flombago
10-13-2006, 12:22 AM
I haven't known many TGirls very deeply, but two that I "dated" for a long time (1 year & 3 years, respectively) were actually lesbian. I dated them as a client who was about twice their age, and we got along fine within the limits of that kind of relationship.
One of these girls married a lesbian, with a full wedding ceremony (I wasn't invited, of course, but I was pleased she took the effort to update me on her life). I was genuinely happy that she had found a wife. Her wife has a good job, so she is taken care of.
The one who married never explained her preference for women, but the other one, who isn't married yet, once explained to me that in romance men had always been a big disappointment, that the ones who liked TGirls tended to run around to other TGirls and then expected her to take them back. So she only dates lesbians, whom she finds to be more likely to commit emotionally.
I'm not sure what general conclusions can be drawn from this, but maybe it shows how young women are on average more sophisticated and mature emotionally on the issue of TGirls than young men, so a lesbian might be a good choice for a lot of TGirls. I wonder how common it is ? Well, us "older" guys can be pretty mature and sensitive, but clearly not as exciting to be with as those young bad boys. But, probably there are some nice young guys on this forum (we've seen some evidence), so maybe there is hope for men yet.
One of these girls married a lesbian, with a full wedding ceremony (I wasn't invited, of course, but I was pleased she took the effort to update me on her life). I was genuinely happy that she had found a wife. Her wife has a good job, so she is taken care of.
The one who married never explained her preference for women, but the other one, who isn't married yet, once explained to me that in romance men had always been a big disappointment, that the ones who liked TGirls tended to run around to other TGirls and then expected her to take them back. So she only dates lesbians, whom she finds to be more likely to commit emotionally.
I'm not sure what general conclusions can be drawn from this, but maybe it shows how young women are on average more sophisticated and mature emotionally on the issue of TGirls than young men, so a lesbian might be a good choice for a lot of TGirls. I wonder how common it is ? Well, us "older" guys can be pretty mature and sensitive, but clearly not as exciting to be with as those young bad boys. But, probably there are some nice young guys on this forum (we've seen some evidence), so maybe there is hope for men yet.