Revenge? or Walk away?

[Jordan]

Ok This is for the ladies, What method do you use when a guy "plays" you? Ie: Stands you up. uses you as a "lab rat" (curiousity seeker) or is just plain disrespectful to you? I know this sounds bitter, but we ALL have been there, i'm just curious how the girls handle it. Me personally i walk away, cause after all My way of thinking is Dick is a dime a dozen. and a hot ts is rare, so who really has the upper hand? lol. ok i'm done ranting, ladies please feel free to share any thoughts you have, either hypothetically or factual.

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[Arianna]

I agree, Harajuku. I generally give someone a piece of my mind, and I'm done. End of story. No more chances. Oh, fucking-well. Whatever my passability talents currently are, or will be in the future, I'm confident that there's only one me and that I'm special. If I have to point that out, even once, too much of my time has already been wasted. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and I'm picky about which ones I won't throw back. I'm not any man's mommy, and I have no interest in raising someone else's grown children. I don't even take it personally. I just don't take it. They can apologize up and down and, because I'm the better person, I may even accept. But their next screw-up (and there will be a next) will have to be someone else's problem. Watching a predictable pattern of deceit unfold is just not my thing. Life's too damn short.

[roseofsapphire]

I might get verbally upset, but I'm a big believer in Karma and if they've hurt me in some way like that, I always know it will come back to them.

[angel_glow]

its best to walk away girl it was lucky for me to learn so young and early about the a to z lifestyle of an average tgirl that change me to be harder and tougher to get than ever....i dont tolerate jerks like that or be used and abused as a tes drive, or a sex toy iv only kept intouch with guys ive dated and have kept them as friends for life

p.s my new year resolutions" no freebies from jerks":wink:

[KaMiLeUnGuRl]

Personally id look for a real man in that case, i mean its never happened like they used me or anything cause honestly in the past i ued them even if i had to make them think they were using me ie playing drunk as shyt to get them in bed... as for the tgirl relationship, this relationship is my first one.... he tried playing me online by secretly camming otehr girls which is a no no for me..WITH MY CAM A BOUGHT THREE DAYS BEFORE!!! well its all good i dont know what else to say on that im keeping my mouth zipped!!!.. When i did find out, he was like a dog who did something wrong head down pouting and begging forgiveness... Hes lucky i love him though.... he did get a good verbal beatdown though trust me on that!... i never seek revenge though. I dont do much out of spite, i do things on how i feel about doing it ;) If i personally think its alright ill go with it. But a guy will never PLAy me and get away with out a verbal beat down :D

[MsDazzler]

Hmmmm.... I m the type who gives the cold shoulder when I m pissed off.

[TrinityBlue]

MAKE THE FUKKERS REMEMBER YOUR NAME
I am all for revenge I could play the nice sweet passive Desperate Housewife routine but when a man fuks with me watch out here comes Tank Girl...lol...There are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many ways to make a man pay dearly for bruising your ego or breaking your heart and some of the best ways are when he doesnt even see it coming or know where its coming from........REVENGE IS A DISH BEST SERVED COLD.....For all those interested in my sick methodical forms of antagonstic revenge message me...I will be holding T Girl Revenge 101 courses in this forum....winks :twisted:

imao @ trinityblue that is pure evvil girl lol :lol: :lol: :lol: ilurv it 8)

[kalina]

Basically, I chastise the guy on my web site. I point out enough details about him without giving his name (well, I omit the guy's last name :D ) and the ~ 65,000 people who read my web site will know the muthf***** who stood me up. If and when I get an apology, then I'll consider being nice to him.

[TrinityBlue]

Thats My Kinda Girl...Kalina passes stage first term in revenge 101 with an A+ :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

[luthien]

really ,as mad as i can get with some guys atittude i just cant be bothered to exact any sort of revenge.life is too short to spend it worrying about assholes
and and the strange "one time only" wonders of this world...i can empithise whith anyone who feels thay must extract some sort of revenge.... but i wouldnt wate my time.....
the world moves on,and so shall i
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Rolling Eyes

[edgeoflife]

I sure am glad i was raised with the respect I have for women.

woo

[Sonia]

Jordan, What a great topic. I agree with many of the ladies in this post. I say for me it depends on the situation. The less severe, the more I'll tend to give a lil cold shoulder with a blankless expression on my face. Like Give me another reason to break. The more severe, God help them. I have an extremely bad temper. Sweet angel when I'm nice but a Nasty stubborn bitch I am when my temper flares. First, I thought it could be the hormones. But just having breast augmentation, I had to stop the hormones 8 weeks prior to surgery. I was still the same person and I realized a temper is a temper.

When I get a lil urked, I try to distance myself when I get a lil angry. It's kinda my self-defense mechanism to stay as polite and avoid the person before I blow up. If I have my own house, car, career, family, friends, Boytoys, happiness. I won't need anything from anyone.
revenge 101

[TrinityBlue]

Actually your last statement is one of the best ways in Revenge 101...Living the good life moving forward and being happy with who and what you are without or without that person :lol: You made an awesome point....I still tends to let alot of things slide when I should'nt and take what I consider the high road at times...But god HELP the man if I think he truly did me wrong..lol...But your right walking away and being classy about it and letting them see what a great life you have is awsome revenge..Because there looking in from the outside on what they could have had and your paying it no mind!!!!
Cheers!!!! :P

[WEBGODDESS]

Forget it...I SAY KARMA :twisted: :!:...perhaps you guys ever heard:When walking in open territory, bother no one. If someone bothers you, ask him to stop. If he does not stop, destroy him. :?: ...let me put it in other words: DONT START NO SHIT...THERE WON'T BE NO SHIT!!!Aight :wink: ...