Does it bother tgirls they can't have children for men

[lar9149]

I was just wondering if tgirls are botheredby the fact that they can't have children for a man? Or is that no big deal? For example, if you meet some man one day and had a great relationship and perhaps things are getting serious, would you be afraid that he may leave because you can't have children? Is anyone resentful for the fact that they can't give birth to children? If yes, if you could hac a surgery that allowed you too, would you do it? Thanks again for answering my questions.

[LySiStRaTa]

On my part, WHY be upset that you cant have children when you can possibly adopt and LOVE a child who was not loved by someone who gave birth to them in the first place. I dont know, it can be an issue for those who cant have babies, I know it was an issue with me when i found out i couldnt fertilize someone back in the day, so yeah i got upset cause i couldnt keep the blood in me living :D but then i remembered, its not the blood, its the LOVE :D

[edgeoflife]

I agree with Lysistra, adoption can work just as fine I suppose. YOu can adopt and love the child no differently.

kids suck thats whats great about t-girls no worry about getting pargnet kids suck the life out of you and ruin all the fun. why would any one want to end up dealing with all the bs the things i put my mom through i dont wish that on anyone

[LySiStRaTa]

Listen everyone has thier own opinion, but if your one who wants a child, they can do two things to you, 1) if you like kids, it can be the best experience of your life. And BS on sucking the life out of you. Cause if your a partygoer, then you change to a housewife. This is my dream :D i want a child to raise as a mother. I would be the greatest mother. But i wont do it till im financially secure :D
my bf and my plan, is gonna adopt a 16 yr old, and see how good that goes. On having someone else in our house. I would recommend at home education, and have them work, and keep and save all his/her money :D
i would make sure he/she gets proper education, and gets back and forth to work on time, for two years :D...See thats a responsible side OR
2) Kids can weight you down...You have a kids and you can no longer go out to party, you cant go and fuck anyone and everyone you wanna...Cant be irresponsible...Poor you...Im going the responisble route hunni :D

yes it does bother me cause i know one day or later on any man or most will want to have a family and kids so,i will be left alone again :roll:,i my self would like to have my own someday

[DessiLu]

it bothers me to extremes. I want to have a baby with the man I marry and see what my kids would look like from MY genes.

[lar9149]

I don't know. But right now I am deeply in love with someone and she is a genetic girl. I like both tgirls and gg, but it happened that I fell in love with a gg. No preference on my end, just the way it ended up. But the doctor told her it is possible she may not be able to have kids due to medications she is on. It really hurt me to find this out. But although I love kids, I have been able to accept this. And like we agreed, we can adopt. I would love for us to have kids that would come from both of our genes, but I also love her so much, that I am really to compromise. I say this because I really think that if a tgirl really found a guy that she really loved and a guy that would really loved her, the issue of children would not be able to break apart that bond. That is my opinion at least, don't know what others think.

[Angela_Deren]

Yes :(

[WEBGODDESS]

Use 2...theres many options and thank god :twisted: for science :lol: :!:
Who knows I might be able 2 clone myself and have a lil mini-me before I die :shock: :idea:

[LySiStRaTa]

When a gg hears she cant have children, its more devastating cause they were brn TO PRODUCE, and to hear that they cant after growing up and everything and dreaming to actually carry one one day, then find out they cant, its more devastating to a GG for many different reasons. Yeah i understand what you meant by this post, on the tg level, but i didnt know you were asking cause a GG couldnt have one. Thats different. Im sure all tg's actually know form a very young age that they cannot produce, unless they wanted to with a gg. Me personally i was more devastated that i cannot produce at all, which is different considering i knew i could never carry.
Now on that level i mean a GG would definitaly be more hurt than a tg.
This can be a very tuff subject on either one. but as i said theres always that chance to love another child who wasnt loved by the one who created them. Its not always about blood and genes, you just need to learn to love and cherish them as a person.

[Angela_Deren]

Just want to add a statement. Although I agree that it's much more devestating to a GG when they find out they can't give birth and I do hope to adopt when the time is right, it's the act of birth (such a beautiful thing) that makes it depressing that I will never be able to do that.

[lar9149]

yea, it is true that a gg would probably be more devasted, but of course in our case, the answer is not definitive so there is hope so we haven't felt that way. I always wonder why people really want to have children...they cause headaches, problems, ect... but for some reason, there is still this urge to have one despite all that...I guess relationships can be the same deal...relationships cause heartaches, pain, and pretty much the same thing...yet we all still need them and get live without them...perhaps it is all just part of evolution or something

[bustyblonde69]

huhhhhhhhhh no it doesnt bother me personaly i hate kids with a passion
if there one close to me ill move........

[unknown]

Being a kid who was adopted, as an infant, I always felt special. My parents got to pick me :D

[MacShreach]

I don't know. But right now I am deeply in love with someone and she is a genetic girl. I like both tgirls and gg, but it happened that I fell in love with a gg. No preference on my end, just the way it ended up. But the doctor told her it is possible she may not be able to have kids due to medications she is on. It really hurt me to find this out. But although I love kids, I have been able to accept this. And like we agreed, we can adopt. I would love for us to have kids that would come from both of our genes, but I also love her so much, that I am really to compromise. I say this because I really think that if a tgirl really found a guy that she really loved and a guy that would really loved her, the issue of children would not be able to break apart that bond. That is my opinion at least, don't know what others think.

May I interject, being a father? First "it is possible she may not" is not the same as "she can't." A lot depends on the nature of the medication, and the severity of the condition that is being medicated-- ie she may be able to conceive but carrying to term would be too dangerous.

If the issue is not risk to the mother then it is really amazing what can be done today through in vitro and other techniques.But you need to speak to a specialist, not your GP/local MD.

If she can't carry to term then you could look at surrogacy or adoption. Adoption can be tricky, the process can be lengthy but I know several couples who have adopted and they have lovely families. Surrogacy can work but I don't know anyone who has done it.

I hear the arguments about the need for ggirls to actually conceive and carry, but I have to say that one of the women I know in relationships where the couple could not conceive and so adopted is a close friend. The problem in that case is not hers, but the man's (he had mumps as a child, rendered him sterile.) Yet she is a loving and entirely happy mother to their adopted little boy.

In the end what I am saying is there are ways to have what you want. If you really love her go for it.

[NoOne]

bothers me more then some will ever know. it's 1 of my life's greatest sorrows. :(

[unknown]

bothers me more then some will ever know. it's 1 of my life's greatest sorrows. :(

I am sure it does :( The fact that it bothers you so much tells me you have a really good heart and would make a great mom. :) Just because you cant have kids should not stop you from being a mom. There are plenty of people that have kids and are not parents. It takes a grown up to be a parent. I have custody of my son and step-daughter. She chose me over the ex, her bio parent. She is as much my kid as is my son. Maybe I am like that because I was adopted. May parents couldnt have kids.

[marissaaz]

huhhhhhhhhh no it doesnt bother me personaly i hate kids with a passion
if there one close to me ill move........

i agree 200%

[Juliana_Dominguez]

On my part, WHY be upset that you cant have children when you can possibly adopt and LOVE a child who was not loved by someone who gave birth to them in the first place. I dont know, it can be an issue for those who cant have babies, I know it was an issue with me when i found out i couldnt fertilize someone back in the day, so yeah i got upset cause i couldnt keep the blood in me living :D but then i remembered, its not the blood, its the LOVE :D

AGREED ON WHAT YOU SAID!

when i'm already with a man who's gonna be with me forever and would love to have a family, we're definitely going to adopt.

[kellylicious]

No I hate the rodents!! So no not at all!!

[NoOne]

I think ima do it the old fashion way n fuck a gurl by the time im 25. i got a few G's to offer some prtty ho to be my surrogate momma. matter fact ima have my lawyer draw up the agreement tommorow just in case it happens soon. well guess i better hit up myspace looking for future baby mama's... :lol: :lol: :lol: LMAO

[XXX]

I think ima do it the old fashion way n fuck a gurl by the time im 25. i got a few G's to offer some prtty ho to be my surrogate momma. matter fact ima have my lawyer draw up the agreement tommorow just in case it happens soon. well guess i better hit up myspace looking for future baby mama's... :lol: :lol: :lol: LMAO

Wow moni are you serious?

[SASHA FOXX]

THATS WHAT I THINK MAKES US ALWAYS A MAN
NO MATTER HOW BIG OF TITS WE GET
HOW CUNT WE MAKE THE FACE
OR EVEN IF U GET A PUSSY
WE CANT HAVE KIDS
MAYBE IM BITTER MY EX LEFT ME CAUSE OF IT
BUT THATS HOW I FEEL :(

[AugenGn.]

No I hate the rodents!! So no not at all!!

ha! you haven't met my rode....i mean girl. of course at 9 and already 4'11", she's too big to be a rodent now....& she'd probably want to borrow your lip gloss and learn all about make-up :roll:

[MacShreach]

No I hate the rodents!! So no not at all!!

ha! you haven't met my rode....i mean girl. of course at 9 and already 4'11", she's too big to be a rodent now....& she'd probably want to borrow your lip gloss and learn all about make-up :roll:

The truth is the only people that hate kids are the ones that ain't got 'em. :D

[Juliana_Dominguez]

i'm a nurse, and it's really good to deliver a newborn in your hard! i always love the feeling! it's like a blessing! a blessing that i couldn't experience... but who knows 10 or 15 years from now, there's going to be an new technology that a ts can actually give birth genetically, who knows?!?

[kellylicious]

No I hate the rodents!! So no not at all!!

ha! you haven't met my rode....i mean girl. of course at 9 and already 4'11", she's too big to be a rodent now....& she'd probably want to borrow your lip gloss and learn all about make-up :roll: AWE thats cute love... but on a serious note I have 7 siblings with 3 to 4 kids each... all my neices and nephews are like my kids........they always want to come and see Aunt Kelly... cuz they know I spoil them.... and then I send them home!! lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Ecstatic]

My wife and I never had kids, but I love being an uncle to about a dozen kids!

[MacShreach]

i'm a nurse, and it's really good to deliver a newborn in your hard! i always love the feeling! it's like a blessing! a blessing that i couldn't experience... but who knows 10 or 15 years from now, there's going to be an new technology that a ts can actually give birth genetically, who knows?!?

You're such a sweetie! Since I went through a sad time I won't bore you with I think of nurses as professional lovely people, BTW. Whatever they pay you it's not enough.

Well, I hope that technology happens for you.

[Juliana_Dominguez]

i'm a nurse, and it's really good to deliver a newborn in your hard! i always love the feeling! it's like a blessing! a blessing that i couldn't experience... but who knows 10 or 15 years from now, there's going to be an new technology that a ts can actually give birth genetically, who knows?!?

You're such a sweetie! Since I went through a sad time I won't bore you with I think of nurses as professional lovely people, BTW. Whatever they pay you it's not enough.

Well, I hope that technology happens for you.

awww, that is so sweet... thank you...

[MsDazzler]

Yeah... it s the same with gay men who dates bisexual men. They are always afraid that bi guys will eventtually leave them because they want to have kids with women. It s the same with Tgirls, I guess. In the back of their minds, they will alway wonder whether the man is gonna wake up one day, and say, "I want a son i can play football with." then dumps her.

[Ecstatic]

Well, my wife and I are heading for our Silver Anniversary this May, and we've never had kids. There was a time, when I was between 28 and 38 when I wanted kids, but she never did, and enjoying my freedom as I did, it didn't make that much difference to me. Now of course I'm much too old to dream of having a kid!