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Harajuku Tgirl
09-28-2005, 07:38 AM
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edgeoflife
09-28-2005, 08:45 AM
I will try to answer these good question.

a.)Would you prefer or even care or only into a TS if she is passable? Or not? Fulltime or parttime?

Id prefer fulltime, passable would help. She need not look like a supermodel.

b.)Would you be into a TS if she has breast or is that not too important?

Breasts are nice, dont have to be huge.

c.)Would you want a ts gurl with a nice hips, hiney and legs? If with men would you prefer a guy who's well groomed, scruffy, with a nice ass, strong sexy thighs, firm legs, hairy chest etc?

Well, I am not all that.. but I would like a girl with fem features.

d.)Would you want a pretty face i e. like features..nice hair, pretty eyes, lips, long lashes etc?

Same as prior answer.

e.)A nice body perhaps? Do you prefer thin frame, athletic built, voluptous or heavy set? Is weight an issue with you?

Thin or athletic is nice. If she is voluptous, fine. all i look to is her heart.

f.)A TS woman or Man who's dumb or intellectual that you can relate to and have a good conversations with? Is sense of humor important?

I like a woman that level headed, has common sense, intellegence is great.

g.)What ethnicity/ies are you most attracted to or into? Or It doesnt really matter?

Ethnicity is not an issue.

h.)Do you care if a TS/Man is strictly a bottom? Or do you like a TS/Man to be a top only? maybe versatile perhaps?

I am top, therefore I'd prefer a bottom strictly.

i.)Is height an issue with you say if she/he is to tall? Too short? Proportionate to you height a better pick when out publicly?

Tall or short makes no difference. I have seen tall and short GGs my whole life. EVen dated a gg in high school who was taller than me. Had to stand on her doorstep to kiss her goodnight.

j.)Do you prefer a TS/Man to be cut or uncut? Hung, average or small interms of Endowment?

Cut or uncut makes no difference. As far as size.. no difference.

k.)Do you care what a TS/Man does for a living? (Say with TS'es..Porn, escorting etc.) Is that an issue or a none issue?

I dont judge what a girl does for employment.. althought if we were dating, Id prefer she wasnt an escort. Id worry for her safety.

But, most of all, I look for a caring, appreciative loving woman with a good sense of humor, likes poetry.

09-28-2005, 12:31 PM
The most important thing to me has to be the personality. If I can't hold a conversation with her it would be pointless. Intelligence and common sense are important too.
Someone that is just as comfortable going out and having fun as she is just kicking back for the evening with a movie at home.
As far as looks. A pretty face and a warm smile is important.
Height is never an issue with me. Most women I know are a little taller than me. The drawback to being 5'7". As long as she's alright with my height all is good. :)
Breast size also never an issue. Unless they are like Dolly Parton big. That kinda scares me. lol
I've never given a thought to her "size" because that has never been a factor to me.
The top/bottom thing? She would have to be bottom with me because I know I have no interest in being one.
On the subject of sex? I would want her to not have it as a priority. I'm not saying have no sex. I'm Just saying that it shouldn't be the main point of the relationship. Sex can be so much better if the people can connect on a mental level.
Actually I will say that the most important thing even more than personality is making a connection to where we can not only be lovers but also be friends. To me that raises the intimacy level so much further. I mean who wouldn't want that girl that can be sweet, fem and loving on an intimate level and yet other times you can just hang out with, tell jokes and just talk about how your day went?
OK. Just reread the original post so I'll hit a few things I missed.
I would prefer her to be fulltime and passable.
Ethnicity? I think all woman are beautiful regardless of skin color or ethnic background but I am more attracted to white women.
Her employment? If it's something like internet or modeling I would have no problem at all.
Movies? Well if it's someone I'm in a relationship with I would trust her judgment and never presume to tell her how to make her money. The big thing is that she will always know that she has a man that has complete faith, trust and love waiting for her at the end of the day.
Escorting? Like Edge I would be concerned for her welfare. Yes, I know that most of the time it's safe but there are always the small group of guys that will become dangerous.
For the most part though I would trust her judgment on the subject just as long as she is tolerant enough to put up with a guy that worries about her. :)
I would never presume to tell her how to live her life but I would want her to be able to talk to me about it.
If I missed anything I apologize but I think I mostly covered my thoughts. :D

Scott

Scott
09-28-2005, 12:33 PM
forgot to log in. That was mine above.

Scott

Ecstatic
09-28-2005, 03:07 PM
I've resequenced some of your questions to reflect what's more important to me.

f.)A TS woman or Man who's dumb or intellectual that you can relate to and have a good conversations with? Is sense of humor important?

This is numero uno for me: she doesn't need to be intellectual, but she does need to be intelligent. I value long conversations on any number of topics, so that's vital to me in any relationship. Likewise, humor: if she can make me laugh, I'll love her for it.

a.)Would you prefer or even care or only into a TS if she is passable? Or not? Fulltime or parttime?

Fulltime and passable.

d.)Would you want a pretty face i e. like features..nice hair, pretty eyes, lips, long lashes etc?

Yes. A pretty face is more important to me than a sexy body. I love to look in a girl's eyes, to see her laugh and smile, to kiss her, all of that.

e.)A nice body perhaps? Do you prefer thin frame, athletic built, voluptous or heavy set? Is weight an issue with you?

Yes, a nice body is also high on the list. Type is less important, though I'm more attracted to slim, athletic (but not muscular) builds than I am to voluptuous or heavy set builds.

b.)Would you be into a TS if she has breast or is that not too important?

Breasts, yes, but size is not all that important. I like a girl to look fem and her breasts to be proportionate to her body type: one girl I've known for over three years has 38DDs which are stunning (and feel very natural), but she's 5'11" and they appear quite natural to her body. Another girl I know has 32Bs, hormone-induced with no implants, and they are also wonderful. But Dolly Parton breasts on a girl with a small frame--nah.

c.)Would you want a ts gurl with a nice hips, hiney and legs? If with men would you prefer a guy who's well groomed, scruffy, with a nice ass, strong sexy thighs, firm legs, hairy chest etc?

Yes. However, what attracts me is smooth, nice skin, nice legs, and a pretty butt which needn't be silicone enhanced. I know girls want to look fem and get that hourglass shape, but if it means risky silicone injections, then I prefer their natural shape. Not all gg's have hourglass shapes, either.

g.)What ethnicity/ies are you most attracted to or into? Or It doesnt really matter?

Not a concern, but I am quite attracted to Thai girls and latinas next.

h.)Do you care if a TS/Man is strictly a bottom? Or do you like a TS/Man to be a top only? maybe versatile perhaps?

I prefer versatile because I'm versatile, but I'm quite comfortable with either.

i.)Is height an issue with you say if she/he is to tall? Too short? Proportionate to you height a better pick when out publicly?

Within reason is fine: a girl between 5'6" and 5'9" is ideal (I'm 5'8"); my friend who's 5'11" (6'2" in heels) is a bit tall, but I've gone out to dinner with her and felt quite comfortable.

j.)Do you prefer a TS/Man to be cut or uncut? Hung, average or small interms of Endowment?

Cut or uncut is fine; slight preference for uncut but not an issue. Average endowment (6") to maybe 8".

k.)Do you care what a TS/Man does for a living? (Say with TS'es..Porn, escorting etc.) Is that an issue or a none issue?

Non-issue.

l.)Would age differences be a factor for you?

Only if it is to her.

slayerpsp
09-28-2005, 06:29 PM
Would you prefer or even care or only into a TS if she is passable? Or not? Fulltime or parttime?
passable fulltime
b.)Would you be into a TS if she has breast or is that not too important?
doesnt matter
c.)Would you want a ts gurl with a nice hips, hiney and legs? If with men would you prefer a guy who's well groomed, scruffy, with a nice ass, strong sexy thighs, firm legs, hairy chest etc?
i love a nice ass and legs but it not a deal breaker
d.)Would you want a pretty face i e. like features..nice hair, pretty eyes, lips, long lashes etc?
yes more fem the face the better
e.)A nice body perhaps? Do you prefer thin frame, athletic built, voluptous or heavy set? Is weight an issue with you?
i like girls with a little extra i dont mean fat but not skinny just right
f.)A TS woman or Man who's dumb or intellectual that you can relate to and have a good conversations with? Is sense of humor important?
smart dumb doesnt matter but must love to laugh
g.)What ethnicity/ies are you most attracted to or into? Or It doesnt really matter?
i dont care but i do like the latin girls a lot
h.)Do you care if a TS/Man is strictly a bottom? Or do you like a TS/Man to be a top only? maybe versatile perhaps?
im the top she is the bottom but if she wants to switch i might be talked into it depends on the girl
i.)Is height an issue with you say if she/he is to tall? Too short? Proportionate to you height a better pick when out publicly?
i like petit woman but as long she isnt taller then me im 6ft
j.)Do you prefer a TS/Man to be cut or uncut? Hung, average or small interms of Endowment?
uncut or cut dont care and id say avg is fine since im avg
k.)Do you care what a TS/Man does for a living? (Say with TS'es..Porn, escorting etc.) Is that an issue or a none issue?
no dont care what they do as long as they are happy
l.)Would age differences be a factor for you?
i like younger girls myself so its up to them im 36 i like the girls in there 20s but who doesnt

hhat
09-28-2005, 07:49 PM
a.)Would you prefer or even care or only into a TS if she is passable? Or not? Fulltime or parttime?

:I would prefer a woman who I found attractive, so that would mean passable.

b.)Would you be into a TS if she has breast or is that not too important?

That wouldn't be as important...I've been involved with women of different busts and I don't have a preference.

c.)Would you want a ts gurl with a nice hips, hiney and legs? If with men would you prefer a guy who's well groomed, scruffy, with a nice ass, strong sexy thighs, firm legs, hairy chest etc?

I prefer a fit woman, but that doesn't mean I carry around a tape measure. Besides that is more an initial thing, I can't say I've ever left a girl because she put on weight.

d.)Would you want a pretty face i e. like features..nice hair, pretty eyes, lips, long lashes etc?

Pretty is nice of course, but again...for me it tends to be the eyes that get my attention. I don't have a particular look I go for, but hideously ugly doesn't really excite me..

e.)A nice body perhaps? Do you prefer thin frame, athletic built, voluptous or heavy set? Is weight an issue with you?

I like athletic and voluptous women.....I've never been with a super skinny girl, or heavy set...

f.)A TS woman or Man who's dumb or intellectual that you can relate to and have a good conversations with? Is sense of humor important?

I can't stand a woman who you can't have a conversation with. And yes a sense of humour is very important....Dr. Spock isn't fun on a date...even with curves. :)

g.)What ethnicity/ies are you most attracted to or into? Or It doesnt really matter?

Coudn't care less.

h.)Do you care if a TS/Man is strictly a bottom? Or do you like a TS/Man to be a top only? maybe versatile perhaps?

I don't really care, however I have no desire to be topped. How it would work out is why there are so many ways of having sex I suppose.

i.)Is height an issue with you say if she/he is to tall? Too short? Proportionate to you height a better pick when out publicly?

don't care.

j.)Do you prefer a TS/Man to be cut or uncut? Hung, average or small interms of Endowment?

Never really thought of it.

k.)Do you care what a TS/Man does for a living? (Say with TS'es..Porn, escorting etc.) Is that an issue or a none issue?

Hard question, frankly I would have to be involved to know. Its easy to say: No I don't care is she escorts....but when your lying in bed alone thinking of her working....I imagine its a very different story. Plus if you really do care deeply for her...well logic is out the window right?

l.)Would age differences be a factor for you?

Within reason, no.....I can't say I'd be interested in a teenager, and I don't know that a lady in her late 50's would be very appealing...

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~Kisses.

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Ecstatic
09-28-2005, 10:25 PM
hhat, is that Dr Spock or Mr Spock? :lol:

As for women in their 50s or 60s: have you ever taken a recent gander at Sohia Loren? Raquel Welch? Dyan Carroll?

Ucked Fup
09-29-2005, 12:20 AM
a. I would have to say the more fulltime "passable", i.e. feminine and could pass the single-look-in-a-bar test, the better.

b. Breasts not as important, completely flat starts into the iffy land

c. Would you want a ts gurl with a nice hips, hiney and legs? Yeah, most likely

d. Would you want a pretty face? Yeah, probably that too.

e. Weight can be an issue when coupled with overall attractiveness and personal behavior; excessive overweight plus not exercising, smoking, and just not giving a damn about one's health - big problem. Extra pounds because of genes or glands I can accept.

f. For a relationship I prefer someone with acceptable intelligence. If I was into promiscuous sex (I'm not anymore) then I wouldn't care. Sense of humor is always a plus.

g. It doesn't really matter, but if forced I would probably go white, asian, latino, pacific island then black. I also understand that, unfortunately, relationships outside of one's race bring their own set of unique problems.

h. The TS should be submissive/passive.

i. Proportional height.

j. The TS can be cut and average sized. I guess a hung TS would be okay but since I'm not interested in receiving it would seem a shame to waste it??

k. I would probably not like the escorting and/or porn work. I would tolerate it if it were a gateway to college and fulltime career. For most, porn isn't a full time career and would only be a matter of time before something negative happened while escorting.

l. For a long-term relationship, yes; -10/+3 years. For short-term mutual relationships, probably not but would not prefer extremes on the older side.

whew... that was long winded...
:D

Harajuku Tgirl
09-29-2005, 02:27 AM
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hhat
09-29-2005, 04:48 PM
hhat, is that Dr Spock or Mr Spock? :lol:

As for women in their 50s or 60s: have you ever taken a recent gander at Sohia Loren? Raquel Welch? Dyan Carroll?

yes I have, and I'm still more attracted to younger women. I'm sure that will change, but for me that is how it goes. I'm not saying they aren't attractive women, just that I prefer a different sort of look.

CaliBoy951
09-29-2005, 06:17 PM
Well,
First of all I look for somebaody that I am attracted to, and then I really just want someone that is honest. I am into TS's that do NOT have a bunch of drama, or that are moody. Having fun, and enjoying life is what I am after. Oh yea, somebody that is sexually compatible, meaning that I enjoy sex, and once a week...no way!
Thats just what I look for.

Châteauroux
09-30-2005, 11:12 PM
1. What do you look for in your "IDEAL" of a TS Woman or "Ideal Man??
ComeOn now Hehe..I know we all got our preferences :wink: ..LOL For the TS'es please just substitute terms "Appropriate" for a Man :wink:

a.)Would you prefer or even care or only into a TS if she is passable? Or not? Fulltime or parttime?

Passable is just an observation from others. Others aren't with her though, only I am. And for me ones appearance it not as important as their personality (cliché, but true.).

b.)Would you be into a TS if she has breast or is that not too important?

If I fall for someone it's for that person as a whole. Breasts are nice, but 'Ms. Right' does not have to carry big boys.

c.)Would you want a ts gurl with a nice hips, hiney and legs? If with men would you prefer a guy who's well groomed, scruffy, with a nice ass, strong sexy thighs, firm legs, hairy chest etc?

I don't have a strict definition for what could be a nice hip, hiney or leg. As for men: hygienics first and foremost! Then we'll see about the rest.

d.)Would you want a pretty face i e. like features..nice hair, pretty eyes, lips, long lashes etc?

Thing with beauty is that it is undefined and can come in many forms. I'm not too picky and prefer the natural look. A touch of a visagist here and there is OK, as long as they don't overdo it in a way that they lose their natural look.

e.)A nice body perhaps? Do you prefer thin frame, athletic built, voluptous or heavy set? Is weight an issue with you?

It's not an issue for me, but my preference is an average bodytype.

f.)A TS woman or Man who's dumb or intellectual that you can relate to and have a good conversations with? Is sense of humor important?

If the conversations are good it usually doesn't take too long before humor arizes, in my experience. And if the conversations are good, the fact that someone is considered 'dumb' or 'intelligent' wuicly turn irrelevant.

g.)What ethnicity/ies are you most attracted to or into? Or It doesnt really matter?

It doesn't really matter.

h.)Do you care if a TS/Man is strictly a bottom? Or do you like a TS/Man to be a top only? maybe versatile perhaps?

Tough question. Here I'd like to give the answer as the last question, but that wouldn't be entirely honest.
My problem is that I don't how to deal with being a top or a bottom for the rest of life. I guess I got used to it so much that it's hard to imagine that I'll never experience 'topping' or 'bottoming' again, because I do want to remain faithful.
Versatile would be best for me, but I can't demand that from anyone. Like 'OK, you've been fucking me for weeks, now it's time to turn to tables'. I guess I'm gonna have to find someone who's openminded enough to work things out in some way, but that person doesn't have to exclusively top, bottom or versatile. Just someone who's able to satisfy my sexual needs - as it will be paid back in full.

i.)Is height an issue with you say if she/he is to tall? Too short? Proportionate to you height a better pick when out publicly?

7 ft is too tall, 4 ft is too small. Don't care too much about being with that someone in public though, I'm walking with that person because I want to be with that person.

j.)Do you prefer a TS/Man to be cut or uncut? Hung, average or small interms of Endowment?

All that is functional and manageable has my preference, doesn't matter if it's cut or uncut. Has to be clean though, but that goes without saying.

k.)Do you care what a TS/Man does for a living? (Say with TS'es..Porn, escorting etc.) Is that an issue or a none issue?

Generally not, but escorting might be an issue due the fact that a client might give her some kind of std or some other kind of horrible experience.

l.)Would age differences be a factor for you?

Having the same thinking pattern usually makes up for that but there age gaps that I just wouldn't feel comfortable with. Like (for instance) me being 45 dating a 20 year old or me being 23 and dating 56 year old.
If it's just for an adventure I see no problem with it.

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eclectic_co
10-02-2005, 05:01 PM
Someone who will call me back.

No seriously! The internet is not real life.

as for the rest here goes:

a) has to be passable and fulltime - more of a gender identity issue than anything

b & c) legs and rear end, all girls have those? :lol:

d) more passable the better - more a comfortabe in her skin thing :wink:

e) I like athletic women - I am athletic and I want a relationship in and out of the bedroom.

f) has to be very smart - not necessarily schooled! with smarts comes humor - i admire a desire to learn and be involved.

g) does not really matter, but I like darker skinned girls it seems.

h) Versatile is cool - but it is not about who does what to whom for me but about thinking about what might please, both for her and for me. One should never stop learning/exploring each others wants and desires. So that is most likely why.

i) height does not matter in the least - i have been very attracted to tiny and tall.

j) i have never been w/ a ts that was uncut so who knows? The size of the plumbing is not an issue for me - all is good.

k) i do not care what my lover does, (if we are a serious couple then escorting excluded) but i do insist that anyone i am serious about contribute to the household - work is the most common way to do this. but it could be in other ways. we would have to discuss it.

l) Not in the least. I have an old spirit but a young heart and it has always been easy for me to attract or be attracted to all ages.

Hugh Jarrod
10-02-2005, 06:04 PM
Big tits. LOL! kidding I'll have to get back to you on this one.

O0oOiiThinkDehLykeME
10-02-2005, 07:44 PM
me personally, whether its a girl witta diq or pussy. first off she has to look like a girl. there are gg's that look like guys which is juss nastii. i like a gg n tg with a nice smile. nice hair, can carry a convo bodii aint tooo important but i am attracted to a nice bodii. n juss fun doin w.e. even if its simple like walkin around the block together :)

MsDazzler
10-03-2005, 04:08 AM
the ideal man in America is "tall, dark-haired, handsome, and fit".

the ideal woman in America is "petite, busty, perky, and blonde".

Incidentally that ideal is my type in men. I guess I am brainwashed. LOL

But damn, incidentially, I am not that ideal woman! LOL

1BronxThug
10-05-2005, 08:03 PM
A- Prefer is she is Passable which means she would also be Fulltime if not the he is a Crossdressing Weirdo

B- If no breast than she's not a transexual

C- Defintely nice legs and hips and A$$

D- All of the above

E- weight is not an issue if you can be banged out while in the pretzel position thats all that matters

F - Kind of smart with a great sense of humor

G- Dont Matter

H- I need her Strictly Bottom

I- NO Six Footers

J- cut and hung only if she has a killer body

K- Dont Care what you do as long as you respect yourself and protect me and as long as you have half on the monthly bills

I- No answer

geekmeat
10-05-2005, 09:52 PM
QUESTION FOR THE GUYS:

1. What do you look for in your "IDEAL" of a TS Woman or "Ideal Man??
ComeOn now Hehe..I know we all got our preferences :wink: ..LOL For the TS'es please just substitute terms "Appropriate" for a Man :wink:

I honestly dont "look" for anything

a.)Would you prefer or even care or only into a TS if she is passable? Or not? Fulltime or parttime?

Of course she has to be "passable".........that had to be a joke.


b.)Would you be into a TS if she has breast or is that not too important?

Not overly important

c.)Would you want a ts gurl with a nice hips, hiney and legs? If with men would you prefer a guy who's well groomed, scruffy, with a nice ass, strong sexy thighs, firm legs, hairy chest etc?

A girl with nice hips and ass is a big plus to me.

d.)Would you want a pretty face i e. like features..nice hair, pretty eyes, lips, long lashes etc?

YES! I want a girl with a pretty face

e.)A nice body perhaps? Do you prefer thin frame, athletic built, voluptous or heavy set? Is weight an issue with you?

As long as she is fine......thats all i care about......I will take Jades lips,Allanahs breasts,ect......

f.)A TS woman or Man who's dumb or intellectual that you can relate to and have a good conversations with? Is sense of humor important?

Being smarter helps but not too important......what matters is if she is a good person

g.)What ethnicity/ies are you most attracted to or into? Or It doesnt really matter? Latin and Black

h.)Do you care if a TS/Man is strictly a bottom? Or do you like a TS/Man to be a top only? maybe versatile perhaps?

No answer

i.)Is height an issue with you say if she/he is to tall? Too short? Proportionate to you height a better pick when out publicly?

If she is over 6'5 forget it!

j.)Do you prefer a TS/Man to be cut or uncut? Hung, average or small interms of Endowment?

No answer
k.)Do you care what a TS/Man does for a living? (Say with TS'es..Porn, escorting etc.) Is that an issue or a none issue?

Would prefer someone who doesnt escort or do porn thank you.

l.)Would age differences be a factor for you?

She has to be younger than me

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So with that QUESTION? and with a few given choices above..Please make out your "IDEAL" TS woman OR Man. And If I left out anything feel free to add them. LOL

Bear in mind that "IDEAL" mates are a hit or miss type of deal and most of us will compromise sometimes at stuffs that maybe lacking with people we meet..So this question is only intended as a What *IF you can have your way, How would you prefer your "IDEAL" TS Woman or Man be?

Thanks!

~Kisses.

HTG

Harajuku Tgirl
10-05-2005, 11:07 PM
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shyguy31
10-07-2005, 03:15 AM
Got Dag girl you wrote a whole thesis but lets see I think the first important thing is can you connect talk and be friends thats what I gun for,because you can have all the sex and f*** until next evolution If I can't come to you and talk about regular stuff then its not worth it. As far as looks just as you ladies want your a nice decent guy build some shape I want a girl with a little something something. I like bottom ts women no tops sorry job wise a 9 to 5 not dogging sex workers you have to do your thing but not for me