How can I find the tgirl of my dreams

[tglover]

I have been chatting with a tgigrl n line for awhile now and everytime we decide to meet she doesn't step up. I'm an honest good looking male looking for a LTR with a TS and I think I've found one, but I don't think she is as serious as I am. What do you ladies think I should do.........?

[lisaparadise]

i feel for ya guy you look very honest and down to earth good luck from my side looking in its impossable to help you out honestly,the worst thing is every nice thing your telling her shes hearing the same thing from alot of men sad to say but its the truth.i hear it everyday everytime i go into a chat room or messanger,its the same for her im sure.if shes an escort book her dont tell her who you are untill after the sex is done if it was awesome sex then tell her its you if the sex sucks[ hah pardon the pun] then move on to the next one thats my education for today honestly good luck and i hope you find your soulmate babe take care always lisa

[~*~ShyGurL~*~]

i agree with lisa! we normally dont take any online guy seriously coz we think that they are just using us to 'get off' and would say every sweetest thing they can possibly say to get what they want...

if the girl lives closer and she's holding back in meeting you then i guess she had a bad experience or just afraid that you might just want her for a day then leave her forever... or maybe she's just shy and needed more time? =) how long have u been talking anyway? the only thing i can tell you is to be more patient, give it a little more time... maybe she's still not sure about how serious you are to her...let her feel that you are serious with her and that she's the only one you are getting close with online...

you wouldnt be able to find the ts of ur dreams in here cause most of them are busy working and dont use computers,the most beautyfull trasexuals ive seen are mostly escorts anyway so i would take lisas advise :wink:

[mark4tg]

ive met & dated tgirls i met online, so that part isnt totally impossible. you must be ready to fight past a girls initial response to lump you with the pervs.
i usually dont mention sex at all when talking online with someone, it will get you tossed in the perv pile in seconds & its just pretty rude in general. UNLESS she takes it to a sexual level or if you ask permission to talk about sexual topics.
BE YOURSELF. dont worry about faking who you are or talking certain aspects up. be natural & genuine. it shouldnt be that hard anyway & lying on the net is something girls are beyond sick of. If a girl doesnt go for it, well thems the breaks. Move on.
Guys seeking tgirls will spend enormous ammounts of time on the net searching for them. Thats just the reality of it for us guys. Most of us may not have any place to meet tgirls readily available so the Net is all we have. Thats not to say that going out to a Trans friendly place is outa the question. Real life interaction far surpasses typing anyday.
Your quest is hard & it will take time, though not impossible. Chase your dream, Be Yourself, & dont be a perv. If you are a perv naturally, well its gona be even harder to reach your dream. Sorry.

[~*~ShyGurL~*~]

very well said there mark... its very much possible to meet and date a ts online, though its really hard for men to find one. We, girls find it hard to believe what men tells us most of the time. We often think that you guys are just sweet-talking us and says the same thing with other girls...

if you want a relationship with a ts online then dont talk about sex all the time, better yet dont open up a topic about sex! let the girl open such topic... ive talked with quite a few guys online, out of like a thousand only 1 man didnt even ask me what i like sexually !!! and yeah, that guy is my bf =) i was so nervous the first time we met and the first time we were in bed. I was scared that he might ask me to top him! luckily he didnt =) we didnt do much at all in bed, it was mostly cuddling and kissing... he is a man with sooo much respect and am thankful to have wonderful bf =)

just be you and show respect like you are talking to the girl face to face...

PS

he is back to cebu next month... dec 5 to be exact, its gonna be the 3rd time he will be in cebu since december last year, am excited :D :D :D

shy gurl ive bee :twisted: n paying alot of attention to you lately on the other forums you seem so much up ur self gal and offensive to other tgirls

guys only like you cause youre asian so dont act as if youre the best thing in the world ok,and dont be offensive about other cultures, its mean

plus you're not shy girlfriend you're actually coniving,nice quote from you

"love me or il be gone"yeah real shy rightttt :? yeah rightttt

[~*~ShyGurL~*~]

excuse me ? lol hater i see? or just insecure ?

[~*~ShyGurL~*~]

shy gurl ive bee :twisted: n paying alot of attention to you lately on the other forums you seem so much up ur self gal and offensive to other tgirls

other forum? you mean this http://s13.invisionfree.com/DSGN ? lol or did u mean chatroom like gay.com? who ever you are, mind your own business! this is the only forum i go to aside from that forum... forum of a game i play! i dont think ive been offensive to any other girls here and i dont think ive been offensive with other cultures!!! you obviously you have nothing good to do in your life but to look for trouble...

i dare you to prove what u mean by me being offensive on girls on 'other' forum u are saying!

[~*~ShyGurL~*~]

and oh btw, if u are smart enough you would have known that a nick someone uses doesnt really suggests the kind of person she/he is!

[~*~ShyGurL~*~]

plus you're not shy girlfriend you're actually coniving,nice quote from you

"love me or il be gone"yeah real shy rightttt :? yeah rightttt

let me correct you! its actually "please love me or i'll be gone" is that phrase familiar to you ? i got that text from a song! why make a fuss about it ? hmmmm????

you're ugly in and out and you know it

[~*~ShyGurL~*~]

sorry but i've been told by lots that am otherwise lol!

yeah u maybe right, i maybe ugly inside and out! but i know you are uglier than me inside and out... at least am not some insecure who attacks someone without even disclosing her identity!

[romeo]

ShyGurL don't take too seriously what "guest" said...she/he is just a troll...otherwise he/she would have already an account on this site :roll:

[Texxx]

if i could get back on topic-

how does a guy find a girl since online is usually very sexually oriented and they don't want a girl who is into the clubbing/gay scene. you know, a girl that just lives as a girl, not as a TS. does that make sense what i am asking?

[lisaparadise]

omg no clubbing, jesus man you gotta better chance of seeing god lol

[Texxx]

omg no clubbing, jesus man you gotta better chance of seeing god lol
LOL...exactly my point!
i'm just not into that scene. i like sitting at a bar and actually being able to talk to someone.

[Britchlins]

people that go to clubs arent looking for Mr/Mrs Right, thier only looking for Mr/Mrs Rightnow.

i met my hubby through a room mate(reads:scary tranny)i used to room with . we met dec 99. i thought he was just a horny man, a real hound right, turns out i had just wowed him and he was dying to get with me and he had just gotten his T-rone shot.... i didnt see or hear anything of him for a couple years. i called him up asking if he wanted to join me for a coffee, and that was that. weve been together ever sence.

P.S. is really is a horny man cuz he's always jacked up on testosterone :twisted:

i guess it would be rather tough for a guy looking to get into a relationship with a tgrrl. the only places that they tend to hang out at are the clubs.....

most clubs have a msg board where you can leave msgs for peoples you find attractive.... you find someone attractive, leave them a msg to go for a coffee or dinner, maybe a movie. just dont go leaving msgs like "ur hawt!!! i wana sex j00!!1+1"

where i live there is no such thing as a t-club, if there was it would get burned down. but we do have the gay clubs, which on friday/saturday nights are usually hopping with young peeps lookin to get thier freak on.

i'm rambling......

[Jordan]

Did you ever stop to think that this girl may have had a horrible past relationship and all she needs is time to make sure it's right?

I have been chatting with a tgigrl n line for awhile now and everytime we decide to meet she doesn't step up. I'm an honest good looking male looking for a LTR with a TS and I think I've found one, but I don't think she is as serious as I am. What do you ladies think I should do.........?

Turn around and look for another one. Remember, lot of fishes in the ocean. Don't waste ur time for one ts who is not serious with you. That is my opinion. Good luck to u.

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