Scared about transition

[dragonslayer655]

wow I want to start my transition but so many factors that scare me if I want to have kids down line not gonna happen if I have taken horomones for a long period what my parents will think well I should say parent Mom is Gay and little brother is to so that helps lol though still sared to comeout to them and also the world what they will think of me and my friends what they will think of me it is a scary world any suggestions that anyone can give me to help with the process

[WillowQueen]

Whoa whoa whoa. First and foremost can I suggest something. Periods or commas and uppercase letters at the start of new sentence. Otherwise it's going to be hard to read or understand.
And yeah, I'd talk about this to the people around you before y'all go on hormones, ya know.

[NICOLE757]

I'm glad to see that you are taking the time out and thinking about how your future would be as a ts. Most girls don't do that- they just jump and put a wig on. Think hard about how life would change for you- and if you see that it is worth it, then do it. If your parents and family really love you, then they will accept your transition- only if they see that you really want to do it. If you have doubt, then don't do it!

[River]

In my youth i thought about becoming a TS, then realized it was to much work. I'm extremely lazy lol. I do admire the women who do take the courage and follow through with in their hearts they know is right. Courage comes in many forms, and not just on battlefields.

[edooo]

In my youth i thought about becoming a TS, then realized it was to much work. I'm extremely lazy lol. I do admire the women who do take the courage and follow through with in their hearts they know is right. Courage comes in many forms, and not just on battlefields.

What the ****?! You're making it sound like its a hobby. :shock:

eheh good one edoo :P

[angel_glow]

i think a genuine tg starts at a young age,if you really wanted to do it no matter how scared you are of opening up to your parents youll find another way to do it,when i was young i wanted to be a girl cause i felt very femenine mentaly,and people saw it from the outside too,specially before puberty,i was never exposed to any gay or transgender scene so all i knew what i wanted to be due to my feelings,just because you thought about being a ts doesnt mean your destined to be one,
a guy once approached me in a tranny night club once and said.."you know what when i was young i wanted to be a tgirl also"i think he thought by saying that it would make me think im not that special and i should lower my standard, my come back to him was..yeah your right you can be a tgirl also but deosnt mean your gonna make a good one :lol:it was a terrible line from a young man...

[angel_glow]

oh i miss iterpreted it,he said he can be a tgirl also sorry

[River]

I'm sorry didn't want to come off as a mere whim I gave up, I just didn't want to bore people with the long version of my story. So I gave the abridged version. I tried, I failed. Why cause I didn't have the conviction or wherewithall to stick with it. But Edooo anything else you want to mock why your at it, maybe come over kick my dog too.

[WillowQueen]

I don't see how one can give up. It's not a choice for me. Endure because there is no other way unless I want to be miserable and lie to myself day after day. This can lead to a mental breakdown. I'm a girl and that's that.

[edooo]

I was never my intention to mock, maybe a light joke. I simply said what i think. This IS a Forum, a place for discussion, agreement and dissagreement.

[River]

Well willow, I agree to some extent, but then again when you look more like William "Refrigerator" Perry, then Marilyn Monroe there are certain realities I had to face.

Oh Mental Breakdown been there, done that. But I decided in my stint in the looney bin to accept what has been given to me, then what hasn't.

One of the basic tenets of Buddism is that to remove suffering one must remove desire. That mantra has saved my life on many occasions.

Well enough about me, i bored you all enough already.

[NICOLE757]

I think a genuine tg starts at a young age

i so agree- i've been feeling like a girl since i can remember. Anyone who waits till there 40 to start living there life as a woman- really doesn't have no right. being a tgirl starts from the begining

[WillowQueen]

Well willow, I agree to some extent, but then again when you look more like William "Refrigerator" Perry, then Marilyn Monroe there are certain realities I had to face.

Oh Mental Breakdown been there, done that. But I decided in my stint in the looney bin to accept what has been given to me, then what hasn't.

One of the basic tenets of Buddism is that to remove suffering one must remove desire. That mantra has saved my life on many occasions.

Well enough about me, i bored you all enough already.
The reminds me isn't the goal of buuddism to achieve enlightenment. So you must eliminate desire. But wouldn't that mean you desire enlightenment? I know I must have gotten that wrong but it's a funny thought. :lol:

[Ecstatic]

Willow, in Buddhism and yoga, the saying goes "the desire for enlightenment is the last desire to let go."

[scottkeil]

Well, That is a Descission that is very Important, Especially to You.... I am very Happy though that You are aware of what might happen and You have second Thoughts...... It is alot of Work being a TransGender, TransSexual, TransVestite, or CD.....
You have to think about taking Hormones everyday, Vitamines to balance your Body and it is Lot of Work to figure out what You want to Look Like.... There is Make Up, lots of Hair Accessoraries of Femenine Products as well Clothes, Shoes and Bags....... It is Lots of work and That is Why I do Support those who make the Transition..... You most of all also need the Mentally, and Physical Support as well from Family and Friends......
In the Final Thought; No matter what it is always Your Descission in the End... I can tell you This.... I will Support Your Descission no matter what.... Your Friend EskimoNTexas or Scott Keil