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etture
08-22-2005, 07:20 AM
Hello I ask cause this a big subject in the TS community.And I have had problems with this in my relationships.Its seems to me maybe 75 percent are escorts or have done it at one point and to eachs one I'm not gonna get into if its right or wrong.But one example my ex as I firgured out sold coke Its was a big problem I said I can't handle this.She says I'll escort instead then for money I'm like what kinda choice is that.So then guys start calling her when we are toghter And it fucking sucks to hear this shit on my side.Well sadly she got sent to jail for selling coke she was doing both.But she thought I should "understand".I was ok with her doing movies and pics on the net but not sharing her with the world.

Second example I met her online ask her off the bat are u a coke head or escort she says no.I later found out other wise.The I love u fly out we meet hang out become a couple she crys cause she hates what she does stops for a month.Then gos on eros again then cry's says she tried to kill herself.I'm riding with her all thru this telling her ho
w beautiful she is and she is better than what she is doing.Flowers godiva,poems, I'm talking meteor shower of love.She Tells me I'm not good enough for u.U deserve more than this I say hey look im not rich but we can work toghter.And get whatever u need new nose job,a trachea shave whatever for u to feel beautiful.We are a team we got to take care of each other ohh but I don't what u to think I'm using for money.In the end she saids i can't put u thru this and i get a b-day bomb

a job is not easy but not impossible.or going to school and I know societys bullshit.I've heard some TS say well my husband understands thats just a job I don't love the client.But then again my mom who has been marry to my dad for 30 would never say the samething.Theirs also well most guys are liars(very true) why give it for free they use me I'll use them.True just like I said 75 maybe are escorts 95% of guys are lying trolls.Or is it the easy money and good living with the freedom of not having a real job.And how about your emontions where are they in all of this


Please give me your view of not only my ? about my past but what would u do?If you keep escorting did u really love that person?

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~*MoNi*~
08-22-2005, 02:56 PM
I personally would stop altogether although I rarely do it now and I do not nor have I ever gona "all the way" with my clients. A part of me wants a man who discourages what I'm doing because that would show that they truly love me. I've had too many guys I've dated who I personally felt were a little too cool about what I do.

~*MoNi*~

tsluver247
08-23-2005, 02:01 AM
IMHO, I do not think it is right for another person to take another person what they should be doing to make money. If the person does not like what you do, then they do not have to be in one's life (it is a choice to go or stay, in my opinion). I would not want someone to tell me to quit my job because of love. What happens if it does not work out? The odds are greater than 50% if you look at American's divorce rate.

Escorting has a negative connotation towards it, which is understandable. My advice to TS escorts is save up their money and get an education or start your own business and try to get out of the business when you can.

etture
08-23-2005, 10:17 AM
I agree I can't see anyone loving some one and be okay with sharing them that way.For tsluver I not sure if u been in this situation when u love some so much and they escort its not fun.And I would never tell some one what to do as a job or wear to go out and stuff but sleeping with other guys is totally different.I hope it doesn't happen to u and see what your heart goes thru

Young Nastyman
08-23-2005, 07:57 PM
I'm just wondering why are so many TS girls involved in such kind of business, but I guess that our "modern" society is still a big inquisitional motherfucker that still doesn't accept anything "unconventional" to it. And the result is off course that we today have many wonderfull T-girls all over the world, who are very intelligent and well educated human beings, but are still not accepted by a wide range of employers, institutions etc.. And that's sad.. It's gonna take looong time until the humanity defeats that inquisition.. Working as an escort must be an extremly dangerous job, I guess it's also kind of emotionally devastating too. Ladies, do not
expose Yourself to that kind of shit, You don't deserve that! I would never allow my partner to perform that, - hey, if You have a partner, than Your'e supposed to protect her/him, and not let her suffer! Right ?!

tsluver247
08-24-2005, 04:07 AM
I agree I can't see anyone loving some one and be okay with sharing them that way.For tsluver I not sure if u been in this situation when u love some so much and they escort its not fun.And I would never tell some one what to do as a job or wear to go out and stuff but sleeping with other guys is totally different.I hope it doesn't happen to u and see what your heart goes thru

You are correct, Etture. I have never been in that situation. I see your point, but my assumption was that the person knew in the beginning before the person fell in love that they escorted. I can understand not wanting to share your special someone when you are in love, since I would not want to share my lover. But if the person knew upfront that she was an escort, in my opinion, they have no place in telling them what to do given the information beforehand. If you had the information beforehand, the person had the choice in whether to stay or go before one's feelings got involved.

The way I see it, it is like someone marrying a doctor. Then complaining about the long hours, never seeing them, being called in on their days off. You should know what you are getting into and understand oneself to see if you can cope with the other person's lifestyle.

etture
08-24-2005, 05:06 AM
And I asked her 30 seconds into knowing her and got a no.When I figures it out I was in love

tsluver247
08-25-2005, 02:21 AM
And I asked her 30 seconds into knowing her and got a no.When I figures it out I was in love

I am sorry to hear that she did you wrong.

09-12-2005, 03:18 AM
depends if the guy felt excatly the same as i did,but if it was a not a genuine one ,then hell... id no way give up making $7000 a week thats not even trying my best...