My thought about transitionning..

[unlearned]

Hello , people.

I dont know if there is anyone here who has not transitioned yet...I am just taking Evansence and Feminol...i dont think they are working well!

anyways...i am quite ambigious about transitionning, i am wondering if you guys have any advice or feel the same way?

I think I genuinely do want to look like a girl but gender diversity is such a huge continuum, I really have to find a space where I am comfortable with myself. That’s the only way I will get better. But I don’t feel that I can find the space where I am comfortable with myself if I am constantly thinking how people will see me. However, does being myself means changing my body. Would changing my body be something I would be doing to please the society? I do not think so entirely. I think there is an element of wanting to be more girly so I could fit in, but another element is that I think the hormones that will be taken will allow me to feel more girly and express myself. It’s hard to feel girly when you are constantly having an erection. At the same time, do I need to take hormones, would that be too drastic a move, that the cost would out weight the benefits? I think the best choice is to live with what you have but …I feel that I need to change because I think it’s too hard to live in a male body, psychologically and emotionally and physically. I am displeased with how much I don’t look like a girl even though I feel like one.

[marcello]

Ciao Unlearned,

I can't answer those questions for you, but there is definitely peolpe here who are going through, or have gone through what you are feeling.

Personally, do what makes you feel good about yourself. Don't make rash decisions, and definitely don't do something just to please "society"!

Welcome to the forum, and I wish you the best.

PM me if you need to vent......I am a good listener! :-D

Ciao,

Marcello
:-D

[unlearned]

Aww thanks. I dont think anyone can answer those questions for me really...I am just rambling. lol.

I know it's not good to do anything for anyone, but i think being a sissy boy is incredibly difficult and unrewarding. I don't know, I think it's better to be a girl. Both options are looked down upon by society but i feel like a girl and why torture myself since its going to be a torture to be a sissy boy anyways. :lol:

and i think its also easier to be a girl because i feel more like a girl with less male hormones.

[NICOLE757]

Alot of ts's get body enhancements to please society, but intern i think it builds ts's self esteem. Who wants to be dressed as a woman with a flat chest and a big nose? Who wants to be eye balled and pointed at because you resemble a man? If getting rhinoplasty, implants, harmones, silicone, or whatever else- makes you look more like a woman and has you somewhat look more lady like- then by all means do it. I personally see no harm in it if it makes you walk proud.