Why Are You Attracted to TS women? (TS's invited to comment)

[Jhellis978]

Originally, I posted this in ts group on MySpace.

As you know, people don't really use MySpace for analytical thoughts, rather they simply want to find a hook up. Hopefully, this post will generate a larger response here.

I thought it would be interesting to start a thread for the men to share their thoughts on what attracts them to ts women.

Like many leaving their parent's nest for the first time, I fell in love in college. I was in my third year of college, taking American Constitutional Development when I first laid eyes on her.

Her looks, stunning. Her in-class dialogue, engaging. I knew I had to get to know this lady.

The semester creeped along and I soon learned that the easiest way to get this girl's attention would be through my interaction in the class. Being in a politically driven class, I decided to take the exact opposite position on every issue discussed.

My plan worked as our conversations carried over after class, until I finally got the courage to ask her out. Instantly, her charm trapped my heart and mind, weakening my previous hesitations. As if divinely scripted, the first two dates went off without a hitch. On our third date, after catching the school's production of "Bus Stop", we ventured back to my apartment and I aimed to do that which college guys do, but before I could get her into my bedroom she grabbed me by the arm. I looked into her eyes--eyes that normally exuded an overadbundance of confidence--and for the first time I sensed hesitation on her part.

"I have something I need to tell you," she mumbled.

It seemed innocuous enough at the time, so I told her to explain away.

At this point, she informed me about her past (e.g. her genetic identity). Being raised in rural East Texas, my only previous exposure to transsexuals had come from the morning talk shows (Jerry Springer, Geraldo, Donahue, etc.), so my understanding was a bit skewed to say the least.

Confusion gripped my body, as a thousand thoughts filled my mind.

"I really am attracted to this girl. Does this make me gay?"

"Should I be angry?"

"I thought they said you could always find an Adam's apple...LIARS!!!"

While I didn't know what a transsexual was, nor did I understand all the thoughts in my head, I did understand my heart and it registered an instant connection. I kissed her and led her into my bedroom.

I've always thought that fear is a direct product of ignorance and I knew I was totally ignorant about my new friend and I realized I could not afford to be afraid of her or her life, so I sat out to educate myself about the issues at hand. My studies led me to the conclusion that gender is a state of mind and not defined by a physical aparatus between the legs. This understanding allowed our relationship to flourish for the next two years before a relationship's greatest enemy (lack of trust) was allowed into our relationship due to circumstances totally unrelated to her gender identity.

After we split, I found myself drawn to other transgendered women, but could not explain why. It had nothing to with fetishes or thrills, but merely a matter of personal preference that I could not explain. I continued to date genetic girls as well and though satisfying, they left me thirsting for something more.

Finally, the answer came to me. I am attracted to femininty and the transgendered women I met were femininty personified. Yes, femininty in appearance, but a certain intangible feminine soul I had yet to find in a genetic girl.

[Xander maddoX]

gender is a state of mind and not defined by a physical aparatus between the legs

you answerd this question yourself, for me at least. I am attracted or rather, addicted, ishould say, to women in all forms. tall, short, black white, skinny, thick, with penis, without. whatever the case may be. GIVE ME WOMEN, ALL TYPES!!!!!! :wink:

[Hugh Jarrod]

Don't know, just do.

[MsDazzler]

Beautiful story. I wish taht could happen with a man for me.

[edgeoflife]

Here's my story..

Many years ago, me and some friends were to meet downstown and attend a live music show. We planned to meet uo at a place and go to a music club. So, I got ready on the day and went, we all find our own way there. I arived early and no body was there yet. I looked for a payphone and didnt see one, I saw a nearby small bar, I figured they must have one..

I walked in and asked to use the payphone, none of my friends were home so I firgured they were on their way. But while I was listening to rings in the phone waiting for an answer, I noticed this girl sitting by herslef at the end of the bar. She looked really nice and I was looking at her. She looked back at me a second and smiled to her. (was nervous)

I hung up the phone and figured might as well sit and wait for my friends to arrive. So I sat at the bar and asked for a soda. (being I dont drink) As I was drinking my soda, I looked over to the girl again and she looked back. I smiled and she smiled back. SO I got brave and walked over to say hello and offer to buy her a drink and see if she cared for company.. she said yes. I felt good and sat next to her. WE were talking about why we were there that day and we talked for a while and I was having a good time just talking to her and making each other laugh.

At one point, she leaned to me and whispered:

"do you like girls like me?"

I was like the guy in the cartoons with a question mark over his head.. I answered her with.. "excuse me."

"girls like me."

I asked what do you mean mean hun? She told me she is Trannsexual. At the time I didnt know that term. She llloked good and never would have known. She then went to tell me her story and what she was about. I wa still having a great time talking with her. As time went on.. I asked her if she would like to go out sometime, she smiled and said yes then kissed me on the cheek. I felt like a little high school boy.

I rememebr excusing myself to use the mens room, on my way back I saw my frinds arriving outside the window of the bar. I returned to my seat and told her that I had to go. She smiled and wrote her phone number down on a napkin. I got up to leave and we hugged and she kissed me on cheek thanking me for being cool. I left and met with friends and enjoyed the live music show.

A couple days later I called her and we talked about our going out and she was as excited as I was. She gave me her address and I got ready and left the house. I took the subway to her area and looked for her apartment building. I rand her doorbell and I could see her waving toi me from her window. I went and we met up. We hugged and then went across the street for something to eat then rented some movies at a nearby video place. We arrived back at her aprtment and got comfy to watch the movies, we snuggled and watched them. We also talked more and she told me more of her story. I was having a blast. I felt completely comfy with her. Afterwards, she made coffee, and we sat at her table and talked more about everything possible. I looked at the clock and realized it was getting klate and I had work in the morning. I told her I needed to go and she said it was cool. I proceeded to stand up and put my jacket on.. I heard her walking behind me, I turned and she hugged me and we kissed. It felt incredible. I didnt want to go, but had to.

Since then we stayed in touch and she met someone and was happy. I was cool with that. Since that day, I have liked TS/TG women. All I date.

[lar9149]

I am attracted to feminity and so I am attracted to tgirls as well as gg..but what really turns me on is when they you are making love to them and you see this hard cock because it tells you that she is just as excited about making love to you as you are about making love to her..when you know your partner is excited, it makes you more excited, right? Its not the penis by itself that is important, it is what it tells me about what my partner is feeling that is important. So functionality is quite important to me, a non-functional penis sometimes makes me think why isn't she excited? Although if she is quite beautiful and still non-functional, it is okay, just functionality is better.

[edgeoflife]

Good way to put it Lar.

[Dead Parrot]

I stopped trying to figure this out long ago....and also stopped trying to define it. I just do. Why do some men like asian women....you just do. Everyone has interests. Labels blow.

[Juliana_Dominguez]

can we hear more stories from the guys?

[PetalsInMyHair]

Wow, old thread, but VERY intriguing ^^ Great read :) I agree with Juliana ~ More stories ! XD Or maybe even some from the girls.

[River]

As a child I LOVED the transformers, as I grew up I just loved everything trans...just kidding.

Seriously it's hard to explain, I am in love with all things feminine so that includes genetic girls too. The thing that attracts me the most though is the courage that most transgendered people have. The courage to be themselves, and the courage to challenge society. Courage is an admirable trait especially when it's in short supply these days. Transgendered girls most of them that I met seem more accepting of things as well. I grew up in a rough life, and did things that were not so good, and when I explain my past their not judging me as some genetic girls do.

Finally it's the eyes they are windows to the soul, if you look into a true transgendered girl you'll see the feminine soul, but be careful you might just fall in love with that soul.

[Texxx]

I take it that the pornographic stories I posted before are not what you are looking for. :)

[DopeBoy Magic]

i luv everything feminine.....but i would have to say my infatuation with trans women has got to stem from the fact they are not readily accessable. I can go to a club and get numbers from women any given sunday.....but a trans woman u kinda gotta go searching for. I guess i'm just a lion who loves the thrill of the hunt !!!!

[WillowQueen]

Texx, love stories vs erotica. It's a shame the world love is sometimes interchangable with the word sex.
I get that were kidding though. :)

[IndyCloset]

My first encounter was similar the thread starters.

Only difference is. I use to dream of transsexual women as far back as 10 years old. Yet I was never exposed to any Tgirls, porno or anything else. It was just me having sex with beautiful women who happen to have dicks.

Safe to say I suppressed those thoughts the best I could. That is until I was 14 years old. And at that point I would insert anything I could find that wasn't painful in my ass from broom handles to tampons. I just loved the feeling. Was doing that years before I ever thought of jerking off.

But the thing is I love girls. Had my first kiss at 5, got to third base when I was 8 and was chasing girls ever since. And couldn't stand to be around anyone considered gay other then bisexual women of course. Lost virginity at 15 (heteral). And dated regularly. And keep the anal play a secret to this day.

It wasn't until I was 24 that I met this....flawless Cambodian chic. I mean she couldve made most of the Genetic girls I've date jealous. We went out a few times and though she was beyond passable she would drop clues every now and then that basically when over my head at the time. So after a few dates and hours on the phone. I made it clear it was time for the next phase. Which is when she went cold and stopped calling. So I broke the silence and called her and that's when she finally broke down and told me she was transsexual. It took me buy surprise but after I realised I was still interested I asked to met face to face so I met up with her and we talked for a minute, went to her place and did everything from a to z and its be curtain's ever since. Because of her admitted profession though I couldn't really get into her like I wanted to back then. But we still speak when she's in town.

[Trogdor]

My first encounter was similar the thread starters.

Only difference is. I use to dream of transsexual women as far back as 10 years old. Yet I was never exposed to any Tgirls, porno or anything else. It was just me having sex with beautiful women who happen to have dicks.

Safe to say I suppressed those thoughts the best I could. That is until I was 14 years old. And at that point I would insert anything I could find that wasn't painful in my ass from broom handles to tampons. I just loved the feeling. Was doing that years before I ever thought of jerking off.

But the thing is I love girls. Had my first kiss at 5, got to third base when I was 8 and was chasing girls ever since. And couldn't stand to be around anyone considered gay other then bisexual women of course. Lost virginity at 15 (heteral). And dated regularly. And keep the anal play a secret to this day.

It wasn't until I was 24 that I met this....flawless Cambodian chic. I mean she couldve made most of the Genetic girls I've date jealous. We went out a few times and though she was beyond passable she would drop clues every now and then that basically when over my head at the time. So after a few dates and hours on the phone. I made it clear it was time for the next phase. Which is when she went cold and stopped calling. So I broke the silence and called her and that's when she finally broke down and told me she was transsexual. It took me buy surprise but after I realised I was still interested I asked to met face to face so I met up with her and we talked for a minute, went to her place and did everything from a to z and its be curtain's ever since. Because of her admitted profession though I couldn't really get into her like I wanted to back then. But we still speak when she's in town.


Cambodian? Sounds like Yasmin Lee.

Might one ask what her addmitted profession was that did it?

[icarus2112]

Well I dont have a cool romantic story about meeting a beautuful woman that turned out to be Transexual, unfortunately my first exposure to TS's was stumbling across ts porn on the inernet and realizing that those women are pretty hot, not at all disgusting, to this completely straight and relatively narrow guy.
Well its been quite a few years and Im not quite so narrow now. I have dated pre op and a post op girl besides the GG girls I have dated. I really cannot identify exactly why I like Transexuals and actually prefer Transexual girls now. Maybe it is because these are women that had to be brave and resourceful to become whom they were meant to be while struggling with whatever obstacles comes their way, even if its society or friends, or family. That may make these ladies a stronger wiser individual that truly appreciates their accomplishments and feminity.
Just my 2 cents, most people dont even think 2 cents is worth stopping to pick up.

[Texxx]

Texx, love stories vs erotica. It's a shame the world love is sometimes interchangable with the word sex.
I get that were kidding though. :)

that's good. it would be a shame if after all this time people thought I was serious...

my first exposure was an HBO special when I was growing up. in particular it focused on prostitution in south america. I've been hooked ever since. unfortunately, I had to wait several years before the internet would come along and provide me more information, media, and opportunities to actually meet some girls.

I remember in the early days of the internet that there was actually a fake tgirl site. they would take pictures from other websites of GGs and photoshop (poorly) dicks onto them. it was so stupid.

[IndyCloset]

Cambodian? Sounds like Yasmin Lee.

Might one ask what her addmitted profession was that did it?

Double post my bad.

[IndyCloset]

Cambodian? Sounds like Yasmin Lee.

Might one ask what her addmitted profession was that did it?

The worlds oldest profession......That and porn.

Oh and she'd make Yasmin Lee jealous. that is if her attitude wasn't so ugly.

[uriah]

Edge...You are the man...I envy your stories...Thanks for keeping it real...Always digging you bro!

[uriah]

I've always been into ggirls and always loved them and at times used them for sex and at one point I decided I would not do that anymore...I remained single and started dating a ggirl exmodel after sometime...I always thought tgirls were really special with my circumstances I thought all the better to be with one and at one time told my ggirl about the times I was with a tgirl...It looked bad to her yet she said it was cool yet when we got into arguments how do you think she attempted to end the argument??? A few times I was so stoked to hang with tgirls and pick them up yet I didn't have the chance to date them cause I always found a tgirl at a bar (only two) and they didn't want to date...At this time I I realized...These girls are so wonderful yet this nation I live in won't allow them to really be the girls they want to be so I sought to find one that was not here and so I did...She is the most wonderful girl I've ever met and I love her and adore her much more than you all do but on a level you can never ever fathom and will never meet so stop trying...Love is a wonderful thing...You can always find sex but you will be out of business if you think you can find love everytime you find sex...Love is so perfect...a girl I know-knows this and I just want her to know it and the rest of you as well...

[longman69]

I'd never been with a t girl until I came to live in Cebu 3 years ago.For me it's the sheer feminine look of the girl.I could never be attracted to a masculine looking anything.I don't mind if she has a cock or a cunt as long as she has femininity and beauty.And for me the biggest turn on is not the fucking,but seeing here cum and knowing she's pleased.

[Juliana_Dominguez]

I've always been into ggirls and always loved them and at times used them for sex and at one point I decided I would not do that anymore...I remained single and started dating a ggirl exmodel after sometime...I always thought tgirls were really special with my circumstances I thought all the better to be with one and at one time told my ggirl about the times I was with a tgirl...It looked bad to her yet she said it was cool yet when we got into arguments how do you think she attempted to end the argument??? A few times I was so stoked to hang with tgirls and pick them up yet I didn't have the chance to date them cause I always found a tgirl at a bar (only two) and they didn't want to date...At this time I I realized...These girls are so wonderful yet this nation I live in won't allow them to really be the girls they want to be so I sought to find one that was not here and so I did...She is the most wonderful girl I've ever met and I love her and adore her much more than you all do but on a level you can never ever fathom and will never meet so stop trying...Love is a wonderful thing...You can always find sex but you will be out of business if you think you can find love everytime you find sex...Love is so perfect...a girl I know-knows this and I just want her to know it and the rest of you as well...

wow dear, well it's always nice especially me being a tgirl, that i know that someone like you will understand me, love me for who and what i am, despite of what i have between my legs, or despite what sex is written on my birth certificate. it is really something that i thank God every moment that i pray, it is really wonderful, our love, i always say that being in love is truly such a crazy ass feeling, haha yes it is. love is looking beyond what is superficial and it's the soul and the heart, and i know that i have found my perfect match with my man. mwahs.

[Wondergirl]

Juliana_Dominguez, i am so jealous of you, girl! :D

[ottorocket]

Why? why...why...why...why...lol

[kwjones]

For me I was 19 driving from a club in bmore and saw this fine specimen walking down the street i offered them a ride. she tod me she was a ts and ask if i ever been with one and would like too and being the curious guy i am i said yes. we went back to her crib where she schooled me. she was into foot fetishes. she sucked on my toes something good and made me bust a nut just from that. then she rimmed me and i thought i was going to loose my mind. i never felt so much pleasure like that before and definitely not from a gg. she then grabbed me by the back of my head and slide that tool of hers down my throat making me gag until i could take it all easily with little problems. she smacked and grab my butt flipped me on my back lubed me up and began running in me deep nice and slow. she had me so hooked that i was wrapping my legs around her and calling out her name until she let out that hot load. ever since i was hooked.

[hotboi]

I guess I have never looked at it like me liking a t-girl or whatever...just someone I'm attracted to. I was talking to one the other day on Yahoo who is WAY different than anyone I've met before. Very quiet, shy, but extremely sexual and has no problems mentioning that to the right person. We talked for a while and I found myself very turned on by the words being said...maturity level, knowing what she wanted, what she liked, very direct when she needed to be, but not overly emotional about anything...It was like talking to any other girl I know...just with a cock...which is gorgeous btw...so hopefully when I go to Texas, we'll mee to hang out and all....but it's the personality that gets me, not the looks so much because so many think they are so sought after when I'll ignore them as I will any other chic who fronts. just be real, I have low tolerance for bullshit and people who have egos dragging of their noses....and I'm fine with you. And if it so happens you have a cock between your legs, that's just a part of who you are. I've been so tunred on by many t-girls who have gorgeous cocks, pretty faces, very nice breasts..very feminine, soft appearances....and that turns me on very much.


And if ya ever come my way looking tasty, don't git it twisted....I'd hit.

[hotboi]

For me I was 19 driving from a club in bmore and saw this fine specimen walking down the street i offered them a ride. she tod me she was a ts and ask if i ever been with one and would like too and being the curious guy i am i said yes. we went back to her crib where she schooled me. she was into foot fetishes. she sucked on my toes something good and made me bust a nut just from that. then she rimmed me and i thought i was going to loose my mind. i never felt so much pleasure like that before and definitely not from a gg. she then grabbed me by the back of my head and slide that tool of hers down my throat making me gag until i could take it all easily with little problems. she smacked and grab my butt flipped me on my back lubed me up and began running in me deep nice and slow. she had me so hooked that i was wrapping my legs around her and calling out her name until she let out that hot load. ever since i was hooked.

lol...ol girl turned you out! good shit....

there was one on Yahoo who was gorgeous...hit me up like a yr and half ago...Puerto Rican ts...but never came back after talking for about 3-4 weeks. Wonder whatever happened to her...

but I'm sure if I stayed around the drag shows I'd bump into her eventually...just working on so much music I don't have time like I used to...lol

[phoejay]

i guess most tgs have beautiful personalities....
with how grotesque i look like, i usually win guys with my personality...
;-)

[syntax]

with how grotesque i look like, i usually win guys with my personalities...
;-)

*waits for the 4 million responses*

;)

[phoejay]

personality is essential.

[uriah]

You know before my parents and other kids told me girls had vag's I thought they had the same equipment I had...let's get Freud in here for this one??? Sit me on the sofa...Damn family and friends not telling me about ggirls until I was 8..."sobs" I'm cursed in the best relationship I've ever had...gosh!

[ottorocket]

Don't worry bout it Uriah... My parents still haven't told me...haha

[Remy]

No children. (Baby mama drama)

[Dabaldone]

I have always been attracted to women. One day, I met a trans-woman. I had no idea I would be attracted to her, or have sex for that matter. I ran thru the "Am I gay" questions for years. As I got older, I relaized that I'm attracted because trans-women seem to appreciate the fact that they are women, "uber-feminine" so to speak.

[siddle]

Simple enough...

At the club and the chick was hot. She turned out to be a "he" and I decided I wasn't interested.

Fast forward 5 years or so...

Sought out some company from a couple of female escorts and replied to an ad from an escort that was dually endowed. She was hotter than the previous escorts. Saw her through her transition.

At all times she was just more of a girlfriend experience for hire than any other I experienced. She opened my eyes to possibilities. Unfortunately she didn't have that snap post-transition that a GG has, but then again, she allowed me to continue to top as if pre-transition.

Long lost touch unfortunately.

Have come across a few others few and far between, generally at locales more friendly to pre transition gals, however, they've generally been pros. A few times I have succumbed, but don't frequent enough to have built any longer term relations.

That first gal will always remain in my memory though!