what I think about Tgirls...

[thirsty_wolf]

Well , I have met up with a tgirl on chat initially thinking she was a bio girl. When i found out I was so overcome with exitement..

I think Tgirls are more sexual than bio women , they have more common thought processes to me... , I think they know how to turn a man on much better , they seem to be more sensitive and they are really more erotic.
They seem to be more honest about sexual matters...

I do understand that everyone is an indivual , and I appreciate it. I would love to chat with any girl who would like to chat with a passionate man..not for sex sake but it would be lovely to hear your opnions and form some kind of bond.. I cant seem to get this from any bio woman I have ever met..

I would love to hear about you , your life , thoughts , opinions.. and I hope I can share some with you too... anyway..thanks for taking the time to read this... I wish you all the best of times...

Thirsty

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[edgeoflife]

Thirsty.. when you post, choose a better way to approach a girl and not come off seeming too eager. Nothing wrong with showing interest, but wording it better never hurts either.

It's guys like you who post and chat that make us good guys look bad to the ladies. And ruin it for everyone.

Maybe I'm too old fashioned, but I know this.. theres a right way and a wrong to approach.

[thirsty_wolf]

Its hard to hide my horniness... but I understand....what your saying. I feel I have so much passion to give that I want it all at once. Thanks for making me stop and think..

Maybe I can get it out of my system then I can start thinking with my head..


Your very intuitive..

Thanks

Thirsty

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[Arianna]

Well , I have met up with a tgirl on chat initially thinking she was a bio girl. When i found out I was so overcome with exitement..

I think Tgirls are more sexual than bio women , they have more common thought processes to me... , I think they know how to turn a man on much better , they seem to be more sensitive and they are really more erotic.
They seem to be more honest about sexual matters...

I do understand that everyone is an indivual , and I appreciate it. I would love to chat with any girl who would like to chat with a passionate man..not for sex sake but it would be lovely to hear your opnions and form some kind of bond.. I cant seem to get this from any bio woman I have ever met..

I would love to hear about you , your life , thoughts , opinions.. and I hope I can share some with you too... anyway..thanks for taking the time to read this... I wish you all the best of times...

Thirsty

If you REALLY want to get to know us, why don't you just do more socializing like the rest of the gentlemen here? What's with you always talking to all of us at the same time? Please. Your approach is like, you throw a handful of bullshit at a wall and hope that some of it will stick. Why do men think that if they can't impress gg's, we'll be any easier? Don't let your fantasies get the best of you. We do NOT take their rejects. The abundance of us who are "working girls" is giving you the wrong impression. There's a big difference between doing a job and how we want to spend our free time. We may have been born w/ a physical handicap (a penis and testosterone), but not a mental one. Personally, I like a man w/ some confidence and charm; not the desperate type. A sensitive man is special; but weak men, who are insecure and needy, are a dime a dozen.

[scsu2469]

To me tgirls are women, and just like women they need sophisticated conversation, not just some guy that is chasing them for the goods. You will not go far with any women by saying that you are horny and just want to fuck. Romance is not dead, to me any way. I do agree with edgeoflife there are a few bad tranny chasers that make all of us look bad, even the nice honest ones.

[Arianna]

Its sad really but you got to Educate them so they can shape up and or improve how they approach TS women. Its not as far any different than when guy a approach genetic women. He still need to curb naughty thoughts to himself and get to know the ladies before he can SCORE! :wink: Like in another thread Arianna said it best. We all needed to be "Charmed". And feel were special and not feel like were sex objects.

~Kisses.

HTG

Harajuku, I agree. I feel like we're teaching a class here called "How To Get Laid". :lol:

[Arianna]

Thirsty.. when you post, choose a better way to approach a girl and not come off seeming too eager. Nothing wrong with showing interest, but wording it better never hurts either.

It's guys like you who post and chat that make us good guys look bad to the ladies. And ruin it for everyone.

Maybe I'm too old fashioned, but I know this.. theres a right way and a wrong to approach.

No worries, Aaron. You are not the same as this guy, and we all know it.

[edgeoflife]

Thank you Arianna, hugs to you.
I just felt this topic needed a reply.

What I do is I apporach a tgirl like a man would approach a gg. A simple hello or compliment and maybe a nice conversation. Being sincere can go a long way. Just be sure to have show a genuine interest.

[thirsty_wolf]

You are right , thats the right apporach I try to temper it ..

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[slayerpsp]

you girls should write a book good stuff. if you act like that towards any woman and come on to strong you will never get anywere
http://www.msnusers.com/heq8a4jncjaqigel641fr2jdc1/Documents/header.jpg

[Arianna]

you girls should write a book good stuff. if you act like that towards any woman and come on to strong you will never get anywere
http://www.msnusers.com/heq8a4jncjaqigel641fr2jdc1/Documents/header.jpg

This is pretty good. ~> http://www.reneereyes.com/Webdocs/mtintro.html

[MsDazzler]

I agree totally. I just feel that we Tgirls have done so much to transition and when a guy just does not treat us like a GG in approaching us first or start things off on a lewd note, I feel cheapened and devalued.

I admit at first when I started dressing, I let it go to my head and enjoyed my sexual power as a woman over a man for a while. (READ: I WAS A LIL SLUT. :twisted: ) That was why I would have slept with trans lovers or chasers, or just about anybody.

But now I have moved beyond my need to be validated as a woman for sex. I already know that I can get practically about any man I care to set my sights on in a straight bar or club. Now I want a man who will accept that I m still part-time for now and validate me as a woman out of bed and out of the bars/clubs.

www.tsgirlfriend.com had some good advice, as well.

[slayerpsp]

you girls should write a book good stuff. if you act like that towards any woman and come on to strong you will never get anywere
http://www.msnusers.com/heq8a4jncjaqigel641fr2jdc1/Documents/header.jpg

This is pretty good. ~> http://www.reneereyes.com/Webdocs/mtintro.html thanks for the link i learned a lot. sounds a little dangerous trying to hook up with a ts you here all knds of stories. the three girls i have meet were all very cool and safe.

[MsDazzler]

I read that website, arianna. I have to say it was informative but I also disagree wtih most of what that woman had to say.

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[scsu2469]

Harajuku Tgirl wrote
As a TS myself, I see and talked to so much men online who as Ms Dazzler said start off wrong. And try to forego any formalities and just go straight ahead talking to us pervertedly. There is nothing wrong being yourself and honest provided its within the confines that youre still being cautious yourself and extending respect and courtesy to any transexual woman as you would any genetic woman.

I hope I did not start off wrong, I think you are really cool and think you are very strong for choosing your path in life. I have enjoyed getting to know you better. You have a great outlook on life! What i'm saying is that Harajuku Tgirl ROCKS 8)

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[Arianna]

I read that website, arianna. I have to say it was informative but I also disagree wtih most of what that woman had to say.
I didn't agree with all of her theories either, but definately offers much food for thought. Her perspective is somewhat unique, in that she went from admirer to TS. I think she's pretty insightful, but her path and my own are not quite the same. I don't agree that admirers are always latent tg people. She had a hard time accepting the results of her friend's survey; but I think she should be more open to the idea that there are as many scenarios as there are human beings. She makes the mistake of projecting her own feelings onto others. For the typical admirer tho', I thought she made some things more clear about how we feel and want to be treated.

[edgeoflife]

I must say this..

A TS Woman deserves the same attention and genuine interest as a gg. I have always been like that towards all women. In my eyes and actuallity, they are women. I have respect for them as I do a gg.

[MsDazzler]

I must say this..

A TS Woman deserves the same attention and genuine interest as a gg. I have always been like that towards all women. In my eyes and actuallity, they are women. I have respect for them as I do a gg.

Is that why if you date a full-time Tgirl, it is easier to view and treat her as a woman? I noticed when men see me in boi mode (especially in shower or bed when everytihng comes off), their attidutes change somewhat. Seeing your woman in boi mode makes you uncomfortable and subconsciously projects her as a man deep in your brain, especially if you consider yourself straight.

[Ecstatic]

I think you're right, ,MsDazzler. If you're part-time (even if it's only as you say when it all comes off in the shower or bed) or even full-time but still look "boi-ish" when the clothes and makeup come off, then many guys will see you as a TV, not a TS. (I can't see someone thinking that about you, though.) It may be only an appearance thing, but men are extremely visual in orientation (witness the male love of porn and men's mags).