Top, Bottom, or both...

[CaliBoy951]

I was wondering what percentage of the T-girls prefer top, bottom or both? In my experience it seems that most say they are bottoms, but like to top at times.
There is a story behind this question.

Thanks!

[shellie_dee]

Hmmm..

Bottom, I am all girl when it comes to that.

I love the closeness and intimacy of being penetrated just as a GG would.

so there you go..

S

[WillowQueen]

Mostly I top, but I really don't mind being a bottom. I guess it would have to depend on who I'm with and what they prefer doing. But I don't like to strictly be on one side.

[kalina]

Top. :)

[marissaaz]

bottom

[tsluva]

i'd say the majority of tgirls prefer to botttom.
i'd say the majority of working tgirls do top (due to number of clients who
prefer them to be top) but i'd bet their preference is to be versatile.

what i do wonder though is what happens to the tgirl who prefers to top
but the effects of hormone treatment affects her erection ?
.

[Ecstatic]

Well, she's got a choice to make: go off the 'mones or give up topping. A Thai friend of mine tells me she started on 'mones when she was 12 or 13, so she needs only a small dosage now to maintain herself, a dosage which doesn't interfere with her erection. (She also says that she was exclusively bottom in Thailand, and was shocked in the US to find so many guys demanding that she top. At first she was repulsed by the idea, but she tried it and discovered that she really likes it!)

[WillowQueen]

Yeah, I had a choice to make and I gave up mones.

[River]

Do some girls abuse Viagra cause of this? I was curious as to this if your on hormones, and take Viagra (or Cialis or the ilk) is there danger in this.

[victoriajaye]

bttm but can top if the need arises

[shellie_dee]

I guess I am blessed in that I have internal as well as external orgasms. Hormones will not be a factor for me, should I lose the use of "it."

"It" doesn't get much use anyway. :p

[absolutecarla]

I'm a bottom and I'm lazy that's why I can't be top haha but maybe if I get really horny and my partner is into it then I think I could top.

[kwjones]

luv it when it when a Tgirl is top, now to find one to date

[Juliana_Dominguez]

100% bottom

[CaliBoy951]

Interesting...thanks for the input.

[Trogdor]

Well, she's got a choice to make: go off the 'mones or give up topping. A Thai friend of mine tells me she started on 'mones when she was 12 or 13, so she needs only a small dosage now to maintain herself, a dosage which doesn't interfere with her erection. (She also says that she was exclusively bottom in Thailand, and was shocked in the US to find so many guys demanding that she top. At first she was repulsed by the idea, but she tried it and discovered that she really likes it!)

Well, if she likes both, send her my way then. :P

[johnny v8]

I can never be a bottom, just dont like it. I would love to be with a tgirl who is a total bottom.

[MizzJune]

I am completely asexual...I enjoy foreplay of the mind....and I mate with my fingers! :P

[IndyCloset]

I am completely asexual...I enjoy foreplay of the mind....and I mate with my fingers! :P


Wow, what a woman!!! ;)

[shemadmirer]

i like both.

[meghanchavalier]

Whatever feels good :confused:

[Filipina_TG]

Asian cultures are mostly Bottom. Some tgirls here don't admit that they have done to be on Top coz people will laught at them and Its also feels kinda degrading for some tgirls to also know that some Tgirls or some of her friends is doing a manhood thing, If she admit this to her Tgirl friends they will say "YUCCCKKK", true! Top here is not been tolerated for decades lol. But in myself... I like to be fully bottom I feel more woman in this way.

You don't need an expert to figure this out. That is why some Tgirls go POST-op and some stay Pre-op but not all pre-op wants to do a manhood thing.

[Juliana_Dominguez]

Asian cultures are mostly Bottom. Some tgirls here don't admit that they have done to be on Top coz people will laught at them and Its also feels kinda degrading for some tgirls to also know that some Tgirls or some of her friends is doing a manhood thing, If she admit this to her Tgirl friends they will say "YUCCCKKK", true! Top here is not been tolerated for decades lol. But in myself... I like to be fully bottom I feel more woman in this way.

You don't need an expert to figure this out. That is why some Tgirls go POST-op and some stay Pre-op but not all pre-op wants to do a manhood thing.

this is very true! if you're a tgirl, and you top and your friends knew about it, they'd be first, be in shock, and would be grossed out by it.

[Mandy M]

It totally depends on who I'm with and what the context is. If its work, I don't really care. If its play, my sex life is a lot more complicated than top or bottom, especially when you throw BDSM into the mix.

So I think I will second Megan and say whatever feels good.

Mandy
http://mandytgirl.com

[kalina]

I'm this weird anomaly, I guess. All my friends know I'm a top and I always was...but I was born in America, so maybe that has something to do with my preference. I don't feel any less of a woman to be able to or want to top.

I think height might be a factor. Most Asian women (GGs and Ts) are on the shorter side, so the preconception might be that they're dainty little submissive flowers (or come up with your own preconception, which might not always be true since I know some short Asian women who can crush the Devil's nuts) whereas I'm a tad under 5'8 so, being taller, I just feel like I can take on a more dominant role.

[Ecstatic]

A Thai woman who's a good friend of mine tells me that, in Thailand, she not only was always bottom, guys wouldn't even go near her 'boy stuff' and she was totally happy that way. When she moved to the US she was shocked at how many guys wanted her to top, and at first the idea disgusted her. Then she tried it, and discovered that she really liked it! Now she's very versatile.

[Filipina_TG]

I'm this weird anomaly, I guess. All my friends know I'm a top and I always was...but I was born in America, so maybe that has something to do with my preference. I don't feel any less of a woman to be able to or want to top.

I think height might be a factor. Most Asian women (GGs and Ts) are on the shorter side, so the preconception might be that they're dainty little submissive flowers (or come up with your own preconception, which might not always be true since I know some short Asian women who can crush the Devil's nuts) whereas I'm a tad under 5'8 so, being taller, I just feel like I can take on a more dominant role.


Umm, actually its not about the hieght, Im 5'8 and I had an ex who is only 5'6. I think It is more about the culture, type of people or environment you grew up.

There is also a competition here. In a Tgirl... The smaller you have the more you feel confident in yourself becoz there is nothing to worried about tucking. In any occassions (beauty contest, parties, swimming etc etc) If your bulge showed up in crowd, people will laught at you. Yes they know your a tgirl but... If you intended to show up your male genetalia, people will not respect you. Unlike in Western culture it is very opposite, I saw a TV show where a girl and tgirl argueing, the tgirl try to pissed off the girl by showing her cock and the audience clap for what the tgirl did like it is kinda cool. But here... If a tgirl do that, she will carry the big embarrasement to the people know about her.

So yea, that is the story about the big majority of "bottom" in TGIRLs here in Philippines.

[Viridian]

I enjoy foreplay of the mind....and I mate with my fingers! :P

So I guess people... blow your mind then? :lol:

[kalina]

There is also a competition here. In a Tgirl... The smaller you have the more you feel confident in yourself becoz there is nothing to worried about tucking. In any occassions (beauty contest, parties, swimming etc etc) If your bulge showed up in crowd, people will laught at you. Yes they know your a tgirl but... If you intended to show up your male genetalia, people will not respect you. Unlike in Western culture it is very opposite, I saw a TV show where a girl and tgirl argueing, the tgirl try to pissed off the girl by showing her cock and the audience clap for what the tgirl did like it is kinda cool. But here... If a tgirl do that, she will carry the big embarrasement to the people know about her.

Eeeek. I'm not into showing that I have a penis in public. I think those TV talk shows are very embarrassing for all of us and do not represent the way most Westerners think. If it's a Springer, Maury, Montel Wms, or show like that, just disregard it because they get audience members that hang the word "dumbass" on their foreheads.

[victoriajaye]

Whatever feels good :confused:

well said!

[GOTTAHAVEONION]

i have been with more than my share on a non professional basis. i would say with ease all were versatile. but hey its prob just the type of girl i attract.

[justatransgirl]

I'm a little late here, but... I'm a bottom at heart. Before I started escorting I was exclusively a bottom. Then as others have said, I did what I had to do to pay the rent.

Before I transitioned I had one BF for about 6 years. We were both in the closet but I was his girl. He was a super macho commerical fisherman and a real man. He wasn't into my cock at all, never touched it. But he loved greek.

I really don't like to stick my thing into things. I like girls, but I don't like f**king them, and I like men who are men and want me to be their girl. But what's wierd is I have no problem with using a strap on with either sex, like any other girl.

I can be very domme as "Mistress Jamie" and for sure I like a little bdsm, but it's not a lifestyle thing. (Yeah that's why we have a wall full of sex toys and pain implements in the bedroom.) :-) And I used to like being a sub in bdsm play, but the last year or so I've decided I like the fantasy of being spanked (really hard) a lot more that the reality. But I'll do anything if the price is right.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)
That's "Mistress" to you, worm...

[GIA LOVES RON]

I'm a little late here, but... I'm a bottom at heart. Before I started escorting I was exclusively a bottom. Then as others have said, I did what I had to do to pay the rent.

Before I transitioned I had one BF for about 6 years. We were both in the closet but I was his girl. He was a super macho commerical fisherman and a real man. He wasn't into my cock at all, never touched it. But he loved greek.

I really don't like to stick my thing into things. I like girls, but I don't like f**king them, and I like men who are men and want me to be their girl. But what's wierd is I have no problem with using a strap on with either sex, like any other girl.

I can be very domme as "Mistress Jamie" and for sure I like a little bdsm, but it's not a lifestyle thing. (Yeah that's why we have a wall full of sex toys and pain implements in the bedroom.) :-) And I used to like being a sub in bdsm play, but the last year or so I've decided I like the fantasy of being spanked (really hard) a lot more that the reality. But I'll do anything if the price is right.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)


That's "Mistress" to you, worm...

Hahahah! Very cute Jamie. LOve the whole "I don't like to stick my thing into things". That made me cracked. Anyway, yes I believe most of the Asian countries transexxuals there tend to be always and I mean always be the bottom. No more, no less. But since I got here in the US, men here have very different approach when it comes to whose going to be the bottom and whose going to be the top. I personally love being a bottom and always have been but at the same time I am not close minded when it comes to being a top but since i'm with my really straight boyfriend. Guess that wouldn't be happening soon unless I'm doing it with someone else !hahahhaha! I'm such a devil! I feel wierd after saying this but i'm just being honest.:o

[ginnie4u]

i think being versatile also counts....

i do bottom and be top when situation calls for it... after all it's not nice eating steaks all the time...

[Ecstatic]

i think being versatile also counts....

i do bottom and be top when situation calls for it... after all it's not nice eating steaks all the time...


LOL! That's a great line! Welcome to the forum, I think you'll like it here!

[ginnie4u]

thanks and i am enjoying beacause of you're kind appreciation...

good day

[hotboi]

i think being versatile also counts....

i do bottom and be top when situation calls for it... after all it's not nice eating steaks all the time...



what guy wouldn't want a sexy cock in his ass every now and then? If you can't mix it up, its no excitement....bleh.:p

[Wondergirl]

I am bottom. For me, that's the point of being a girl. I have never been interested in using that thing to penetrate anyone and I never had..

[lick_n_u]

ts that top..love it

[loudact]

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[StephyStar]

I guess I had been transitioning for about two years, I was around 19, when I started dating a guy who wanted me strictly as a bottom.

At the time, like I said, I was new to the transition and very sexual (in the sense that I was attacted to everyone..women included) and enjoyed being a top far more than a bottom.

This boyfriend was the first boyfriend I ever had who treated me like a complete lady--all he asked was that I act like a lady and give up what he perceived as masculine traits. So I did, I broke it off with my female friend at the time and was a total bottom in my relationship with the guy (I even gave up masturbation.)

Maybe it was the hormones or maybe it was love or maybe it was just me, but I never felt so comfartable in my life. I quickly learned that I didn't know how to use my little tool and that he was far better equipped and better able to handle those type of tasks.

Since that time, I never have had the urge to be a top.

[hotboi]

Asian cultures are mostly Bottom. Some tgirls here don't admit that they have done to be on Top coz people will laught at them and Its also feels kinda degrading for some tgirls to also know that some Tgirls or some of her friends is doing a manhood thing, If she admit this to her Tgirl friends they will say "YUCCCKKK", true! Top here is not been tolerated for decades lol. But in myself... I like to be fully bottom I feel more woman in this way.

You don't need an expert to figure this out. That is why some Tgirls go POST-op and some stay Pre-op but not all pre-op wants to do a manhood thing.

ok. So you mean to tell me if I had a ts gf and I wanted her to fuck me in the ass that her friends or other ts chics will down her for that? Fuck that! If I want some dick, I want some dick...especially if my gf got one! Fukka toy, any of that....I want her fucking me! If other ts chics can't understand that, fuck em! Who cares about what they think? It's about what the two do to each other....

that's a damn shame..lmao! Just do what you do...fuck the world. Get dick...

[hotboi]

I guess I had been transitioning for about two years, I was around 19, when I started dating a guy who wanted me strictly as a bottom.

At the time, like I said, I was new to the transition and very sexual (in the sense that I was attacted to everyone..women included) and enjoyed being a top far more than a bottom.

This boyfriend was the first boyfriend I ever had who treated me like a complete lady--all he asked was that I act like a lady and give up what he perceived as masculine traits. So I did, I broke it off with my female friend at the time and was a total bottom in my relationship with the guy (I even gave up masturbation.)

Maybe it was the hormones or maybe it was love or maybe it was just me, but I never felt so comfartable in my life. I quickly learned that I didn't know how to use my little tool and that he was far better equipped and better able to handle those type of tasks.

Since that time, I never have had the urge to be a top.

you dealt with a guy who had issues.....only using you to live out his fantasy....he also had an emotional block. I say you start masturbating again...love your cock, and get back to cumming in some stupid guys eyeball for being a jerk.

[GIA LOVES RON]

you dealt with a guy who had issues.....only using you to live out his fantasy....he also had an emotional block. I say you start masturbating again...love your cock, and get back to cumming in some stupid guys eyeball for being a jerk.

You have a point there, but all transsexual women are not the same when it comes to viewing the perception of having a penis. As "StephyStar" said she felt more comfortable being bottom and it makes her happy being a bottom in the straight relationship that she has. I am assuming that her boyfriend is the same as mine very straight to the sense that he views and loves her as a "biological woman" and that's it. It seems that her boyfriend loves her for her not because she is indeed a transsexual or was born in the wrong body but because probably of her personality, the way they click in day to day life, or just pure love. Im sure he acknowledges the fact that she is a transsexual but he doesn't treat her or have sex with her in that way. Same with my case, my boyfriend wanted to be with me because he likes me "the person" not the fact that I am a transsexual therefore he could care less for the penis thing. "Sex wise", it is very different for pre-ops like me to really have full sex with him or men like him who understand girls like me but still go ahead in the relationship knowing that they have to give up "pussy" for a while till we get it done. Believe it or not, there are men that just won't go in the other spectrum of their sexuality , THEY LIKE PUSSY , THAT'S IT! NO MORE, NO LESS.It is what it is and if you really love someone, you are willing to sacrifice a lot of things even if it means that a transsexual women would disregard and not use their penises and continue with their lives. Girls like me and StephyStar has the ultimate long term goal of having a vagina so right now, we are just really acknowledging the fact that we still have penises and we can't do anything about it till the right time comes to get it surgically corrected! Just my point of view! This doesn't apply to every trans-girl in the world!:) By the way, men that are in long term relationship with us doesn't VIEW US AS FANTASY, THEY OBVIOUSLY VIEW US AS THEIR REALITY, BECAUSE THEY LIVE WITH US DAY IN AND DAY OUT, GO TO MALLS WITH US, GO EAT TO RESTAURANTS WITH US. WHILE MEN THAT JUST DO IT FOR "SEXUAL DESIRES" ARE THE ONES THAT ACTUALLY VIEWS US AS FANTASY BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY THEY WILL STILL GO HOME WITH THEIR WIVES, GIRLFRIEND, OR WHATEVER! GET IT!

[absolutecarla]

you dealt with a guy who had issues.....only using you to live out his fantasy....he also had an emotional block. I say you start masturbating again...love your cock, and get back to cumming in some stupid guys eyeball for being a jerk.

Ok, you have some points about how some girls just do sex reassignment surgery just to please their bf. And that tgirls who still prefer to have something extra should be true to themselves and not restrict themselves on having and experiencing sexual pleasures. But you failed on delivering these points because it's overshadowed by your excessive use profanity and insensitivity to the tgirls who've had srs surgery.

It seems as thought you're the one with fantasies. How come you talk about us tgirls as though only our penises matter like were some sex equipment. And you have to accept that some tgirls opt to have sex reassignment surgery and some do not because it's our choice. Don't you even care about how we feel? Is having sex with us the only thing that matter to you? Can't you post anything that doesn't have cock, cum, tgirl, f*ck on the same paragraph?

[Juliana_Dominguez]

omygosh hotboi, how dare you say that, such a shame! i am sure you're one of the guys that we call as tranny chasers who wouldn't even have the courage and be a man be with a tgirl, you're shallow and just like cocks on tgirls, i don't judge you if you want a tgirl to top you, but please respect one's choice, if a girl wants to be a bottom, let her, if a girl wants to be a top, let her, if a girl is versatile, let her. with being with a transgendered women, it's not all about our cocks! we have feelings too!

[KellyShore]

I totally agree with Meghan whatever feels good!

I love topping just as much as I love bottoming.

Shoot I just love sex lol

[GIA LOVES RON]

omygosh hotboi, how dare you say that, such a shame! i am sure you're one of the guys that we call as tranny chasers who wouldn't even have the courage and be a man be with a tgirl, you're shallow and just like cocks on tgirls, i don't judge you if you want a tgirl to top you, but please respect one's choice, if a girl wants to be a bottom, let her, if a girl wants to be a top, let her, if a girl is versatile, let her. with being with a transgendered women, it's not all about our cocks! we have feelings too!
Totally agree SIS!

[CaliBoy951]

ummm...errr....can't we all get along?!!

[StephyStar]

Ok, you have some points about how some girls just do sex reassignment surgery just to please their bf. And that tgirls who still prefer to have something extra should be true to themselves and not restrict themselves on having and experiencing sexual pleasures. But you failed on delivering these points because it's overshadowed by your excessive use profanity and insensitivity to the tgirls who've had srs surgery.

It seems as thought you're the one with fantasies. How come you talk about us tgirls as though only our penises matter like were some sex equipment. And you have to accept that some tgirls opt to have sex reassignment surgery and some do not because it's our choice. Don't you even care about how we feel? Is having sex with us the only thing that matter to you? Can't you post anything that doesn't have cock, cum, tgirl, f*ck on the same paragraph?

I wish I were as eloquent as you. Thanks for understanding.

[WillowQueen]

I guess I can understand Stephy's POV, and fine with it. I just sounds like you had to sacrifice everything and he didn't have to do anything. Not that it didn't work out for you... that's not point. But relationships are about compromise, and I se you must be passive.
Maybe I just incorrectly perceived it, and he really in an understanding guy who will give up things for you, it's just the wording kinda gave me a different idea.
Were you allowed to at least still talk to the other girl? Or did he want you to not talk to any other girl?


Feel free to correct me, as I jump to conclusions based on available data.

[uriah]

Awww shucks in someones elses terms...You cats and dogs need to reconsile cause it's so obvious to me and everyone else...You just do what you do and you don't want anyone to know it's cool...Now, stop playing the crowd and just be real...Girls, your into what your into...Guys your into what your into...why riddicule people for thier taste??? I'm also wondering why be so perverse and dispicable? Who needs it? HOTBI take some advice...You won't get far here with what your displaying...

[Viridian]

My new partner (a lesbian GG) and I are working up to physical intimacy and it's going to be... interesting. She's never been with someone who's "penis-enabled", and my previous partner pretty much blew my mind with the amazingness of TG/TG sex, and yes I was the bottom most of the time.

For the first time in my life I'm actually considering SRS. My new partner is extremely important to me, and while I've been against SRS personally since I transitioned, I've been rethinking things. If I'm going to be a lesbian, be with lesbians as partners... well maybe it's time to stop being stubborn and defiant, and think about alternatives.

All I know is that I've never felt so self-conscious about my body as I do nowadays :(

[ginnie4u]

ts that top..love it


hahaha... it's fun really

[Texxx]

hahaha... it's fun really

yeah...I always thought more girls would be into it, but I guess the psychology of using your penis is so strong that a lot of girls want nothing to do with it.

I love a TS who is free enough to embrace her feminity and the assets her genetic body brings to the table. ah....who am I kidding????? I love all women!
:)

[phoejay]

i think most of the filipina tg are bottom because we feel like we are emotionally and physically a woman... and should be loved and treated like one.

[ottorocket]

i think most of the filipina tg are bottom because we feel like we are emotionally and physically a woman... and should be loved and treated like one.

Sounds reasonable to me...lol

[KellyShore]

I'm both, but if a guy is a good top I love to bottom lol

[BXV2]

my fiancee likes to do both and so do i... just so there's no confusion i am a male and my fiancee is a TG.

[Ecstatic]

Welcome to TgirlTalk, BXV2, and Season's Greetings to you and your gf!

[BXV2]

hey good to see you :D

[tgirlzoe]

I've never topped a guy. I've topped two tgirls though - one was in a threesome with my ex-boyfriend (where I decided I'm not into threesomes) and my ex-girlfriend. I know my bits work well enough to penetrate but I'm not really into it. I'm usually okay with oral, it's more the dynamic of the situation. I'm used to BDSM with my ex-fiance and he was a top (switch actually but always top with me) so when I talk about the power dynamics, I have some experience in exploring that aspect of relationships and in the bedroom. I like being equal in the relationship (unlike with my ex) but I love to get thrown around in bed.

I don't want to be like "I'm a bottom because I'm a girl" like some people here and elsewhere have said or implied. I know many GGs who are dominant tops, both straight and lesbian. There are also a lot of guys who are bottoms, especially among admirers (as evidenced by this thread). There is a masculine-top/feminine-bottom notion and I'm okay with that, I enjoy that actually. I'm an andro-femme bottom and I like masculine top guys.

I will probably get SRS at some point in the future but that doesn't mean I hate my penis, it's a part of me and it feels good. On the other hand, the thought of ramming it into some hairy man-ass makes me sick. I like what I like.

[BiGuy4TS]

Being a verse guy here, I obviously am attracted to a girl who will top me. It doesn't have to be an even breakdown either. I know that I'm going be the one topping in most sessions, but once in a while, let's mix it up. :)

[mark4tg]

the tgirls that say they only top fascinates me. not in the fantasy sense, just mind boggling.
im a vers guy but if i never bottomed again i wouldnt feel i was missing anything. a vers/bottom girl would be best for me, or at least let me touch you enough to get off too. if a girl doesnt climax i feel ive failed.

[dartk]

Im a very masculine guy who thinks that a sexy, very feminine top tgirl is extremely attractive. Gotta support you hot tops!

[john69]

both!! But i like more bttm !!!

[lick_n_u]

I totally agree with Meghan whatever feels good!

I love topping just as much as I love bottoming.

Shoot I just love sex lol
thats what iam talkin bout

[lick_n_u]

hahaha... it's fun really
i never been toped and dont kno if i will jus looks like fun lol

[TheAdmirerNYC]

Both

[david_a5]

I like to be a top but if I'm in love I would not mind having her inside me making love to me once in a while .

[AngelOrtega]

Well this is Kinda complicated.... I would LOVE a total bottom partner... In fact instead I get multiple Bottom partners, but When it comes to bieng topped... its Basically on two conditions... First bieng, WHEN IM IN THE MOOD.... second would be, If a guy cuddles me all night, and were nude, and in the morning, I throw it back, he better put it forward ;) If not he loses his chance lol

But seriously, Im a TOP i swear!!! LoL Okay so the guy last night got lucky :P but hes sweet and nice and HOT and girlllllllll ... okay ill stop right there....

Basically sex is great But were not just all about that ;) Sometimes we are... most arent, to each thier own... BUT TOPPING RAWKS!!!!!!!! lol

Well done to a Thread renewed lol

[Mikel]

You have to think, that, yes, the ts women still have it (preop i mean) so sure, they may want to use it occasionally. Some like to top, some don't, it's just a preference, but I'm sure depending on who they are with, they may accomodate. Just ask.

[GOTTAHAVEONION]

its seems the ones that bash guys who are vers/bottom are the ones who are really sexually frustrated ...i think if u do more communicating with your partner than plotting to take over the Louis Vuitton empire u will be better off....i like both but top mostly...i can't see myself shopping at Costco for a case of fleet enemas , haha...i like open minded girls personally and tell them up front so there is no surprises...people should spend more time having sex than blogging about it !!!!

[IndyCloset]

I'm this weird anomaly, I guess. All my friends know I'm a top and I always was...but I was born in America, so maybe that has something to do with my preference. I don't feel any less of a woman to be able to or want to top.

I think height might be a factor. Most Asian women (GGs and Ts) are on the shorter side, so the preconception might be that they're dainty little submissive flowers (or come up with your own preconception, which might not always be true since I know some short Asian women who can crush the Devil's nuts) whereas I'm a tad under 5'8 so, being taller, I just feel like I can take on a more dominant role.

Hmmm, then all debates aside I'd probably love you for it LOL!

[MystiquEvolution]

I'm a top, but will bottom for the right girl. Very rarely will the hormones effect me when topping. She just keeps going and going... *LOL*

[afroauthor]

Reading these responses here has been quite interesting.

I have known several tgirls, and from those who have been open enough to discuss their sexual preferences, it has been pretty split, between tops, bottoms, and girls who are versatile. Of the girls from the Philippines I've known, only one was willing to top, though she hasn't yet had the opportunity to do so living there.

I personally prefer a woman who is versatile, I definitely want to top my woman as I love that feeling, but I love the feeling of surrendering power, so to speak, that comes with being topped.

[JattaTS]

Bottom for 110% :)

[sweetnicole]

80% bottom, 20% top.

hehehehe... but for my bf, 101% bottom...

[CaliBoy951]

I am surprised this thread is still going.....

[lyndadarleen]

ive gotten so used to topping, ive actually gotten real good at it .

[matt82]

love girls that are tops so sexy but if they rather bottom thats ok too as long as they top time to time

[orion]

80% bottom, 20% top.

hehehehe... but for my bf, 101% bottom...

hmm not sure nicole.
kinda like one morning you wake up and decide to wear the ugly shirt in the closet you not wear most days.
lol.
nice pic by the way.
i give it a 80% yummy rate.
lol.

[MsDazzler]

Top. :)

Wow, you r a TOP!? I am surprised! :)

I m definitely a bottom all way! lol

[orion]

I'm this weird anomaly, I guess. All my friends know I'm a top and I always was...but I was born in America, so maybe that has something to do with my preference. I don't feel any less of a woman to be able to or want to top.

I think height might be a factor. Most Asian women (GGs and Ts) are on the shorter side, so the preconception might be that they're dainty little submissive flowers (or come up with your own preconception, which might not always be true since I know some short Asian women who can crush the Devil's nuts) whereas I'm a tad under 5'8 so, being taller, I just feel like I can take on a more dominant role.

hmm well i been to asia and well all strearotypes aside most are same as here for most part i think.
i seen many 6 footers infact if you look at tiffanys in thailand look at the asians vs the non asians and you see most of the asians where alot taller.
i say there alot 5 7 around but 5 9 tends to be commen too or a little less and 6 footers well about as many as 5 5.
with 5 9 being avg one would say this follows the pattern but people tend to be taller today.
the dutch women were said to the shortest around turn of the century most around 4,5'',but today tend to be close to the tallest around 5 10.
most men in 1700 were less then 5 5 just take a look at the ships uniform in the charlestown navy yard.

i think most girls tend to say there less tall if there tall and more tall if there not that tall.
as for weight well when the last time you belive someone 5 10 was 120 lbs and med frame lol.
the best was i dated a girl from brazilshe was 5 10 175 in a dr office but on a profile it be 5 7 125.

on the top bottom thing well on girls i say dont judge a book by it cover or say 100% and watch out with some bottoms cause you never know.
moods can change even on someone you thought you knew 100%.
but girls to to never admit that i think it seen as dirty or something or used as a insult.
i seen girls throw jokes about size at another and what there like just like they would about looks.
they tend to joke but under in all i think there a need to feel more pretty then any other.
i found girls in a group also tend to be more agressive and flirty then they would say one on one.
what surprize me the most is they do all the things to become who the are fighting prejustice but tend to disply it most as to who is what or what name should be used kinda tend to be to me less undertanding of others.
i mean no offence here but i notice that alot.

as for my final word on top bottom well i say never pull a tiger by the tail.
the tiger might look really tame and lazy in a cage but pull her tail and you might not like what you find out.
lol.

[blkgsxr]

Wow, you r a TOP!? I am surprised! :)

I m definitely a bottom all way! lol
I knew there was a reason I liked you lol :p:rolleyes:

[NagaSama]

yeah, i think i prefer being on bottom

Sex is supposed to me making sure your partner feels good, and gets off before u do right?

*i goes to sleep now, im killing myself with finals studying....i needs a hug*

[Fairymouse]

@ NagaSama: *hugh*

[NagaSama]

thanks Ms. Mouse.

Ive been sick the past 3 weeks straight with a chest cold, it aint going away, had a docs appt yesterday, he said to just keep taking same over the counter stuff, he tries to avoid over prescribing antibiotics lol

Oh well, last final is tonight *yay*

[blkgsxr]

thanks Ms. Mouse.

Ive been sick the past 3 weeks straight with a chest cold, it aint going away, had a docs appt yesterday, he said to just keep taking same over the counter stuff, he tries to avoid over prescribing antibiotics lol

Oh well, last final is tonight *yay*
Gatorade pho and rest....sometimes I see myself forcing myself to work because well it pays the bills :)

[ɣ̊BloodRaincoat]

Top/オヤジ受け :3