The best way to meet a man is.....?

[hhat]

So what do you think lovely women, do you prefer the super aggressive sweep you off your feet drag you out to the dance floor...is it the glass of wine from the other side of the bar....perhaps grabbing or pinching your bum? Or the old simple: Hi, what is your name?

[kalina]

First, there's got to be a hello. Then a drink. Then we talk. If he sounds smart and not drunk, maybe he can grab my ass. :D

I had guys forcibly pull me to the dance floor before. Maybe one out of four guys actually look good, so I don't care. The rest I was like "What the hell are you doing?"

Just remember that buying someone a drink doesn't mean you can do what you want with the girl. :)

[MsDazzler]

I agree totally.. It is not just cool if you let a guy buy you a drink then he thinks he can hang all over you all night.

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[DWG]

Hey I have a question for you girls. I live in a semi small town, with no hope of meeting a tgirl in a normal situation, and I own and opperate a business, so am locked in to being here.

Seems to me that my only chance of meeting, and engaging in a real conversation with the type of girl im interested in, would be online?

Sites like this seem to be the place where real tgirls talk about real things (not just escorts wanting money, and guys wanting sex from them). I find it really interesting to hear your guys's opinions on things. For quite a while now ive thought that i'd be able to relate better to girls like you than GG's. Someone that i'd be truly interested in what they have to say, and as Harajuku said, not have to nod along and pretend I care (like meeting a girl at the bar)

[GeorgiaTgal]

Hello all. I just joined this forum, was looking around and decided to respond to this post. Well, being that I am a woman that grew out of the bar/club scene, I find the internet key in meeting men. I could meet men out and about, but the thing is that most mainstream lads are straight and do not wish to get involved with a T-girl. So, for me, the best thing to do is visit chat sites, online groups or do the personals thing so I can make contact with a bloke that already knows I am a T-girl & who is actively seeking one. Sometimes there are the gits that tend to think we are all sexual & kinky sluts, which I cannot stand; those I just ignore. But, overall, there are a lot of nice blokes out there online who just cannot seem to find a down to earth T-girl for friendship, dating or LTR in their area or who is not an escort. We can encounter jerks wherever we go, just like we can also encounter classy, easy going, sincere gentlemen. Personally, I am really glad that the internet has more and more forums, personals and groups for us T-girls and those that admire us. It does help make contact with like minded T-girls and polite gentlemen much easier. :D

[Transsexual702]

I PREFER OLE FASHION MEN

I recall the days when men would be the first to call
They were a gentleman without all the playing
But these days men are lazy because
They think of themselves and whatever they can get from anybody

Why have they lost control
Hell with taking things slow
Hell with being polite
Don’t get me wrong there are some who try
But eventually again tell another damn lie
Like nothing was ever wrong
and don’t ever mention the word love

Let's keep it real because these days
A man doesn’t treat a woman like he know he should
They rather take advantage of her and fight
Keep her in the dark without rights
Denying her a life even when she’s a bag of chips and more

Some men with partners still feel alone
Then we wonder why there are so many Gays
I admit that it's very sad
These days it’s all about which TS they can suck off and or lay
When will real love come back
For I'm one who only desires true intimacy
I won’t deal with anything less than love and romance

Ms. LyriCáh V. Salazar
9/5/2005


All that to say I like a man to be a man by being himself and appreicate what a TS has to offer him. We all get freaky - but a polite freak is cool. There's a time and place for everything. :D

[tsluver247]

The best way to meet a man is.....?

I know a lot of males, who use the Men's Restrooms. Your probability of meeting a man in the men's restroom is higher than most places. :lol: :wink:

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[JohnnyPaycheck]

I've had the worst luck meeting women in the mens restrooms

[KaMiLeUnGuRl]

I met online. In a chat room. Yeah the good old chat room, thier relationship wont last OH WAIT its ben about ten months weve only known each other and were still strong. We have our fights and all. Anyways were like the perfect couple I beat him up, he shuts up lol KIDDING
Anyways as for the gurls and guys here who do go to the chat. Ladies Open your minds. Allow these guys to talk to you...Yes there are ALOT of assholes but remember its like finding a needle in a haystack. Dont go in the chat rooms and man bash in the room. And for the guys ASL is not kool. YOUR SEXY/Hot/Beautiful is not kool. I tend to answer Hi/Hey/Hello/How are you's Which is how i met my man. Dont DING a gurl if she aint talking right away its kinda like rushing AND DONT ASK FOR A CAM even if shes got one. Ummm well i was just trying to help out to the best of my knowledge considering this IS online and im sure yall dont just sit here refreshing the page hoping that one is gonna post in here saying IM SINGLE.....lol (watch it happen now) So yes! You can find online love But LOVE is RARE anyways!....its all about RESPECT

[tsluver247]

I've had the worst luck meeting women in the mens restrooms

Not if you go on the infield at the Kentucky Derby. I met at least one woman every time. No lie.

[Juliana_Dominguez]

my recent trip to vegas made me think, i like agressive guys...

"hi my name is ...!"

"so, do you wanna hook-up tonight?"

=]

[WillowQueen]

Well, as you might already guess I don't truly date. So you can guess what kind of men I'm meeting. 30 minutes (sometimes 2 minutes :roll: ) and they're gone. But really, I've meet all types of different guys while escorting. And I really get surprised when the guy is very kind, helps me put my coat on and everything. So it's the sweetness I'm attracted to.... it's a big things with me. Maybe it's only because I don't expect it when working.
Online is a different story. Dating online I find futile and near pointless. I find it rare that a man will come through when starting from an online conversation? Why? Because they get to hide behind a computer screen... they don't have to do anything. The decide against seeing you, they'll just turn off thier computer and go watch some football without telling you he's not going to meet you. Online man's best friend is anonymity.
I never meet a guy I talk to online. But I do talk...and the way to approach me is intellectually. I like to be challenged somewhat when chatting... keeps the mind going and it's fun. Wit is a lost art.

[bunzy]

my recent trip to vegas made me think, i like agressive guys...

"hi my name is ...!"

"so, do you wanna hook-up tonight?"

=]
My question is WHY DO GOOD GIRLS LIKE BAD GUYS!?

[bunzy]

Well, as you might already guess I don't truly date. So you can guess what kind of men I'm meeting. 30 minutes (sometimes 2 minutes :roll: ) and they're gone. But really, I've meet all types of different guys while escorting. And I really get surprised when the guy is very kind, helps me put my coat on and everything. So it's the sweetness I'm attracted to.... it's a big things with me. Maybe it's only because I don't expect it when working.
Online is a different story. Dating online I find futile and near pointless. I find it rare that a man will come through when starting from an online conversation? Why? Because they get to hide behind a computer screen... they don't have to do anything. The decide against seeing you, they'll just turn off thier computer and go watch some football without telling you he's not going to meet you. Online man's best friend is anonymity.
I never meet a guy I talk to online. But I do talk...and the way to approach me is intellectually. I like to be challenged somewhat when chatting... keeps the mind going and it's fun. Wit is a lost art.
YOU'RE RIGHT IN EVERYTHING YOU JUST SAID, BUT...

[Juliana_Dominguez]

my recent trip to vegas made me think, i like agressive guys...

"hi my name is ...!"

"so, do you wanna hook-up tonight?"

=]
My question is WHY DO GOOD GIRLS LIKE BAD GUYS!?

good question, why is it the good girls always want the bad boys... hmmm... i'm turned on with just thinking of it...

[syntax]

good question, why is it the good girls always want the bad boys... hmmm... i'm turned on with just thinking of it...


I'm pretty bad azz

once I crossed the road on the RED walk signal.

and another time, I gave a policeman the finger.....ducking down behind my car door.

<---- Gang$ta son.

[Juliana_Dominguez]

good question, why is it the good girls always want the bad boys... hmmm... i'm turned on with just thinking of it...


I'm pretty bad azz

once I crossed the road on the RED walk signal.

and another time, I gave a policeman the finger.....ducking down behind my car door.

<---- Gang$ta son.

i know you're a bad boy papi!

[MsDazzler]

Not so fond of bad boys anymore. I think it is just a matter of age... it is usually 18-25 years old who like bad boys because of their very rebellious natures... then after 25 years old.. you start to mature and prefer stable men. I know because I jsut turned 25! ack

[Ecstatic]

Hey, Belated Happy Birthday, MsDazz!

[bunzy]

Not so fond of bad boys anymore. I think it is just a matter of age... it is usually 18-25 years old who like bad boys because of their very rebellious natures... then after 25 years old.. you start to mature and prefer stable men. I know because I jsut turned 25! ack
That's a good point, I'll bear that in mind.THANX

[Juliana_Dominguez]

Not so fond of bad boys anymore. I think it is just a matter of age... it is usually 18-25 years old who like bad boys because of their very rebellious natures... then after 25 years old.. you start to mature and prefer stable men. I know because I jsut turned 25! ack

yeah i like the bad boys!!!