Just wondering...

[MsDazzler]

How high is the demand for T-girls in this world? I see all the fans, admirers, etc... It makes me wonder what percentage of men do indeed prefer or love T-girls in the world? Anybody have any statistics? ectastic, maggiegee? :)

[BeardedOne]

I don't have any statistics, but I'd bet that the demand is prettyy high. Higher than you might see here on the forums.

[robin]

Do you mean what percentage of men will actively seek out a woman they know is a TS? Or do you mean how many seek a woman- regardless of whether she is GG or TS, and simply accept her for being the woman she is?
Clarify please.
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[Ecstatic]

Good question, Dazzler. I've seen statistics regarding the number of TS in the world and in various countries (and have posted some of those findings here), but I have not seen anything resembling hard statistics (no pun intended) regarding the number of men attracted to Tgirls. However, I do suspect the number is significantly higher than the number who will cop to it--probably several times higher.

And good distinction, richie. Do you think there is middle ground there? I am very attracted to TS women, but I also fully accept all women as women, and if our relationship includes sex, I enjoy whatever form she prefers. Variety is indeed the spice. I'm pansexual, but my strongest attraction on a physical level is to a pre-op tgirl.

[robin]

And good distinction, richie. Do you think there is middle ground there?

Yes definately. I know a few friends who are open to exploring a relationship with a ts but are not actively seeking a ts. Basically, they're searching for GG's but if they happen to meet a TS who they are comptable with, they will not dismiss them. I also have friends who are not open to this- they strictly seek a GG for a girlfriend or any other form of relationship (casual or longterm).

[whatsupwithat]

I was in a 13 year relationship with a TS...we met when I was just a young'un. We're friends now (long story) and I'm still looking for a TS with whom I could have a sincere, honest, fulfilling relationship with.

As to the question...I have a feeling most guys view transgendered women as sexual objects and prefer GGs as wife/gf material. This pisses me off to no end because it sets up an awful cycle within the community that breeds dishonesty, anger, and, more often than not, self-hatred.

I hear so many girls complain about the guys, how all they want is sex, but you know what? Here I am. Here many of us are. Looking for relationships. Searching...searching...searching. So, where are you?

[JeanClaude]

I was in a 13 year relationship with a TS...we met when I was just a young'un. We're friends now (long story) and I'm still looking for a TS with whom I could have a sincere, honest, fulfilling relationship with.

As to the question...I have a feeling most guys view transgendered women as sexual objects and prefer GGs as wife/gf material. This pisses me off to no end because it sets up an awful cycle within the community that breeds dishonesty, anger, and, more often than not, self-hatred.

I hear so many girls complain about the guys, how all they want is sex, but you know what? Here I am. Here many of us are. Looking for relationships. Searching...searching...searching. So, where are you?

You know what, WHAT...? Warm handshake and BIG Welcome to the Forum... Apart the "feeling most guys view transgendered women as sexual objects" arguement I do not really share with you (after all, it's your point of view), well, I think all the same.

Of course, the question is : Where are the Good Guys for the Tgirls? There are A LOT in an unsuspected growing and vaste number of Guys interested/fascinated by Tgirls.
But, also, there is thiis second question : Where are the Good Tgirls for the Guys? Appearently, there are ALSO A LOT of them in a vaste number of Tgirls.

But these Questions imply a new One... And a BIG ONE, this time : HOW can REALLY these Tgirls and these Guys meet, to start a REAL LTR? This is not that easy, I do believe. Life is full of surprises and events; and they are not only good and pleasant.

Now, to know EXACTLY the Number of the Guys REALLY looking for a LTR with Tgirls and the Number of the Tgirls REALLY looking for a LTR with Guys, well, let's not dream. It's impossible. Let's just aggree with the idea that, on BOTH SIDE, They are A LOT.

Just my thought. :-D

[whatsupwithat]

I was in a 13 year relationship with a TS...we met when I was just a young'un. We're friends now (long story) and I'm still looking for a TS with whom I could have a sincere, honest, fulfilling relationship with.

As to the question...I have a feeling most guys view transgendered women as sexual objects and prefer GGs as wife/gf material. This pisses me off to no end because it sets up an awful cycle within the community that breeds dishonesty, anger, and, more often than not, self-hatred.

I hear so many girls complain about the guys, how all they want is sex, but you know what? Here I am. Here many of us are. Looking for relationships. Searching...searching...searching. So, where are you?

You know what, WHAT...? Warm handshake and BIG Welcome to the Forum... Apart the "feeling most guys view transgendered women as sexual objects" arguement I do not really share with you (after all, it's your point of view), well, I think all the same.

Of course, the question is : Where are the Good Guys for the Tgirls? There are A LOT in an unsuspected growing and vaste number of Guys interested/fascinated by Tgirls.
But, also, there is thiis second question : Where are the Good Tgirls for the Guys? Appearently, there are ALSO A LOT of them in a vaste number of Tgirls.

But these Questions imply a new One... And a BIG ONE, this time : HOW can REALLY these Tgirls and these Guys meet, to start a REAL LTR? This is not that easy, I do believe. Life is full of surprises and events; and they are not only good and pleasant.

Now, to know EXACTLY the Number of the Guys REALLY looking for a LTR with Tgirls and the Number of the Tgirls REALLY looking for a LTR with Guys, well, let's not dream. It's impossible. Let's just aggree with the idea that, on BOTH SIDE, They are A LOT.

Just my thought. :-D

yea. there are a lot.

But to amend my earlier post about guys peferring GGs as wives/GFs, I think there a lot of factors at play. But, and I hate to lay the blame at its door, the leading cause of most our 'suffering' in this area is society and its lack of acceptance. The girls show amazing courage by being who they are, yet it's forgotten that the guys do, as well.

In today's society, Tgs are the 'minorities of the minorities'. No matter how much prejudice or bias is heaped upon the various ethnicities or races, they, in turn, heap that prejudice and bias on those within their own ethnic or racial group...and at the bottom of that food chain when it comes to rights and respect are the TGs.

Now, how do we change all that and change the dynamic to foster long and lasting relationships based on respect and honesty? That's a whole book. But we can all start, girls and guys alike, by owning who we are, being proud of who we are, and making a real difference in the lives of those around us.

[MsDazzler]

I wonder if the percentage is increasing with all the increasing visbility of transgender people into the new milleninum..,