Dating & The TS Myth

[Thug_Fessional]

I'm new with my understanding and interaction with the transsexual lifestyle, prior to me seeing lil' stuff here and there on the internet my only thoughts about TS were formed via Jerry Springer and Maury P...so if this ? seems dumb, I apologize.

Is internet dating even possible when it comes to trying to wife a TS up? I'm sorry, I mean when it comes to trying to really get to know a transsexual woman beyond a physical level, like on some let me get inside your head then bed type vibe?

I don't know, it seems like a lot of the girls i've seen around online are battle tested and tired...

Most of the sites that engage in the concept of Transsexual dating are merely slick ploys for getting $$$ via membership fees...

Maybe the dating/club scene is different in NYC or LA but i'm from Maryland and as far as I can tell, most of the women around here who are online are all for a lack of a better term, professional pleasure givers...which is fine if that's what you do, do you...I'd just be more interested in meeting a down to earth, ride or die, fresh from head to toe, round the way, college, small biz owning, professional, hell even a bit street young transsexual woman...

Is it possible?

[NoOne]

baby u need to do more research. i'm from maryland. both this site and the other site i own www.tgpixel.com are 100% free with NO membership fees, and i WISH (yes i said wish) i could find someone on here who wanted me for more then just sex that was in my age group and maybe wasn't rich but could atleast take care of themselves and at the same time who isn't promiscuous n would try to holla at my friends or has already slept with 10 ts. if i'm not the 1st experience i don't want it.

p.s.- im an escort but i am 1 of the few who actually doesn't have sex with my clients and NEVER has. that's probably why i don't have the best reviews but oh well... i value my health n safety.

[Thug_Fessional]

baby u need to do more research. i'm from maryland. both this site and the other site i own www.tgpixel.com are 100% free with NO membership fees, and i WISH (yes i said wish) i could find someone on here who wanted me for more then just sex that was in my age group and maybe wasn't rich but could atleast take care of themselves and at the same time who isn't promiscuous n would try to holla at my friends or has already slept with 10 ts. if i'm not the 1st experience i don't want it.

p.s.- im an escort but i am 1 of the few who actually doesn't have sex with my clients and NEVER has. that's probably why i don't have the best reviews but oh well... i value my health n safety.

I know, I admit, I have no clue when it comes to this TS stuff. Maryland just seems pretty weak compared to what I hear about NYC, LA, Miami and ATL's nightlife. To be honest this is the first time i've even heard about these sites. That's why i'm asking the question. I came across this site and saw some really informative stuff so I said fuck it i'll join...lol I believe there is someone out there for everyone. However, a lot of girls are looking for Mr. Perfect and he just doesn't exist. Too many people (men & women) are too focused on the materialistic bullshit that constitutes about 5% of what it takes in order to sustain a real relationship. Although I pride myself on dressing nicely, keeping a fresh hair cut, whiping a nice car, and maintaing an above average job (i'm not rich though...lol) I don't necessarily seek those things out in a lady...as long as her head is on straight and she carries herself like a dime (and when I say dime, I mean dime as in attitude...i'm more into minute details when it comes to women...feet, hair, nails done, dressed nice as opposed to height or weight) then we are cool. I don't know about the promiscuity thing...I haven't had the opportunity to be with a TS sexually and to be honest i'm good. I'd rather save that occassion for the shortie I intend on being with and not just a random 'provider'. To me, good sex involves mental stimulation...mind sex'n if you will. I have a lot of shit with me though, I don't really think i'd be cool with hanging around a bunch of my girls (if she were a TS) gay friends and trannie friends...just not how I roll. I mean, maybe over time I could accept hanging around a select few friends of hers but to be honest I don't really roll with too many guys like that. I tend to stay to myself and play my position. Good friends can be great enemies...

baby u need to do more research. i'm from maryland. both this site and the other site i own www.tgpixel.com are 100% free with NO membership fees, and i WISH (yes i said wish) i could find someone on here who wanted me for more then just sex that was in my age group and maybe wasn't rich but could atleast take care of themselves and at the same time who isn't promiscuous n would try to holla at my friends or has already slept with 10 ts. if i'm not the 1st experience i don't want it.

p.s.- im an escort but i am 1 of the few who actually doesn't have sex with my clients and NEVER has. that's probably why i don't have the best reviews but oh well... i value my health n safety.

I Thought you was beautiful the first time a laid upon your beautiful picture,you just dont know how happy it would make me to just go on a regular date with you,if more girls were like you smart,beautiful and did i say smart it would be a better place!

I Thought you was beautiful the first time a laid upon your beautiful picture,you just dont know how happy it would make me to just go on a regular date with you,if more girls were like you smart,beautiful and did i say smart it would be a better place!


how can the girls be smart and beautyfull when 95% of the guys who are into transexuals dont really want to get involve with them...they do date have alot amount of sex ones sex is finished or less as usual they move onto theyre best friends lol...its like a chain...they move one from the other..its so not a real relationship and a fake love..this is what happens to my local ts clubs by the way and im sure it would be the same else where..thats why i left there and didnt want to be part of it,i just enjoy my life living as a woman,if a man wants to fall for me or have enough heart to accept me this way then he'l accept me the way ive accepted my self..but the most important thing is that he has to be comfotable with his sexuality, otherwise there will be alot of tension in the relationships...and will not last.


"if more girls were like you smart,beautiful and did i say smart it would be a better place!"

most of the girls lifestyle became the way they did is dues to the fact,
1.unacceptance,family problem,lonelyness,depressions,and most men just dont take them serious or just use them for sex ..in general just a fucked up life..it would be very hard for a tgirl to have a honest genuine relationship and some just give up on it..and stay single.

now ask you're self again how can a tgirl be smart beautfull when most of them have to deal with all this?

if there were more genuine guys with heart out there it would be a better place for tgirls also...

[Hugh Jarrod]

Man I didn't know you could use such a huge avatar on this board. Man that's uge (huge without the H).

[geekmeat]

baby u need to do more research. i'm from maryland. both this site and the other site i own www.tgpixel.com are 100% free with NO membership fees, and i WISH (yes i said wish) i could find someone on here who wanted me for more then just sex that was in my age group and maybe wasn't rich but could atleast take care of themselves and at the same time who isn't promiscuous n would try to holla at my friends or has already slept with 10 ts. if i'm not the 1st experience i don't want it.

p.s.- im an escort but i am 1 of the few who actually doesn't have sex with my clients and NEVER has. that's probably why i don't have the best reviews but oh well... i value my health n safety.

You said a lot right there......I hope you know that.
Lets face facts right here.......the reason why some dude has run up in 10 different TS girls is because he can.
That says something about TS women right there.
You girls all know those thugged out N***** only want you for sex and money if they can get it........THEY dont respect you!
Get that through your head.........
And we know how some of you girls are.......if you have a beef with another TS you get revenge by sleeping with her boyfriend.........
I dont feel sorry for TS girls one bit.
You all act like there are A LOT of guys that will have an OPEN relationship with you.
You all act like its all good when it isnt.
There are only a FEW decent guys that would be into you for you.
But transexuals are so fucking superficial when it comes to things.....reality never intrudes on their thinking process.
All the while its not like you girls arent having sex so any decent guy isnt going to want it.
Im being real here.
Why go through all of this drama with you girls when he could have the real deal AND less drama?
I hate to put it that way but its the truth.
You all act like there is no price to pay for being with a transexual but for a straight guy the price can be too much and for what?

[XXX]

You shouldnt put her in the class with other girls man,she has her own things going on (positive things),she has a right to deny a guy if he has been with 10 girls because i dont think she wants a male whore, you talk about paying a price but if you love someone the price shoudlnt matter!

[Jordan]

Geekmeat, nOT ALL TS's are superficial baby, and some of us cope with and live in reality quite successfully, your generalization is quite unfair, although I will give it to you, you did generalize the majority sad but true, but there are regular tgirls living life and having relationships, that are honest and true..

[Ecstatic]

Man I didn't know you could use such a huge avatar on this board. Man that's uge (huge without the H).
co-sign: and it makes it very hard to read the forum because it pushes all the posts way to the right. Shrink that avatar!

[geekmeat]

Im not making this personal.
No disrespect towards moni or any other transexual.......I was speaking in general.
And NO its NOT always worth it.
Once people know you date TS your branded a fag.
Thats a high price to pay for a relationship that has even less of chance of surviving than with GG.
Usually the good looking transexuals are escorts or players or sometimes both!
Lets take Moni for instance......what "regular" guys even have a chance with her?
Thats why I say its generally not worth it and for the guy,the one thats not on the DL with it.......its just rough thats all.
Another thing......you girls are WAY more sensitive than a GG.
It just makes the prospect of a relationship a difficult endeavor AT BEST.

[Hugh Jarrod]

Geekmeat didn't specify Moni, and XXX a male whore charges $$$, you're thinking of a slut. Geekmeat speaks his mind and some of what he's said I've seen out there. There are more than justa few exceptions as Jordan pointed out though. I may not agree 100% with what Geekmeat said but I agree with a good deal of, and he gets props for speaking his mind, as far a Tgirls seeking out the wrong guys well hell that's human nature. Many people Tgirls, GGs, and men lust for the unattainable or desire what they can not have. Many settle for terrible relationships with someone because looks, and wanting to be with someone everyone else desires. How many women and TSs have you seen dating piece of shit guys who treat them like shit, but they want to make it work so bad they ignore it. All because the guy is what other's would desire. Men do it too. How about trophy wives who put up with ugly men, to be set in life. It is what it is, people are people. Oh and Geekmeat not attacking you but go all the way and use the word, don't half ass it with ******.

[1 Weirdo]

Listren man u will Never be able to get into A TS's head most maybe 85% are un-educated and DUMB thats why they prostitue, the have no class and culture when it comes to a regular life!! all they know is 1 thing thats money for sex, can anyman ever honestly say that he has encountered a TS who did not Prostitute" Escort" iam sorry, its a fact of life face it TS's are not here to be your mate or companion they are here for fun and pleasure and to do drugs with, young TS"s have no role models look at the older ones they promote prostitution and pornography to make a living, when they get old and start lookin like Edward James Almos in the face whos gonna want him , dont bond with them use them what they are here for SEX SEX SEX thats all

[Ecstatic]

That is a reprehensible attitude, 1 Weirdo, and simply not true.

[Quinn]

Man I didn't know you could use such a huge avatar on this board. Man that's uge (huge without the H).
co-sign: and it makes it very hard to read the forum because it pushes all the posts way to the right. Shrink that avatar!

Couldn't agree more. What's next, a life-size avatar of the American flag :lol:

-Quinn

[NoOne]

ecstatic i just want to take a moment to compliment u for always conducting yourself in a positive, intelligent, respectful manner and for keeping an optimistic attitude toward the TS community. just wanted to let u know it doesn't go un-noticed. sorry u can't make the party.

[Ecstatic]

Moni, thank you so much for the kind words. That was very thoughtful. I really appreciate all you do for the community; you're a shining star for real.

I'm really sorry I can't make the party, but on top of everything else, I just had to pay a plumber $476 to NOT fix a problem and have some flooding in the basement to deal with (we've gotten over a foot of rain in the past week and nearly six inches in the past day--not flood conditions, but pretty bad and one of my sump pumps blew up). Not the weekend to travel for fun. I hope it goes great and that I can make one in the future.

[Sonia]

This topic is all over the place. For weirdo1. If so many of the girls are dumb and un-educated as you previously stated then why would you even be on this site. That comment goes to geekmeat as well. TS girls have to go through so much just to have a normal life and be respected as human beings. Why all the generalizations? Why are 2 people in this post sounding like there TS bashing. I am a full time TS and No I do not escort. I do agree with one statement geekmeat posted. It seems in this world, in modern day society that if a man dates a TS, he is considered a fag. I do not personally agree with that but in complete honesty in my ghetto neighborhood as well as almost anywhere in the nation. That is a truth for many.

We live in a world that will label men fags or gay if our business is disclosed. Men are labeleled and considered a fag for dating a TS. That is how it is. I'm not saying thats how it's gonna be forever but Men that are interested in TS but yet have a insecurity to be labeled gay will only make relationships that more difficult. TS's have it hard and this ignorance we have in society does not lift the weight we carry on our shoulders. How many TS's just want to live a normal life? How many ts's just want to have someone to care for and invest time in? How many TS's just want to be respected as regular females?

It is not easy to be a transexual. When it comes to passing,hormones,surgery,career,relationships,resp ect,self-worth,appreciation,Mens insecurities to be labeled gay for dating a TS, Men that just want to have a TS fantasy and crazy trannychasers: It is not easy choosing to be a Transexual. I just wish you men would appreciate the hardships that Ts's have to go through, rather than posting about TS'S being dumb and un-educated and that we're all escorts.

It is a shame that no one understands how hard it is to live our lives. All the TS girls need to step it up and make an effort to make it better for us all. I'm doing my job, but I can't do it alone.

[sngletxn]

I try not to have perceptions about what ts women are or aren't. I admit that the majority I've seen are escorts or party alot and are into drugs. One of the most beautiful girls I met here when I first went out to get to know ts women better turned out to be hooked on coke, and recently when I finally meet a tgirl in my town who could possibly interesting she openly admitted to being a gold digger and that she could only spend time with me if I could afford her. Everyone needs money to survive but I'm not a bank, I thought i was a person. If there is a myth surrounding t-girls I see why its there but its like everything else, it only takes one to ruin the reputation of everyone else.

[Thug_Fessional]

This topic is all over the place. For weirdo1. If so many of the girls are dumb and un-educated as you previously stated then why would you even be on this site. That comment goes to geekmeat as well. TS girls have to go through so much just to have a normal life and be respected as human beings. Why all the generalizations? Why are 2 people in this post sounding like there TS bashing. I am a full time TS and No I do not escort. I do agree with one statement geekmeat posted. It seems in this world, in modern day society that if a man dates a TS, he is considered a fag. I do not personally agree with that but in complete honesty in my ghetto neighborhood as well as almost anywhere in the nation. That is a truth for many.

We live in a world that will label men fags or gay if our business is disclosed. Men are labeleled and considered a fag for dating a TS. That is how it is. I'm not saying thats how it's gonna be forever but Men that are interested in TS but yet have a insecurity to be labeled gay will only make relationships that more difficult. TS's have it hard and this ignorance we have in society does not lift the weight we carry on our shoulders. How many TS's just want to live a normal life? How many ts's just want to have someone to care for and invest time in? How many TS's just want to be respected as regular females?

It is not easy to be a transexual. When it comes to passing,hormones,surgery,career,relationships,resp ect,self-worth,appreciation,Mens insecurities to be labeled gay for dating a TS, Men that just want to have a TS fantasy and crazy trannychasers: It is not easy choosing to be a Transexual. I just wish you men would appreciate the hardships that Ts's have to go through, rather than posting about TS'S being dumb and un-educated and that we're all escorts.

It is a shame that no one understands how hard it is to live our lives. All the TS girls need to step it up and make an effort to make it better for us all. I'm doing my job, but I can't do it alone.

Hey Sonia,

I'm glad you made that post because honestly thats pretty much the reason why I haven't taken dating/seeing a TS very seriously. I know there are limitations as to how far we could go. I'm at this point where i'm suffering an identity crisis, like does this make me gay or something. It's like to me, seeing a man naked makes me want to throw the fuck up but then the sight of a beautiful, passable TS does a complete 180. I know I wouldn't be able to get involved in a serious relationship with a TS woman right now due to a: my job and b: my family I'd probably lose my job and get disowned by family if they ever knew. So to be fair to any lady i'd date, I just don't because it's tough to ask someone to understand your POV that it's not that your ashamed of her, it's that you have to eat and live your life in the same breath.

[TTJ]

Thug-Fessional I couldn't agree with your more as I am in much the same situation. I would really love to get in a relationship but there are many barriers one being that most of the girls I have come in contact with are escorts and like you said thats fine do what you have to do, but it just seems they only want you for money like another member said. I just don't want to be with an escort ts just like there is no way i woudl be with a GG escort as either. There is also the other stereotype of us as ts admirers and that is we only want to have sex with the girls and nothing more. I mean would I like to have sex with a TS girl sure I woudl be lying if I didn't but thats not my aim, I just want to hangout and chill like anyone else trying to get to know a girl. Like Sonia said though if anyone found out you are labeled a fag which really sucks I used to worry about that but now I don't really care think of me what you will, it is more my family that hold me back as they would surely frown on that kind of relationship.

Also I would just like to say to sonia you are very beautiful both in physical sense but also in the mental. It is nice to hear there are girls out there not doing the escort thing and are not just into money, drugs and running the streets. I know there are more out there like you I just hope you become the majority perception of ts girls instead of the minority. Also I would like to give praise to monica you are really doing big things and I hope others will follow your example and I will most definitely be at your party tonight.

[curiousmonkey]

I also agree with Thug_Fessional & TTJ. I've always had a curiousity and interest for passable TS females, but I keep it secretly to myself and maybe only shared this secret with one of my close friends who I knew used to be bi-sexual and wouldn't judge me for it. I'm afraid of being labeled as being gay, because I know I'm still a straight guy, just more open-minded than the people I know. I like straight females, but then I am also interested in passable TS females, but if I see another naked male in front of me I'd also be grossed out. I live with a very traditional and straight asian business family, and if they ever found out I was having any kind of relationship whether intimate or just as friends with a TS female or other, I fear they would be hurt or put in shock and disown me. One of my male cousins came out of the closet and his father disowned him, every since then our relatives and even my immediate family calls his gay son an "unfortunate tragedy." To my personal friends, whether male or female, I'm the men's man in the group. I fear of losing their friendship as they would start to distance themselves from me.

Putting my worries and possible loses aside....

I'd love to join you girls at your party night in DC, but I'm a full-time photo & film college student out here in Cali and time to travel is something I don't have. Does anyone know of any TS party nights or clubs out here in the L.A., CA. area?

I have never met or known anyone else who has TS friends, and would like to meet some people out here in the L.A. Area.

Shout out on the side: "Gia Darling, you are a HOT tamale!" :D

[WEBGODDESS]

Whatever!
Most guys are full of it and just want to use t girls for sex, I get bunch of emails asking me just to meet up but no strings attached, something I dont mind but what I hate is the stupid questions and confussion they have if they start really liking me in a serious way...am I gay? what if I want to take this relationship serious? what about my family?...and bunch of shit like that...once I see this I'm like ...boy you need some balls, grow up and if you love some1 doesn't matter what the world says, you came alone to this world, you leave alone so what you do should matter to you Only, call me selfish, but oh well, no1 said life was gonna be easy or a fairy tale, but I do think if you think you find some1 worth your love regardless of sex,culture,race, you fight fo that feeling, and if you dont you might be missing out on something good.
All T girls are not whores, some of us are just a lil slutty, but you guys love it and you fuckers are no saints, since some of you say and swear are str8, you demand the right to cheat or think seeing genetic girls is not cheating :shock: , so please get your fantasies in the right order then call us whatever you want...I already tried being BAD and guys talk shit, also if you date some1 seriously and don't give it up right away, they think you are a joke, so wtf?...Thats why I see you guys the way you see t girls...so...if you wanna play...theres a playground on my site and plenty of room for BOYTOYS...you get me? kiss :twisted:

[Sonia]

Thats the Backlash. I completely understand where she's coming from. TS girls are not having it. If you men where to be put in our shoes, how would you treat someone that shows you affection then take it back because they are ashamed of what people would think. I understand Ya'll have to eat and live. It is a very difficult situation for both parties involved. I'm so sorry that the world was set up like this. However, I admire the Strength and Perserverence of all TS's. We have come a long way and some men are gonna try to that on the down low business with us. We have it worse when it comes down to the two parties. But, Do we
really? When it comes down to it. There are many men that are gonna like TS's. Especially if your Real, and have Body and a nice Face and charming Persona. Men that are curious, Men that are young, Men that are attracted to us, Men that are extremely handsome, Men that will treat us right. There are many men that are attracted to us and thats the upside to being a Transexual. Men are unpredictable, but there's many to choose from, being a TS. It's better to be in a situation where we have more choices and hopefully we'll find that lucky one. I know he's out there. No matter how some men are insecure or ashamed, there will be many Men ready to show us better, If we allow it. Thats the point. Spend your time on the Men that are respectful and that deserve our time and affection. Don't waste your energy and time on Men that are beating you down with the whole insecurity issue within themselves. ALL these insecurities that men have to be labeled gay has absolutely nothing to do with us. My advice, Let them handle it themselves. Don't let it affect you. There are Men in this world that will only think about you and him and will not worry about others. There is better out there. Believe me, Ladies. I have experienced it many times. You can have your cake and eat it too. <<<< Pretty Face, Almost Double D's, Lot's of Eyecandy for THE 18-24'S.

[edgeoflife]

Well I was raised to show respect to all women. I see ts women as women and they deserve as much affection as gg's. Perosnally, I have always been respectful and sincere to all women.

That includes TS. Whether they are post or pre op, they still deserve the proper treatment and man should give them. They have gone thru much to be where they are.

[Sonia]

Well I was raised to show respect to all women. I see ts women as women and they deserve as much affection as gg's. Perosnally, I have always been respectful and sincere to all women.

That includes TS. Whether they are post or pre op, they still deserve the proper treatment and man should give them. They have gone thru much to be where they are.


Thank You Aaron, I see you were raised right. There are not many men like you in this world and I'm happy I have had the pleasure to come in contact with such a gentleman as yourself. I hope to Thank You in person for that comment you just made. It's not easy to find the right guy to give the goodies too, but some make it easy. Have a wonderful day, Aaron.

[edgeoflife]

You are most welcome, Sonia. I would love that as well. Perhaps, someday we can. IM onlyt a couple hours away.

[Thug_Fessional]

Well I was raised to show respect to all women. I see ts women as women and they deserve as much affection as gg's. Perosnally, I have always been respectful and sincere to all women.

That includes TS. Whether they are post or pre op, they still deserve the proper treatment and man should give them. They have gone thru much to be where they are.


Thank You Aaron, I see you were raised right. There are not many men like you in this world and I'm happy I have had the pleasure to come in contact with such a gentleman as yourself. I hope to Thank You in person for that comment you just made. It's not easy to find the right guy to give the goodies too, but some make it easy. Have a wonderful day, Aaron.


Damn, whiteboy gett'n all the love in here...lol...it's all good homie. Do your thing-thing!

[WEBGODDESS]

can U smell the R-O-M-A-N-C-E :wink: :?: ...

[edgeoflife]

*blushes*

Talk to you soon Sonia.

[oldandwise]

i have been dating shemales for nearly 15 yrs with one relationship lasting 5 yrs, when it good, it's great, but when it's bad, well i won't go there. at present, most of the girls i meet are working girls, however i am still looking for a long term relationship

[wowstick]

It is a shame that no one understands how hard it is to live our lives. All the TS girls need to step it up and make an effort to make it better for us all. I'm doing my job, but I can't do it alone.

When society finally changes and accepts everyone as human beings and not "labels" we can all be free.

[alonelynoone]

im from maryland too and i've alwasy wondered this too...i never hear the big woop woop from MD like i do from NY or LA or whatever...moni's md number 1 because shes the only one i know hahahahahaha...i dont know im not in the loop...im a romantic lookin for some....oh yea nice new page goin on here...hopefully a lil more drama-free...tho it did get intresting at times

[Thug_Angel]

Not all men who are attracted to transexuals are like what has been described. I am in the legal profession, and I am dedicating my professional life to fighting for the civil rights of transgendered people. I would like to find a trangendered woman who would be happy with the lifestyle I could provide her. I enjoy sex, but I also desire love.

[WEBGODDESS]

Listren man u will Never be able to get into A TS's head most maybe 85% are un-educated and DUMB thats why they prostitue, the have no class and culture when it comes to a regular life!! all they know is 1 thing thats money for sex, can anyman ever honestly say that he has encountered a TS who did not Prostitute" Escort" iam sorry, its a fact of life face it TS's are not here to be your mate or companion they are here for fun and pleasure and to do drugs with, young TS"s have no role models look at the older ones they promote prostitution and pornography to make a living, when they get old and start lookin like Edward James Almos in the face whos gonna want him , dont bond with them use them what they are here for SEX SEX SEX thats all

Well I am so glad I am educated enough even as an adult entretainer to keep stupid ass motherfucking losers like you begging me for that SEX,SEX,SEX... :twisted: ...trust me you wouldnt get shit from me even with all the $ of the world :lol:

LOL its so funny to me when all these guys say they want to be in a relationship when the first thing thats on their mind is sex.Guy just dont tak the time to get to know you cuz they only want one thing.I refuse to be somebodys closet buddy thats just not my interest.I really hate guys who have girlfreinds and think they can get with me.Some of you guys need a reality check before you break somebodys heart.I dont even give guys the chance I dont do freinds with benefits or shit like that.Sometimes I really wonder if escorts have it better.At least being a escort you dont have any feelings when a guy doesnt call you anymore.The pay is good.If your heart is broken so what money can fix all problems.

Im so getting ready to start escorting.-

[Thug_Angel]

LOL its so funny to me when all these guys say they want to be in a relationship when the first thing thats on their mind is sex.Guy just dont tak the time to get to know you cuz they only want one thing.I refuse to be somebodys closet buddy thats just not my interest.I really hate guys who have girlfreinds and think they can get with me.Some of you guys need a reality check before you break somebodys heart.I dont even give guys the chance I dont do freinds with benefits or shit like that.Sometimes I really wonder if escorts have it better.At least being a escort you dont have any feelings when a guy doesnt call you anymore.The pay is good.If your heart is broken so what money can fix all problems.

Im so getting ready to start escorting.-

Please don't give into your despair. If you would like someone to listen, please pm me.

LOL its so funny to me when all these guys say they want to be in a relationship when the first thing thats on their mind is sex.Guy just dont tak the time to get to know you cuz they only want one thing.I refuse to be somebodys closet buddy thats just not my interest.I really hate guys who have girlfreinds and think they can get with me.Some of you guys need a reality check before you break somebodys heart.I dont even give guys the chance I dont do freinds with benefits or shit like that.Sometimes I really wonder if escorts have it better.At least being a escort you dont have any feelings when a guy doesnt call you anymore.The pay is good.If your heart is broken so what money can fix all problems.

Im so getting ready to start escorting.-

Funny shit about it is that it has nothing to do with you being a transsexual and everything to do with you just being easy to fuck. Some of yall need to get off that "i'm a TS so you only wanna fuck me for free" pedastool. A guy will fuck another guy (if he's into that), girl, or transsexual if they think they can on the first night. Has nothing to do with your orientation or how you identify with yourself. If you treat yourself with respect and present yourself like a LADY at all times a motherfucker will have to respect you. I can almost guarentee that Dr. King never approached Corretta on some "Hey bitch lemme see ya tongue ring" type shit. Believe it or not there was a time when women actually made men work for some things (i'll let you decide what that some thing was). The sad part about this is, I think that you are using that lame ass argument as a source of encouragement for you to embark on a short-sighted and illogical career as a sex provider. How bout this...man or woman up and take the road less traveled, push yourself to get a real education, to not accept what "they" throw at you, to challenge society and its fucked up norms and to make something of yourself one day, so that one day you'll be remembered as more than just the TS who gave a mean blow job :x

[mark4tg]

I can only speak from my experiences. I have a basic understanding of what Tgirls go through from dating them & talking to many others. Its a rough road, one with alot of issues that collide with leading what most would consider a "normal stable" existance.
Its also tough for the guys that genuinely seek a real relationship with Tgirls. we have to prove our intentions are true to a degree beyond most peoples needs. we have to be extremely open & understanding alot more than any other relationship you have been in before.
All the Tgirls Ive dated have been in the escort or entertainment business. Thats also another thing guys must be accepting of. Its gona be pretty freaking rare that you'll meet with a "real" job. So either you accept that reality or move on.
Personally I dont mind a working girl or a show girl. I totally know that its pretty much part of the package deal. Just like they gota put up with my love for geeky things like action figures, videogames, & sci fi movies. If a girl can seperate her job from your relationship & put just as much effort to make things work as you are, its all gona be good.
Sadly in the world of escorting its kinda messed up. Either she'll be really tied up in it trying to achieve any goals she has for herself or feel is absolutely essential to keep living, the guy will just not fit in that picture & youre out. Same can be with a touring show girl.
You could get sick of the lack of time together, the fact she maybe sleeping with other guys or alot of other guys. She could feel that you are not to far off from her clients. All avenues for guy & girl, its can be very trying to find everlasting bliss but that par for any relationship.
All of this also makes a relationship with Tgirls that much more fulfilling. (at least in my experience) For all the crap you both are delaing with, the greatness comes back just as big.
If you cant hang with any of it, well you arent cut out for the relationship in the first place & any other one you find yourself in will be just as unfufilling. Also if you arent comfortable with yourself & your desires, you wont have the balls to deal with situations that will come in your relationship with a tgirl. If your girl wants you to tell your family & friends shes pre-op or non-op or post-op, you better have no problem doing so. If your not comfortible with who you are, you wont be with who she is.
Also Girls, it may not be an issue with a guy what your gender is. If he's got no prob being in public with you, around his friends, & his family there isnt too much of a reason share possible awkward explanations or vicious arguments about your gender. Unless its absolutely important to you, then well be ready to make your guy uncomfortable about telling Mommy & best friend since 3rd grade about his new girl. (me, i have no probs telling my buddies about any Tgirl Im with. Parents & Grandparents dont really have the mental copacity to comprehend it all & I dont think its a huge issue if they know everything about who Im seeing. Then again Im not close that much with the family.)

Give as much understanding & as much of yourself as you can. If not, nothing is gona work out. Goes for both guys & girls.
(like i said this may not be everyone's case. its just been mine)

[edgeoflife]

I must agree Mark. I have looked for so long, I am not looking to meeta girl and just plain sleep with her. That can come later once we develop love for one another. But only after we establish understanding and respect for each other and get to know each other deeply on a higher level of one anothers minds.

[tthug_Fessional]

Cry me a fucking river man! :cry:


Ball check anyone :?:

You do realize that all that sobb'n Sam schtick doesn't work with these ladies.

[Real_Thug_Fessional]

LOL its so funny to me when all these guys say they want to be in a relationship when the first thing thats on their mind is sex.Guy just dont tak the time to get to know you cuz they only want one thing.I refuse to be somebodys closet buddy thats just not my interest.I really hate guys who have girlfreinds and think they can get with me.Some of you guys need a reality check before you break somebodys heart.I dont even give guys the chance I dont do freinds with benefits or shit like that.Sometimes I really wonder if escorts have it better.At least being a escort you dont have any feelings when a guy doesnt call you anymore.The pay is good.If your heart is broken so what money can fix all problems.

Im so getting ready to start escorting.-

Money, money, money. I haven't met a millionaire ts porn-star, actress, or model yet. Yes, sex sells but it's usually some white guy in a corporate environment bennefiting off of it. Not the young black, white, asian, or whatever race TS who thinks she's just won the sucker lottery by getting $1,500 for a photo or video shoot when the reality is after publishing and distribution an astute business man has probably made 20x that.

But fuck it, some people just love to swim in rivers of benign ignorance.

You can pretend you don't feel anything but at the end of the day...you will. You are human. It's what makes us who we are. The ability to experience joy, hurt, pain, and all that other shit.

You assume that all men want to instantaneously fuck you off the top. Newsflash, if you are online and all your profile pictures show you naked or engaged in some sexual activity chances are yes, a man will approach you as a slut. I've not met too many WOMEN complain about the vulgarities of men online. Women being the operative word. Act like a lady and chances are men will treat you like a lady, act like a slut and well...you know the story.

[edooo]

Act like a lady and chances are men will treat you like a lady, act like a slut and well...you know the story.

Well said, so much meaning in such small sentence.

For you guys that think that all tgirls are escorts and uneducated golddiggers, think again, thats really not true, there are plenty "normal" tgirls out there, both educated and/or working regular jobs and looking for love just as the most of us do. But they are just not as many as the escorts, and a bit harder to find i guess.

[Sonia]

I went off in this thread. I do apoligize.

I am not the same person that typed this almost a year ago.

I am now in love with a wonderful man and I was shocked when I read how I went off in this thread. I am more understanding and tolerant with men's issues now because I have a man in my life that I love and it's made me a better person. I'm much more open minded and patient and understanding with others now.

Thanks to my husband.

Big Kisses to him.

[anoid819]

I went off in this thread. I do apoligize.

I am not the same person that typed this almost a year ago.

I am now in love with a wonderful man and I was shocked when I read how I went off in this thread. I am more understanding and tolerant with men's issues now because I have a man in my life that I love and it's made me a better person. I'm much more open minded and patient and understanding with others now.

Thanks to my husband.

Big Kisses to him.

You might have been going off but alot of what you said in this thread was true.