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[geekmeat]

I was just over at THE OTHER FORUM(even though I am banned) and was reading a very interesting thread.
Blackphobia.
Its seems all too common among transexuals.
Why is this?
It seems many girls are prejudice against black guys and the ones who arent only go for the gangstas.
What gives?
What do you all think?

[Ecstatic]

First of all, I suspect you're referring to TS escorts discriminating against black men. One factor may be bias derived from the all-too-common portrayal of black men in the media (association with crime, violence, low education, etc.): this of course is unfair, but nonetheless present in our society. This may result either in avoiding black men because of their perceived tendency towards crime and violence (note: operative word "perceived" as opposed to actual), or seeking out white men who are perceived as being more upwardly mobile, better educated, higher class and/or wealthier.

Another factor is bias based on the escort's own personal experience of those black men she has known growing up, particularly if she's "from the hood"--which could cut either way as you point out, as a bias for or against "gangstas". And there are those who have had very personal bad experiences with just a few black men, and decided to avoid any potential future problems by simply not seeing any black men altogether (for instance, someone who has been robbed or beaten by a black man). This last bias is of course an unfair generalization, but coupled with the too-common media portrayal of black men in America nonetheless may sway some girls to choose to avoid black men completely.

[NoOne]

I will explain my situation.....

I don't have sex with my clients ( I am strictly nude massage with a few incentives ) so when black men call about my ad i always decline. I have been an escort for several years now and I can honestly say that white men don't mind my rules limiting what we do but if a black man pays 250-300 he is going to want to penetrate or he will want his money back. Black men are more aggressive so i just avoid it and don't bother with them at all when it comes to business.

Now on the other hand.... all I date in my personal life is black men. I have never even had sex with a white guy before except in porn movies. But i don't deal with black men who call and say they saw me on the net. I usually meet them at clubs or in my neighborhood and i'm really picky. I prefer light to medium brown, slim to medium build, 5'11" to 6'4", big dicks, pretty faces, and perfect hygeine like me cuz i am 1 clean n fresh chick. If i'm not their first TS encounter I don't want them cuz most of the TS I know are pretty but nasty, dirty, and don't use condoms n shit. I value my body and my health and I wouldn't jeapordize it for anyone.


That's just me. I hope u found this helpful sweetie.

p.s.- WOW a post by geekmeat and NOOOOO ballroom slang. I'm impressed :lol:

well ive been with some black men before from excorting and recently ive been fantassing about them certain types so im not definately predjudice 8) our moods change or let me say our flavour with men just like food :wink:

All of a sudden I am "SWEETY"?
You must REALLY like black men!

[Hugh Jarrod]

One factor may be bias derived from the all-too-common portrayal of black men in the media


"When I'm at the ATM at night I'm not looking over my shoulder for Tedd Cople!"

.............Chris Rock

[TgirlLover4Life]

I AM GLAD SOMEONE BROUGHT THIS TOPIC UP. WELL WHERE I SHOULD START. I AM A 30 SOMETHING EDUCATED BLACK MALE. WHO HAS A DEEP AFFECTIONS AND ADMIRRATION FOR T-GIRLS? I WOULD LIKE TO FIND ONE SPECIAL T-GIRL AND SETTLE DOWN WITH HER. NOW HERE COMES THE PROBLEM. THERE IS A MYTH THAT BLACK MEN DONOT SPENDS MONEY. THAT BLACK MEN ARE CHEAP AND UNEDUCATED. THIS STRIKES TO THE HEART OF PREJUDICE AND IGNORANCE IN THOSE WHO FORMULATE AN OPINION WITHOUT DOING A WIDE DATA SAMPLE. I MYSELF AND SOME OF MY COLLEAGUES ARE VERY WELL PAID PROFESSIONALS. I`M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT HOW CAN ONE WHOM`S DISCRIMINATED AGAINST; DISCRIMINATE AGAINST ANOTHER RACE OR CLASS OF PEOPLE. SEEMS TO ME THERE SHOULD BE A MUTUAL MEETING POINT, TO BREAK THE STEREOTYPES AND WIDESPREAD INGONORANCE AMONG T-GIRLS WHO DISCRIMINATE AGAINST THE BLACK MALE. MAYBE T-GIRLS NEED TO LOOK INSIDE AND GATHER THERE FEELINGS ON BEING DISCRIMINTED AGAINST IN THE; WORK PLACE AND GENERAL PUBLIC AT LARGE. THEN YOU WILL SEE HOW THIS AFFECTS OTHERS YOU CHOOSE TO UNFAIRLY DISCRIMINATE AGAINST, WITHOUT EVEN GIVING A PERSON A CHANCE.

[geekmeat]

I will explain my situation.....

I don't have sex with my clients ( I am strictly nude massage with a few incentives ) so when black men call about my ad i always decline. I have been an escort for several years now and I can honestly say that white men don't mind my rules limiting what we do but if a black man pays 250-300 he is going to want to penetrate or he will want his money back. Black men are more aggressive so i just avoid it and don't bother with them at all when it comes to business.

Now on the other hand.... all I date in my personal life is black men. I have never even had sex with a white guy before except in porn movies. But i don't deal with black men who call and say they saw me on the net. I usually meet them at clubs or in my neighborhood and i'm really picky. I prefer light to medium brown, slim to medium build, 5'11" to 6'4", big dicks, pretty faces, and perfect hygeine like me cuz i am 1 clean n fresh chick. If i'm not their first TS encounter I don't want them cuz most of the TS I know are pretty but nasty, dirty, and don't use condoms n shit. I value my body and my health and I wouldn't jeapordize it for anyone.


That's just me. I hope u found this helpful sweetie.

p.s.- WOW a post by geekmeat and NOOOOO ballroom slang. I'm impressed :lol:

I find a lot of the girl I talk to are like you(Im not saying its good or bad).
They all want "New beginners"........guys that are virgins to the TS experience and make them their boyfriend or lover.
Its just kinda weird to me because these guys are long shots,they AINT looking for a transexual!
Maybe thats what you all like.
I just find the thought process of women in general kinda........

[hussanyc]

I agree with both Tgirllover4life and geekmeat- it's crazy that we as men have to go thru this to be with a T-girl. It wasn't so bad for me when I lived in NYC but out here in Cali it's crazy. Black TS won't even have a drink with you out here. They walk right pass you in clubs, and even when you hit the stroll they look right pass you. What I find funny in my case is as soon as they see me with my girl ( yes I have a TS girlfriend, we live together) then their mood changes. Sometimes Ladies a man might really just want to be cool with you and be friends- NOT LOOKING FOR A FREEBIE. Oh by the way- I am new here-lol

[Hugh Jarrod]

While I think it's wrong to turn someone away based on what they are. Take into account personal choice. If a we're talking about prostition a gurl has the right to turn away who she wants for any reason she wants. What can you do? Force a gurl to see people by taking her to court? I know Tgirls who prostitute who turn away really old men. Some turn away anyone they judge to be shady looking (a judgemment based on looks), you must take into account the comfort factor as well. It's a mixed bag and things are what they are. Not agreeing with it, just saying consider everything involved and I'm sure each gurl has her reasons, justified or not.

Hey follow Marylander. You could say i'm a young hard working Black male from the BWI area. I don't like that label. Anyways, I'd like to comment. Monica, I totally repect you saying that. If most are like that that you run acrossed, job wise, if i were in your shoes I would too. Business is business, hey if your way works with little drama keep doing it hon. You come across to me as a smart woman. I'm not the club or bar type of guy If I would see you around town I'd be to shy to ask you out. You sound just as picky as i am. -J

I will explain my situation.....

I don't have sex with my clients ( I am strictly nude massage with a few incentives ) so when black men call about my ad i always decline. I have been an escort for several years now and I can honestly say that white men don't mind my rules limiting what we do but if a black man pays 250-300 he is going to want to penetrate or he will want his money back. Black men are more aggressive so i just avoid it and don't bother with them at all when it comes to business.

Now on the other hand.... all I date in my personal life is black men. I have never even had sex with a white guy before except in porn movies. But i don't deal with black men who call and say they saw me on the net. I usually meet them at clubs or in my neighborhood and i'm really picky. I prefer light to medium brown, slim to medium build, 5'11" to 6'4", big dicks, pretty faces, and perfect hygeine like me cuz i am 1 clean n fresh chick. If i'm not their first TS encounter I don't want them cuz most of the TS I know are pretty but nasty, dirty, and don't use condoms n shit. I value my body and my health and I wouldn't jeapordize it for anyone.


That's just me. I hope u found this helpful sweetie.

p.s.- WOW a post by geekmeat and NOOOOO ballroom slang. I'm impressed :lol:

[sngletxn]

This is an interesting post, I am also an intelligent black man who loves t-girls. Due to the recent incident that some of you here know about I haven't tried to speak to anyone even the lovely ladies here that are close to me because I honestly don't want to go through that again. I can understand everyone's point there. It is wrong to judge us on whats on the outside. I'd much rather fing a tg for a relationship than to find an escort for quick fix but that seems impossible now. anyway, black men are sterotyped, judged and feared by so many and its sad, we aren't all like that. I think the ladies here are beautiful and intelligent so hopefully at least we all can break some barriers here.

[hussanyc]

I find it funny that if some girl isn't you first- then she wouldn't be bothered with you. It's strange that our sex life become a deal breaker but no one fault the Ts woman. I am sure by no means that the man is her first but she has these unfair rules for us. Our conterparts don't have to deal with that bullshit. Can you see a Generic Girl says to a man " If I am not you first then I can't date you" LMBAO