A response to "does it make me gay if i have sex with a transsexual"

[Wondergirl]

My response is "I don't know but it does make you an asshole if you are only interested in sex, and not a relationship, with a transsexual". :)


....i just thought its cute that i've thought that. lol.

[seanchai]

... "an asshole" ... or "in an asshole" ;-)

Ooops - edit - I meant the body part not the person, phew!

[BeardedOne]

A fair response. One I'll never hear (But only because I'm not likely to say the 'amigay' thing).

[Mikel]

lol. well, if the person is asking that, they must be in-secure or really think and care about what other people say more than about what they think.
you can always ask them "Did you know she was a transsexual?" "Do you like her for who she is?" "Do you consider her a woman?" But then again, when a person asks that topic question... It's probably best to simply avoid them in the first place.

[AngelOrtega]

YES!!! hahah jp Gees does it matter.... OMIGOD IM GAY LoL... Either way Your a person regardless.... sorry guys but if you like the "Shemale" for thier COCK then you obviously like the cock and thats it... I mean my ex used to look at 60 yr old Hairy CDs with thier cam not even showing thier face, so yeah he did consider himself GAY by the time my friends got done with telling him the meaning lol
But if you like the person for who they are, whether guy girl tg ts cd, and not thier tool, then yeah Your a person... dont worry if your gay or not lol
This was prolly some loser anting to hear more intimate stuff so he can whack off to it

[Mikel]

i disagree angel. if you like some one for who they are, picking and choosing isn't right. so simply put, just because you like some one for who they are, but you are afraid to like them because they have a penis or a pussy, would not make you gay, or lesbian, or bisexual or anything else.

I don't like the term shemale. It sounds too derogatory.

If you look at science, the clitoris is a pre-evolved state of the penis. The evolution occurs when the embryo is still in the womb. It is simply a mutation. So... What you're saying is... We are all... gay?

If you like some one, you like some one, and if you feel you are gay straight lesbian bisexual transsexual or other wise than be yourself and absolutely be TRUE to yourself.
If you like some one for who they are, what is in their pants DOES NOT MATTER. Every part of the person is real, and your sexuality is not determined by a body part, or what any one else says. It is determined by what you believe.

So simply put, Angel voiced her opinion. I voiced mine.

[Wondergirl]

"the clitoris is a pre-evolved state of the penis"



are you sure, thats interesting..but it would suggest that women are not as evolved as men..which is kind of offensive lol.

I agree that sexuality is whatever one's say one is. I do believe a striaght man can love a transsexual woman be sexually attracted to her, pre op or post op.

[Mikel]

i don't agree with all of science. =O
I kinda like to think that men are a down grade from women. lol. More violent, self-centered. yada yada yada. lol but scientifically speaking at some point there is a chance for a mutation to occur, otherwise in the womb...
just like sex is predetermined but gender is not.
speaking of which...

all these other countries and people believe in a third gender, so why is the north american countries still so hell bent on only two?

[Ecstatic]

i don't agree with all of science. =O
I kinda like to think that men are a down grade from women. lol. More violent, self-centered. yada yada yada. lol but scientifically speaking at some point there is a chance for a mutation to occur, otherwise in the womb...
just like sex is predetermined but gender is not.
speaking of which...

all these other countries and people believe in a third gender, so why is the north american countries still so hell bent on only two?

Could it be the American two party system? Seriously though, you're basically right, sexual differentiation of external genitalia occurs in the womb between 8 and 12 weeks. Sexual differentiation can be either sex-dichotomous (characteristic of one sex only, such as ovaries, uterus, or phallic urethra) or sex-dimorphic (differences of degree, such the most obvious, the size of the phallus).

It's not quite that the clitoris develops into a penis, but rather that, in the absence of androgens which evoke the male development beginning at 8 weeks, a fetus will continue to develop the genital tubercle, urogenital groove and sinus, and labioscrotal folds (all of which appear at week 7) into the clitoris, urethra and vagina, and labia. In males, the androgenic hormonal shift occurs prompting these to develop instead into the penis and scrotum: androgens enlarge the phallus, and the urogenital groove and sinus fuse, resulting in a penis with a phallic urethra, and scrotum in place of labia.

Sometimes there's a hormonal imbalance or chromosomal distinction which causes partial differentiation, leading to intersexual condition (traditionally called hermaphroditic, though that term is now obsolete), such as Klinefletter's Syndrome, but that's another story.

[Mikel]

Ah we have a medical researcher in the house =)
Yes. As a son of a physician, and surgeon I have fortunately been raised to understand the sciences.

But it leads back to the fact that the body part does not determine whether you are one way or not. We all have the body parts, whether they were affected during production in the womb or not, ergo you are not one way or another simply because you like a woman for what is in their panties. Whether you are one way or another, I would believe, would be a personal, and mental/psychological feeling.

But once again, in the personal notion, it is still a personal opinion on that matter.

[Wondergirl]

i learned so much...from reading you two :D

[Mikel]

We try.

[AngelOrtega]

um mike, go back and re read my post........ i said... a person is a person.... not "your all gay!"

your so gay for not readin right lol

*Note for you, im not a bitch its all in how you read the text lol

[AngelOrtega]

no wait im a bitch hehe

[Mikel]

...sorry guys but if you like the "Shemale" for thier COCK then you obviously like the cock and thats it...

This is not true, because you should like some one in their entirety. Not saying to just like their cock, but if you don't like them for all that they are, there is something simply wrong.

So if you do like them, for everything, including what is in their pants, NO you do not only like their cock.

[Jordan]

That question is the most awkward when asked after you just have mind blowing take your breath away sex with a ahem "Straight" guy. LOL..oh the memories..

[flombago]

My response is "I don't know but it does make you an asshole if you are only interested in sex, and not a relationship, with a transsexual".

There are two issues here: "gay if you like transexuals" and "asshole if only interested in sex".

"Asshole" is a strong pejorative. I don't think it's bad to be interested only in sex, *IF* one is upfront and honest about it. Then it becomes just another perhaps undesirable characteristic about a person that you can quickly learn, and avoid them accordingly. But if a guy tries to fool you (e.g. saying "I care about you" when he does not), then he's an asshole. Just my opinion.

Regarding the "gay" question, I think that many guys on this forum like MTF transexuals but not men. Still, the rest of society would probably call that gay. But we should not care. And BTW, here's one reason I'd like to see gay marriage become legal: even if it doesn't affect you directly (no plans for a gay marriage) it will help promote normalcy and acceptance for transgenderism.

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[AngelOrtega]

This is not true, because you should like some one in their entirety. Not saying to just like their cock, but if you don't like them for all that they are, there is something simply wrong.

So if you do like them, for everything, including what is in their pants, NO you do not only like their cock.

I said Sorry guys but IF you like the "SHEMALE" for thier cock

Read it carefully, IF YOU LIKE THE "SHEMALE" FOR THE COCK.... Basically saying The guys who go after the cock call us Shemales, I dont like the term myself.... dont go after another girl for saying shemale ESPECIALLY if she Quote UnQuotes it. My main point was NO MATTER WHO WHAT OR ANYTHING YOU LIKE your still a person, does it make you any less of one for bieng with someone of interest... I think this question is utterly STUPID!!!! Period! When a guy asks me this question i say YES YOU GOT A PROBLEM WITH IT? then they are stumped, Most really dont care, Its a fetish thing to most of them..... Kinda like Will it hurt? They just want an answer out of you.... But although we have right to speak our minds.... I stick with my point and back it to its fullest.

TY

[Jordan]

no wait im a bitch hehe

I concur! Yup your a bitch!!

[AngelOrtega]

I concur! Yup your a bitch!!


*Ahem, Miss THAAAANG, who did i get it from? hehe

[IndyCloset]

I said Sorry guys but IF you like the "SHEMALE" for thier cock

Read it carefully, IF YOU LIKE THE "SHEMALE" FOR THE COCK.... Basically saying The guys who go after the cock call us Shemales, I dont like the term myself.... dont go after another girl for saying shemale ESPECIALLY if she Quote UnQuotes it. My main point was NO MATTER WHO WHAT OR ANYTHING YOU LIKE your still a person, does it make you any less of one for bieng with someone of interest... I think this question is utterly STUPID!!!! Period! When a guy asks me this question i say YES YOU GOT A PROBLEM WITH IT? then they are stumped, Most really dont care, Its a fetish thing to most of them..... Kinda like Will it hurt? They just want an answer out of you.... But although we have right to speak our minds.... I stick with my point and back it to its fullest.

TY

Why is everybody taking this chick so serious?!

If Hallie Berry and Angelina Jollie both had dicks. Every man on the planet would be gay! Happy that is... because gay wouldn't even mean homo anymore LOL!

I like "WOMEN" the prettier the better. And if they just happen to have an over sized clit swollen enough to stimulate my A-spot then so be it!

And to the Wonderchick that made the first comment... Get over it! Everybody wants something just because the guy you met didn't stay for breakfast don't make the rest of us assholes! For me deeply commited relationships (gg or tg) just aren't likely. So live your life okay.

[Mikel]

Heh, Indy. As Ecstatic and I both pointed out, the science behind the matter, whether she is taken seriously or not, it points out some creditation issues to her educationability (can i make that a new word. not two, but one? PLEAASSEEEEEEEEE)
since gay is a matter of mental and psychological desire (not a choice, is what is believed) then you can't simply be gay for choosing to like, since science believes it is not a choice. hmm.
interesting.

this is one hot topic that may start a total war.
ooohhhh hot topic. thats a store. awesome :-)

[AngelOrtega]

yeah but all in all i know im right..... with out using "Dictionary terms" Or making up new words... theres no war when it comes to me hunni.... ill win... why join a war your not gonna win, unless it gets you off ;) HAHA But anyways once the mind starts showing a point of no return, I usually quit cause thats when I know ive won. lol So basically quit getting all butthurt cause i said SHEMALE and GAY!!! Oh noes I said it again... FUEL FUEL FUEL

[Mikel]

No one's butt hurt over anything you say.
The un-educated never win the war.
Take the battle of the bulge, for instance. tsk tsk

[Wondergirl]

just for the record, this topic is created not because i have sex with someone...I didn't...

[AngelOrtega]

lol battle of the bulge..... hmmmm I WIN lol

[AngelOrtega]

lol Street Smarts are better than book smarts lol
While your sitting there saying you big words that probably take ten seconds to say, It only takes less than a second to kick you in the nuts like the dog your trying to act like lol

[AngelOrtega]

Okay and besides, your sitting here like you know what the hell is bieng said, but in all fact of the matter you misunderstood from the get go and your making yourself look un edumacated..... (Figure I stoop to your edumacationability for a minute) Anyways theres no need to attack wondergirl for making a topic, you have tried to steer off from. Basically, you veered off towards me.... then try to throw her in the mix.... how sad.... anyways.... I dont need to sit here and tell you that you are wrong from the get go... and Whoever makes a posting in here, should be able to post any question they want.... Hello theres a post in Top or bottom or BOTH.... hmmmm lets see maybe i should make a poll on how many people think mike is trying to be an asshole? or maybe he is, who knows.... I say its off by four letters, cause to me your just trying to be an ass..... which your succeeding... Now go hee haw your way away from trying to bash me for your insecurity, and misunderstandings.... Tah tah.... Oh look, I WIN lol again

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[seanchai]

just for the record, this topic is created not because i have sex with someone...I didn't...

Do you wanna ? ;-)

Friday night, just after tea ...

[AngelOrtega]

haha seanchai :P Yer so funny :P




TAKE PICS HAHAHA Im sure Mike would pay to see em :P

[IndyCloset]

haha seanchai :P Yer so funny :P




TAKE PICS HAHAHA Im sure Mike would pay to see em :P


.....Okay, back to back comments about a dead issue doesn't really count as winning anything.

But since your in this alone at this you could aways beat yourself LOL!

[Wondergirl]

Do you wanna ? ;-)

Friday night, just after tea ...

okay but only if you don't film it..:D

[Mikel]

like the dog i am? you're cute, but still retarded.

[quirkymuse]

maybe the larger issue thats being missed here is that "gay" or "straight" isnt really about who you fuck but who you love


lets all be honest for a minute...80% of america has experienced same sex fun...perhaps even on a regular basis, i went to enough glory holes in my early sex-addiction years to know there are a TON of straight men who like guys....and no im not being sarcastic


if you want to know if you are gay or straight dont think about what you want to fuck....think about what you want bringing you soup if you are feeling sick....cause thats what you are...









but if you take it in the ass you're gay........j/k!