul!
Steve

[Dead Parrot]

Well..from a man's point of view...it's impossible for me. There aren't any transgendered women in my province.

[edgeoflife]

its nearly impossible.

[edgeoflife]

Kalina is one of the sweetest girls ive met in a while and it was a pleasure taking her out to dinner and going to a club with. a wonderful evening. I am thankful for the oppurtinity, i am on the page she postes im the 4th pic down, i didnt even know i was there. LOL
made my day

And Dazzler, though we never met, you seem like a decent girl yourself, and more than worthy of my respect for being the outspoken and talkative lady.

[mobile]

impossible for me unless i want to meet a pro

[Harrys Boy]

id be interested to know wherabouts you get a diaologue started so you can meet ppl, ive not come across a chatroom concerning transsexuals that i could say was full of excitement. Although being from the UK i think meeting a Trans from the net is a long shot.

[MsDazzler]

4 years later since I posted this thread... it still is true lol. Hundreds of guys have contacted me through AFF and Craigslist in 4 months I have been in San Francisco since, but I have met only a couple. Fakers/flakers. Sigh.

[orion]

san fran you say hmmm mayby you might wanna loose the pantys and crop the hair lol.
omg kalina is too funny.
dazzel ur cute i dont get it really.
but then i kinda do.
most people in the usa have this image of trans and it really from bad tv and movies where men play trans or women but never in a good light.
takes a very confindent person who is open but not batting for the other team if you know what i mean...lol.
a sence of humor cause you never know when ignorant people will be around.
what i never get is why waste time talking to someone you never gonna meet when there plenty of free porn around.
being a guy i cant grasp the concept of talking to someone you known well you wont even show for coffee let alone date.
i guess this is the internet age where you put up nothing and date online for free and dont even have comit to any form of a real relationship.
you just email,cam and cum.
no risk nothing ventured and nothing gained.
why i dont belong to any tg date site or bother with chat.
most of the girls are as fake as the guys and to be honest ur side is not alone in that regaurd.
there dreamers on ur side of the fence as well.
i call them the pretend cd.
cant even bother to toss on a wig not that i want to see that kinda thing.
my advice is get a reference.
if a guy cant submit a reference then he either a time waster or a jerk.
i not been around or known either but even decent guys can have at least two people say yea i know him he for real.
he ok.
mayby he shhould fill out a job ap...lol
i bet kelina would run a credit check hahaha.

[Ecstatic]

just email,cam and cum.

LOL!! This made me laugh!

[orion]

well you know alot of people are doing this alot kinda like asking numbers in a bar and tossing them out after.
alot of people wanna do online hookups with no real world meet.
i guess sally dont meet harry...hahaha.
oh well there allways the suggle partys.

[Trogdor]

I've said it once, and I'll say it again....

I live in Mich-there's no god damned girls here-igan.
And in Michigan, we have a sort of joke that is rather accurate:

What does one call a hot, girl in Michigan?

A tourist.

Bad enough my state's girl population consists of either hillbillies or 400 pound sistas, finding a cute transgirl over here makes finding a needle in a haystack look like child's play. Seems all the desirable girls only make the east or west coasts their habitats, and avoid the inner states like the plague.

I've only found 2 here so far....one's a lesbian, and the other one was not only a real cast-iron bitch, she had the sex-drive of a stone as well.

It's a sort of sick joke of fate or god or something that the chicks I do get great along with and have an excellent chance to start something beyond a measly friendship either live in another state (Often a rather far away state), or in another country. o_O

So, yes, meeting people online can, and often is, a task and a half. :p