Is it hard to love a person who doesn't love you???

[rodmar04]

Hi to all of yah pretty ladies...

Can you please give me your opinion...

I have this boyfriend of mine, we've been together for almost a year. I dont know but i feel that he doesn't love me anymore.. But even though he's cold on me now..I still love him....

I really dont know what to do?

Is this love or stupidity?:(

[Juliana_Dominguez]

gurl there are tons of fishes in the sea for you for sure

[Ecstatic]

Love is a two-way street. Unrequited or one-way love is great as inspiration for art, music, literature, but lousy for relationship, since it takes two to tango. It's fish or cut bait, you know.

[sweetnicole]

sweetie don't waste your time, look for someone that will treat you like a princess. remember from the movie Moulin Rouge "The greatest thing you'll ever know is to love and be loved in return."

[rodmar04]

Ms. Juliana --->> you're right nga po there are lot of fishes in the sea, but i don't like them..I mean iba kc ang feelings ko sa kanya, he's my first love.... arggg...tnx sa opinion po..

Ecstatic --->> thanks for sharing your thoughts... :D

Sweet Nicole --->> I like your thoughts, but how can i easily forget him if
we always see each other... I really wish...

What do yah think guys? should i break with him??


thanks to all of yah guys...love lots...

[rockabilly]

A wise man once said " If you love something set it free, if it comes back its love, if it leaves it wasn't meant to be." dont feel down... love is the easiest thing to give but also the hardest to find, true love especially. Hope this helps:)

[rodmar04]

ohhhh boy!! you're right...gosh!! thanks for sharing your opinion...
now i am realizing it....thanks thanks...

[rockabilly]

I'm glad it was helpful :) Love is a complex thing. I hope it all works out good for you, stay sweet ;)

[brian56]

I agree totally with rockabilly, and others, as love is a two way thing. Both must love as otherwise it is not love.

[cool_bluechic]

girl, y stay when the boys are all waiting behind ur back???! just learn to look back! duh!

[orion]

just hang in there i sure he turn around.
ps. yes there are many guys out there but like fish in the sea you never know what you will catch.

[rodmar04]

girl, y stay when the boys are all waiting behind ur back???! just learn to look back! duh!


you're right bluechic, i didn't realized that..maybe i did love him so much and nothing left for me..heehhee

thanks again.

[rodmar04]

guys!! i found my new guy!!heehheh...

but im still confused...

is he really the new guy or he's just disguising...

well..whatever it is..i'll just make myself happy..heheheh

i dont wanna think negative things now..heeheheh

[autheds09]

I have hit the alt/click to select the area I want to copy from but it doesnt really seem to work all that well. :lost:

[NagaSama]

Hi to all of yah pretty ladies...

Can you please give me your opinion...

I have this boyfriend of mine, we've been together for almost a year. I dont know but i feel that he doesn't love me anymore.. But even though he's cold on me now..I still love him....

I really dont know what to do?

Is this love or stupidity?:(

its love, not stupidity in my opinion

For me, I love even if its not shown back
sometimes maybe even because its not shown back, cos some ppl just cant show that emotion, and sometimes, well, cos i don't know where the off button is lol

But if hes flat out ignoring you, and not treating you like you should be. it may be time to move on.

to stop loving someone, is not something i understand. Once loved, always loved. I love all of my friends, even the ones who have betrayed me. Stupid sounding I know, but life is too short to hate people.

srry im just rambling

Valentines week is not my week
as its always spent alone..

[Trogdor]

If he's ignoring you, to Quote Tom Lycus, DITCH THE BITCH.

As for me, this is the story of my life. I've fallen for many chicks since my first year of high school in 1994, and high school went horribly. Same for the post high school years, 1998-present day. I always let them know what I think, and so on. And they never, EVER reciprocate in the way I hope for. Like high school....I had TONS of girls who were friends, but no girl friends. They'd give me the damned friends speech, and shortly after, I'd catch them on their knees, blowing one of the football players or basketball players. Been like that to this day, and I really, really, REALLY wonder if I should just go gay (even finding cute, and very femme boys are hard to find where I am), or give up altogether and be like a monk or something. Cause with this statistic: Last date I had = December, 1999; Last time I slept with a chick = August, 1998, I'm really wondering why I even bother anymore. I've already quit genetic females for good, makes me wonder what else I'm gonna quit, now. ~Walks off grumbling~


Naga, were you like me, and spent a ton of $ on flowers on Valentine's day during high school? I did, and money's hard to get for a high school kid, and spent most of my birthday cash in the attempt to get the girls' attention. And sadly, I nevergot any in return. In my freshmen year in high school, I got one flower....BUT it had just " ? " on it. So it could have been anyone...or someone playing a sick joke on me. Even to this day, I got no idea who sent me that flower. But yes, Valentine's Day is one of those holidays I dread.

[NagaSama]

Nope, I never spent tons of money on valentines day, in H.S. after one year, buying a single rose for a girl a liked, only to have her BF walk up right when i was giving it to her,

yeah, that killed it for me

[Trogdor]

Nope, I never spent tons of money on valentines day, in H.S. after one year, buying a single rose for a girl I liked, only to have her BF walk up right when i was giving it to her,

yeah, that killed it for me

Did he beat the piss out of you? And did she take the rose? I think I would up spending twenty or so dollars each Valatine's day, and that's a small fortune to a high school kid.

The annoying part was that a lot of these high school girls were dating college guys.

[NagaSama]

No, he laughed, and she laughed, he took the rose from me, and gave it to her, then they walked off

[Trogdor]

No, he laughed, and she laughed, he took the rose from me, and gave it to her, then they walked off

BIG mistake. Should have thrown away the flower, or at least give it to some other chick.
You probably wound up paying for his Valentine's day flowers for him, and he probably got a hot date afterwords. :p

[NagaSama]

you want me to say what actually happened?

fine

He pushed me down, took the flower from me, gave it to her, they both walked off, happy now.


you are just as big of a douche as orion ya know that?

[Trogdor]

you want me to say what actually happened?

fine

He pushed me down, took the flower from me, gave it to her, they both walked off, happy now.


you are just as big of a douche as orion ya know that?

Far from it, I just wanted to know what happened, since it would seem unlikely he'd simply take the rose from you without any physical force is all. o_o I've had similar moments like that myself.

[NagaSama]

the sticks tongue out emote makes it come across as teasing i hope you know *angry*

[Trogdor]

the sticks tongue out emote makes it come across as teasing i hope you know *angry*

More like the sorta face one sees an anime character do when like "What the?" o_o.


~Ponders posting some anime episodes one of these days to show some examples~

[NagaSama]

>.> i have over 600 anime DVDs, of various series lol