she said she was in love

[BigHawk]

this chick i was having sex with ask me to marry her, yes she a TS i have know her for six months what do i do

[Ecstatic]

You should do what feels right for you. I don't think anyone can answer that for you in a forum. You do have some serious questions to ask yourself, as does she, and to ask both of you.

[uriah]

That is some really good advice...you know just by asking you are sounding like you got cold feet and are unsure of yourself...I dont' think your unsure of her but you really gotta ask yourself...until death do you part...are you ready for that my friend cause that is marrige! don't foil it or break her heart by marrying her and then backing out later...

[Jordan]

Did she ask you in the middle of sex? or did I misinterpret? If in the middle of sex, then DAYUM daddy you must be good!!

[PetalsInMyHair]

Good question, Jordan~ lol. So, this is just a 'chick you have sex with'?... I'm sure she must be much more than that if she's asked you to marry her. :eek: :shock:

[BeardedOne]

I don't mean to rain on your parade (And I'm soooo not the one to ask about relationship advice), but six months is a pretty short test-drive for either of you.

Give her a 'maybe' chit and take it to the next level which, oddly enough in this scenario, might be dining and dancing, walks in the park, long chats about nothing in particular, late nights watching creepy or weepy viddies.

You know, the usual relationship stuff that always follows sex. :-D

[robin]

this chick i was having sex with ask me to marry her, yes she a TS i have know her for six months what do i do

I'm just curious. Do you know any of the members of this forum personally? Or do you know anyone who might know you well enough to make such an important decission for you?
I say marry her. Seeing that you haven't offered any reason why you should not, I don't see why you should not. So get married buddy.

[~*~ShyGurL~*~]

this chick i was having sex with ask me to marry her, yes she a TS i have know her for six months what do i do

I'm just curious. Do you know any of the members of this forum personally? Or do you know anyone who might know you well enough to make such an important decission for you?
I say marry her. Seeing that you haven't offered any reason why you should not, I don't see why you should not. So get married buddy.

can u clarify it a bit? how long have u known her? or do you know her that much as a person and not just a sex partner?

[JeanClaude]

Hummm, 6 months of a relationship are maybe not enough to decide.

I have some questions that come to my mind, now...
1 Do you meet her frequently?
2 Do you share a home with her?
3 Do you live with her?
4 Have you started to build a couple with her?
5 Is your relationship satisfying enough to consider more options (like wedding, of course)?

If I was in that case AND if my TS GF was really in love with me (of course, I imply we make love also frequently, *coughs*), I would say to her : "Okay, baby. What do you think about living with me a little more time, so that we know each other more and be realy a couple? Then, after that, why not marry?"

Because, I'm thinking.
My GF and I will build a couple, a Family. Based on love, based on mutual caring, based on mutual respect also. Living as everybody lives in this particular and tender situation. Sharing everything; even all the home-work that has to be done at home.

Well, let's say we do it for 3/6 months, that would make a total year of "experiment" (again, lack in english, sorry, guys and ladies). If everything has gone well, regardless to the disputes that we would have had (like in other couples'life), if love was strong and still, well, I would like to marry her. :-D Without any hesitation.

But it's only what I would expect to do.
This is not my case, this is yours, after all...

[fabulousFABBY]

6 months for me is too short.. if i were you, get to know her more... find out her motives etc.. but if u really love her, then go on.. on the end its still you prerogative... goodluck... :-D

[WillowQueen]

Has she been waiting all this time? Give her some sort of answer... or at least order a pizza, she must be hungry.