Is Everything Based On Sex?

[Thug_Fessional]

I mean between a man and a TS? Can we meet online and just have a regular chill conversation? Hi my name is ________, what's your name? Are you in school? Where ya from? What do you wanna do with your life eventually? You know things normal human beings talk about on a day to day basis. Has the game given girls that much of chipped shoulder. I swear to you, I posted my pics online (semi-popular african american adult oriented website), gave a very detailed description of who I was, where i'm coming from and what I was and wasn't looking for. I get like 10 emails in my inbox all saying wow your d*ck looks good, you're really cute, etc...but no one commented on what I actually wrote in the dang post...lol. Tell the TS/Male dynamic is deeper than a mans endowment?

Holla @ ya boy. :?

[marissaaz]

well personally i would rather not hear a word about sex during online chat.
im quite tired of being asked if im functional, am i a top, how big am i, for me its the end of the conversation

[Jordan]

WOW!!! A MAN that actually gets it! Most if not all GIRLS would love a chat like that, but unfortunately we are subjected to become cyber fantasies/ sexual novelties, and because of the internet, most guys assume that all of us wear our sexualities on our sleeves, sad but true, i'd love to have a regular normal "how is the weather" type chat, than one focused on my Goodies and what i like to do in bed.

[Xander maddoX]

.....i feel what youre sayin. and it suck cause even if i try to stear the convo into a non sexual direction then girls think im "soft"

[Ecstatic]

Well, you've got to establish some common ground for conversation, but there's so many areas to explore. One of the best ice breakers I think is music.

[Thug_Fessional]

.....i feel what youre sayin. and it suck cause even if i try to stear the convo into a non sexual direction then girls think im "soft"


such is true.

[Thug_Fessional]

well personally i would rather not hear a word about sex during online chat.
im quite tired of being asked if im functional, am i a top, how big am i, for me its the end of the conversation


not saying you don't, but if a women were to demand more from a man as it pertained to conversation, wouldn't that thereby decrease the level of trannychaser bullshit thrown your way?

[Thug_Fessional]

WOW!!! A MAN that actually gets it! Most if not all GIRLS would love a chat like that, but unfortunately we are subjected to become cyber fantasies/ sexual novelties, and because of the internet, most guys assume that all of us wear our sexualities on our sleeves, sad but true, i'd love to have a regular normal "how is the weather" type chat, than one focused on my Goodies and what i like to do in bed.


I honestly think there are more men like me out there. I am not an oddity. For instance, why can't this message board have categories like Housing, automotive, fixit, etc...why are all things transsexual geared around the novel concept of sex? I'm not saying that I wouldn't want to engage in sex, I probably would, however I think it's more to getting to know someone than just fucking. How about we meet and I cook you dinner, or we meet up for a movie or an evening in the park, or I take you past a homie of mines crib and we play cards or video games or board games with he and his girl? It's like for as much as some men might dictate that TS are only good for one thing, some if not most TS seem to willingly and quite sheepishly go there. I think if a change is going to be made, it has to start with the way TS women view themselves in society. As much as you'd like someone to respect you for who you are and what you represent, you have to be willing to show that you in fact represent what you demand...respect of self and individuality, that you are a human being capable of doing extraordinary things.

[WEBGODDESS]

most guys just wanna hump you as soonest you say wasup :roll:
My life is such a soap opera :lol: ...I hate it :twisted:

its just a forum like as if i take notice to all this anyway

[MsDazzler]

I mean between a man and a TS? Can we meet online and just have a regular chill conversation? Hi my name is ________, what's your name? Are you in school? Where ya from? What do you wanna do with your life eventually? You know things normal human beings talk about on a day to day basis. Has the game given girls that much of chipped shoulder. I swear to you, I posted my pics online (semi-popular african american adult oriented website), gave a very detailed description of who I was, where i'm coming from and what I was and wasn't looking for. I get like 10 emails in my inbox all saying wow your d*ck looks good, you're really cute, etc...but no one commented on what I actually wrote in the dang post...lol. Tell the TS/Male dynamic is deeper than a mans endowment?

Holla @ ya boy. :?

Hugs! I cant believe there s a man like you saying those stuff. I thought I'd never hear of it. lolz

[Scott]

I mean between a man and a TS? Can we meet online and just have a regular chill conversation? Hi my name is ________, what's your name? Are you in school? Where ya from? What do you wanna do with your life eventually? You know things normal human beings talk about on a day to day basis. Has the game given girls that much of chipped shoulder. I swear to you, I posted my pics online (semi-popular african american adult oriented website), gave a very detailed description of who I was, where i'm coming from and what I was and wasn't looking for. I get like 10 emails in my inbox all saying wow your d*ck looks good, you're really cute, etc...but no one commented on what I actually wrote in the dang post...lol. Tell the TS/Male dynamic is deeper than a mans endowment?

Holla @ ya boy. :?

With all due respect to all that post cock pics. Maybe if you want to have a normal, non sex conversation you should not put out pics of it. A picture will catch someones eye before words. Pics like that pretty much don't say "let's talk about the weather." I've made some of the best friends through here and tgpixel without ever needing to put out that image.

Scott

[edgeoflife]

And I thought I was the only guy who was this cool and nice.

[Wynter Skye]

have you tried looking elsewhere besides online? i see you're from maryland i don't know what part but both baltimore and dc metro have large transgendered communities. Also both cities have large african-american tg communities. I wouldn't suggest going to clubs and bars if you're looking for a meaningful relationship, but try a few new places and just spark up a conversation with someone. You never know. I felt the same way and i met someone a few years back who was the coolest most real tgirl i'd ever met. We kicked it for like a year but i was the guy on the side. She lived with someone else, he fucked her, we talked, hung out just were friends. It's possible but just understand that tgirls' skin often times can be a little thicker than others due to their personal situation and experiences. Often it takes a lot more scratching to get beneath the exterior to the true beauty they protect from the rest of the world.

just remember as big as the internet is, the real world is so much bigger. (just not as anonymous!)

Is Everything Based On Sex?


yes the tgirl scene is based on sex :( how sad it is

[Scott]

Is Everything Based On Sex?


yes the tgirl scene is based on sex :( how sad it is


What's sad is that narrow view.


Scott

darling im a 58 yo post op and have been there done that,on and off relationships my partner left me to have a family with a real woman now how sad is that????ones the sex and all that dies they just move to the next younger one and do it over and over. :roll:

[Scott]

That is sad. It's also terrible that any person would do something like that.
I only made that comment because it is not all based on sex. Sure, there are a very large percentage of both males and t-girls that do focus on the sex. But to just call this a "scene" and to say it's all based on sex is wrong. Saying that you may as well just say "give up on ever finding the one for you."
Since being involved in the TG community I have spoken to many ladies that act like they are far above everyone else and that their shit doesn't stink. If I went by them I would have become jaded to the point of thinking all t-girls are snobs.
I realize that not all t-girls are alike and because of that I am great friends with some. In that same aspect a person should realize that not all guys are alike treating you ladies like sex novelties.
Some of us are out there treating the ladies with respect, listening to what you have to say, considering your feelings on subjects and being there unconditionally. Some of us always will too.

Scott

[Jordan]

That is sad. It's also terrible that any person would do something like that.
I only made that comment because it is not all based on sex. Sure, there are a very large percentage of both males and t-girls that do focus on the sex. But to just call this a "scene" and to say it's all based on sex is wrong. Saying that you may as well just say "give up on ever finding the one for you."
Since being involved in the TG community I have spoken to many ladies that act like they are far above everyone else and that their shit doesn't stink. If I went by them I would have become jaded to the point of thinking all t-girls are snobs.
I realize that not all t-girls are alike and because of that I am great friends with some. In that same aspect a person should realize that not all guys are alike treating you ladies like sex novelties.
Some of us are out there treating the ladies with respect, listening to what you have to say, considering your feelings on subjects and being there unconditionally. Some of us always will too.

Scott



Good Point Scott, and as a Tgirl myself let me tell you the ones that have the afore mentioned attitudes are really insecure and have their own issues, i'm sure some will deny, but oh well every tgirl is in the same boat at one time or another, and as far as guys treating it all sexual, yeah it does get old, but some girls are just as guilty, trying to get any "str8 boi" cock they can, and there are a few nice guys out there but sadly by the time they surface the "other guys" have done their damage, but it's all good, it's all life

[Scott]

Good Point Scott, and as a Tgirl myself let me tell you the ones that have the afore mentioned attitudes are really insecure and have their own issues, i'm sure some will deny, but oh well every tgirl is in the same boat at one time or another, and as far as guys treating it all sexual, yeah it does get old, but some girls are just as guilty, trying to get any "str8 boi" cock they can, and there are a few nice guys out there but sadly by the time they surface the "other guys" have done their damage, but it's all good, it's all life

Just from the girls I have talked to I do realize how much damage can be done by the "other guys". One thing I've learned in life is that no damage is ever beyond repair as long as you have the patience and the willingness.