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SexxxyJade
09-25-2005, 11:33 AM
Its no secret that the majority of Tgirls are escorts, and im sure that everyone understands why. Society hasnt fully accepted us yet, not enough to welcome us into the work force.
Escorting isnt the best job in the world, and actually some girls are ashamed of the job that they do..understandably. I get questioned every singke day... "why do u escort". So can some one tell me what other options do tgirls have to make a living? What other occupations have you seen tgirls working in? And how can a tgirl get into the work force without experiencing some type of discrimination or prejudice?
Alot of girls start escorting temoorarily, to get on thier feet, pay for scoll, or just for sum quick cash, but after a while the money gets addictive and you do it so long that you find yourself stuck. You wake up one day and find that you have been doin it for years.
Initially I started escorting part time, to help pay for my schooling, when i was living in Moami. After a while i took off a semester to escort full time thinking i would just save up all that money and start back. Unfortunately it has been 4 yrs and I havent stopped escorting or started back school.
As of late...realization has set in that if I dont make a change, if I dont do something, that I will be doin this for the rest of my life, and honestly I dont want that. I would love to have a regular job, live a regular life, and not let my day to day activities not revolve around my cell phone and clients.
This may be funny coming from me, a girl who seems so zealous and dedicated to my profession. But this is the reality. Idont wanna wake up at 30 still answering my cell phone and setting appointments. Is there hope out there for me? Is it possible to live a normal life after escortung for so long? Or do I need to give up and accept my fate and just try to make the most of the cards life has dealt me.
Sorry, but like every other girl im sure, I go thru emotions sometime, Im just thinking about my future, Im still young, but that doesn't last long.

Kisses,

Ecstatic
09-25-2005, 01:00 PM
Good questions, Jade. Right up front, I'd say that you shouldn't escort if you don't enjoy it, and you should continue to escort only so long as you do. My impression from your posts (here and at the other forum), your reviews, and your website that you do enjoy it but, based on this post, that you find it limiting and not something you want to continue doing for a long time.

Money is a harsh mistress: I know, I don't have any. :( Well, no, I do own a nice home with my wife in the western Boston suburbs and I'm gradually building my own web design/hosting/photography business, but there's never enough. (Case in point: I saw your ad in Eros for Providence this week, and I would love to spend some time with you, but the moths in my wallet tell me no way. But hey, at least I can chat with you here!) So I certainly understand the draw of escorting income, especially if you do well at it, which I'm sure you do. But I think you're right, it's not a long-term career plan.

There are alternatives out there to escorting: you're already pursuing one with your own paid website. Moni has been doing well with her web enterprises. But outside the escort/adult entertainment arena there are options as well. A TS friend of mine who escorts is also co-owner of a hip restaurant in Manhatten which is doing very well. She saved enough money from escorting for the investment, and it is paying off--though she admits she has to work more hours for less pay than escorting allows her. But she's looking at the long-term picture, not just the immediate gratification of being able to walk into a hot store and buy a pair of $800 boots just because she likes them. Another girl I know is in school for interior design, and another has invested in real estate.

However, I disagree with the assumption that "the majority of Tgirls are escorts": the majority are relatively invisible to society. Estimates run from a low of 40,000 to as many as 400,000 or more TS in America today, and most of these women are not escorts, but are working 9-5 gigs. (Counterpoint: it may be true that a far higher percentage of truly hot and beautiful Tgirls escort or work in adult films simply because their beauty makes this more accessible to them.) My advice (if you want it) is to escort so long as you enjoy it and save, save, save to invest the money in a long-term plan (owning a business, real estate, getting a degree, whatever).

NoOne
09-25-2005, 01:01 PM
I plan on opening a salon this year mama. No, I don't do hair like the stereotypical homo but I plan on renting out styling booths to those who do. My salon is not going to be some hole in the wall either. Iwant exposed brick, hardwood floors, indoor japanese coy fish pond n waterfall, nightclub lights and i plan on playing the trendiest music.

I suggest opening your own business mama cuz like u said working for others can be a pain in the ass. Find something people NEED. Like buy a whole bunch of coin operated washers and dryers and rent out a spot in a strip mall to open a laundromat. Everyone HAS to wash clothes so it's guarunteed money. Or open a adult book,toy and video store, there are plenty of wholesale companies with catalogs to get you started. Running something yourself takes alot of hard work and dedication meaning less time to party in your case but later down the line when your in a fab car and big house and you are stable it will have been worth all the time and effort you put in it. Save your money from clients. Use escorting and porn to finance it. It's good that you are thinking ahead. So far you are the only girl that has mentioned this type of thing besides me that I have noticed. Hope u found this post helpful.

slayerpsp
09-25-2005, 02:03 PM
the two ts girls that i was able to hang out with a bit both had good jobs but they were a little bit older 38 and 40 one lady had her own business and works in the hollywood area so they accept here for who she is the other girl does some work in computers but she told me nobody at her work knows that she is a ts. its hard to find a ts to date who isnt a working girl im founding out. i judge no one so if thats what they need to do thats fine i just wish people would get a clue that ts are beautiful people no differnt then any else what are they scared of
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09-25-2005, 02:43 PM
its funny i think some tgirls just prefer to make the easy cash,these days

Arianna
09-25-2005, 02:44 PM
I'm a tattoo artist, and I plan to open my own shop in either Ft Lauderdale or Miami. I'm moving there early next year. If need be, I will escort and/or dom for a while to get the right kind of money together. This will be the first shop of it's kind, as far as I know. It's going to be all about quality, professionalism, and artistry. And TS women are going to be as welcome as anyone. My days of working in scumbag biker shops are over.

slayerpsp
09-25-2005, 03:02 PM
I'm a tattoo artist, and I plan to open my own shop in either Ft Lauderdale or Miami. I'm moving there early next year. If need be, I will escort and/or dom for a while to get the right kind of money together. This will be the first shop of it's kind, as far as I know. It's going to be all about quality, professionalism, and artistry. And TS women are going to be as welcome as anyone. My days of working in scumbag biker shops are over. good luck to you i hope it all works out
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Jordan
09-25-2005, 03:05 PM
I have a job in healthcare, but I admit i have started escorting part time, the lifestyle is just way too expensive, and to do the things that we need to do to achieve goals, the money is needed, and besides being treated like a sexual novelty gets old and so the "compensation" is nice...not to mention helpful

MsDazzler
09-25-2005, 04:54 PM
I know few transsexuals in this area.. all of them except one escort, but for the one, she works in a gay club as a bartender...

Arianna
09-26-2005, 02:15 AM
good luck to you i hope it all works out

Thank you. :)

Gia Darling
09-26-2005, 02:52 AM
this was something that I did not start thinking about until a few yrs back
I threw away so much money just on dum stuff and did not think about my future
but in the past few yrs I have invested in some real state (I been buying appt buildings) and my company(production) of course but its been very hard work for me and little bit of luck
all I can say is set your goals high and don’t let anything get in your way
I have always believed in you can have anything you want and you can always do it on your own I did not go to school ( just my cosmetology license)or have any kind of learning dam it! I cant even spell LOL
but I have always know what I want and I stuck to it
and I’m very grateful that in a matter of 2 yrs I have changed things around for myself!!
And secured a little something for my golden yrs LOL
good luck and you can only get as high as you allow yourself to go
i dont bealive in leting people keep you down
its all about how much worth you give to their words
kisses and good luck

honeybabie
09-29-2005, 05:14 AM
Well.... I personally don't buy that whole society is the reason I escort bs. I think its a copout for laziness. Especially with the internet- there is no reason why people can't use their brains to make money. I sold stuff on ebay. I still do but now its just to suppliment my income. I started off with Tiffany jewelry and designer purses....Theres a lot of money in Walt Disney memorabilia. Granted, I was able to get financial aid to go to cosmetology school at the second best school in Texas but even without it I still would have been able to pay for it for myself. I have lived on my own since I was 16, I have gone about my transition the proper way and not the bootleg way and still been able to pay my bills. And I have done it all on my own. I have never had a hand lent to me my anyone.And I made just as much money if not more than the average escort. If I can do it, anyone else can too. This is Amerca-regardless of gender. This country is set up for you to succeed.Whether u choose to aquire the skills to make it happen for yourself or be lazy about it is up to you.(note: to anyone that does escort I am not calling u lazy-by any means-but if ur gonna sit here and say that society is the reason for it...Thats bullshit-sorry) :roll:

Arianna
09-29-2005, 06:09 AM
Well.... I personally don't buy that whole society is the reason I escort bs. I think its a copout for laziness. Especially with the internet- there is no reason why people can't use their brains to make money. I sold stuff on ebay. I still do but now its just to suppliment my income. I started off with Tiffany jewelry and designer purses....Theres a lot of money in Walt Disney memorabilia. Granted, I was able to get financial aid to go to cosmetology school at the second best school in Texas but even without it I still would have been able to pay for it for myself. I have lived on my own since I was 16, I have gone about my transition the proper way and not the bootleg way and still been able to pay my bills. And I have done it all on my own. I have never had a hand lent to me my anyone.And I made just as much money if not more than the average escort. If I can do it, anyone else can too. This is Amerca-regardless of gender. This country is set up for you to succeed.Whether u choose to aquire the skills to make it happen for yourself or be lazy about it is up to you.(note: to anyone that does escort I am not calling u lazy-by any means-but if ur gonna sit here and say that society is the reason for it...Thats bullshit-sorry) :roll:

Well, hey, congrats on your pragmatic approach; but I wouldn't be so quick to pontificate, or assume that your situation is universal here. You're not weighing in factors such as the potential for confusion, and the traumatizing experiences that seem to come with the territory. Some people find themselves in compromising situations, and play the cards that were dealt to them. Also, E-Bay may be a profitable way to earn money, but it's not exactly putting your nose to the grindstone either. I don't escort but, if I did, I'd maintain my personal dignity. And I still just may, if that's what I choose to use as a stepping-stone to move on to bigger and better things. Perhaps you're forgetting that escorting is a victemless crime, and is actually legal and regulated in one state. And, that America's economy is essentially based on supply and demand. Escorting sounds alot like supply and demand to me; minus the subjective morality issues. Not to mention that you're assuming that it's "easy". What you say does have some merit and you have good reason to be proud; but it's also somewhat presumptuous. So, sorry, but that too is also a form of "bullshit". And calling self-medicating the "bootleg way" is a bit callous, imho, when our situation is not exactly being encouraged as a conventional option in our current social climate.

honeybabie
09-30-2005, 10:50 AM
First of all.....Considering the fact that I am also transgender, I also know all about the potential for confusion and traumatizing situations that come with the territory and all that jazz.I also understand completely about sometimes if not all the time that u got to work with what u got.ok.BUt by saying that U get caught in compromising situations and have to deal with the cards u were dealt.Sounds like sugarcoating to me.If I don't like the cards I got-trade them in for a new hand. And to say that e-bay isnt putting your nose to the grindstone as opposed to what? Second of all I don't need you to validate or explain it to me either. Like I said the first time....I'm not knocking being an escort. I don't have a problem with it. What u do with ur life is ur business.We are all grown women in here. All I saying is that your issues are YOUR issues. Take responsibility for your own actions and the decisions that u make in life.Don't blame it on other people, I never assumed that escorting is easy I'm sure it's not. But neither is life. And as far as I'm concerned it's just as easy to say no than yes. Theres plenty of people who have had hard lives and are pissed on by society but they still chose to move to the light otherwise we'd all be hookers and junkies and hoodlems. For you to call me whatever for saying self medicating is the bootleg way? I don't remember ever saying self medicating in my last post. I didn't say that. I said right way and the bootleg way.. So u feel however u want. If u feel like self medicating is bootleg then thats on u. I never said that.

Arianna
09-30-2005, 11:47 AM
First of all.....Considering the fact that I am also transgender, I also know all about the potential for confusion and traumatizing situations that come with the territory and all that jazz.I also understand completely about sometimes if not all the time that u got to work with what u got.ok.BUt by saying that U get caught in compromising situations and have to deal with the cards u were dealt.Sounds like sugarcoating to me.If I don't like the cards I got-trade them in for a new hand. I agree that we all make our own decisions. As far as the cards that you're dealt: I believe that for some people, the cycle of one bad decision leading to the next can begin in early adolescence. If you come from a broken home, or had drug addicted parents, or were physically or mentally abused, that's very likely going to fuck w/ your head and your choices are going to be more limited. I've seen with my own eyes, teenage gg runaways step off a Greyhound bus at the Port Authority and get immediately approached by pimps looking to recruit them. I've also known young TS's who were kicked out of their parents homes and near-immediately became street-walking prostitutes. For some people, the narrow choice between suicidal depression and the drug of easy validation is very real. Sometimes you have to walk a mile in someone else's shoes berfore you can criticize them.
And to say that e-bay isnt putting your nose to the grindstone as opposed to what? In my opinion there's nothing dishonerable about making money on Ebay. But it's not exactly manual labor either. You don't need to have a resume, a wardrobe, or go on job interviews to do it.
And as far as I'm concerned it's just as easy to say no than yes. I'm sorry, m'dear, but THAT is sugar-coating things. Some decisions are much harder to make than others.
For you to call me whatever for saying self medicating is the bootleg way? I don't remember ever saying self medicating in my last post. I didn't say that. I said right way and the bootleg way.. So u feel however u want. If u feel like self medicating is bootleg then thats on u. I never said that. I misunderstood you then. But what were you referring to as the "bootleg way"?

Arianna
09-30-2005, 11:55 AM
Hey, mama! Just saw your avatar. I know you from MySpace. What's up? You know I love you, baby girl. But then you know that I am an opinionated, mouthy bitch too. :wink: I deleted my old profile on myspace. Go to one of my groups and please re-add me, or Ill try to find you again. This girl is cool, y'all. She's opinionated just like me :wink: , and will tell assholes to fuck off just as quick. :lol:

10-02-2005, 11:33 AM
The questions raised are hard ones.
Even IF a transgender woman could get a job in the "mainstream" world could she deal with all the negativity?
Its easier said than done.
All of the stuff you might go through everyday........coworkers(remember this is a jesus freak country) and then strangers,the looks,the rude comments,possible assault from strangers............is it worth it?
Make NO mistake........transgender women are put through it.....
I do feel than some girls COULD give up escorting because they pass so easily and NO ONE would ever know.
In these cases there wouldnt be the drama and truama.
In San Francisco there are some asian TS girls that work as makeup artist and they are gorgeous!
A lot of times its easier to blend in the big city versus being in a small town.
If you dont blend your gonna go through it.
Why put yourself through all that?
After all......GG escort too and make outrageous amounts of money doing it.
I saw this girl on ET from NYC that said she charged 2000 and hour!
She was not all that in my opinion.....above average is all.
I dont know of ANY transexual making that kind of bank and some of them look better than her!
I know one thing for sure.........on the point of escorting I will not be the one throwing stones at these girls.

Arianna
10-02-2005, 12:14 PM
The questions raised are hard ones.
Even IF a transgender woman could get a job in the "mainstream" world could she deal with all the negativity?
Its easier said than done.
All of the stuff you might go through everyday........coworkers(remember this is a jesus freak country) and then strangers,the looks,the rude comments,possible assault from strangers............is it worth it?
Make NO mistake........transgender women are put through it.....
I do feel than some girls COULD give up escorting because they pass so easily and NO ONE would ever know.
In these cases there wouldnt be the drama and truama.
In San Francisco there are some asian TS girls that work as makeup artist and they are gorgeous!
A lot of times its easier to blend in the big city versus being in a small town.
If you dont blend your gonna go through it.
Why put yourself through all that?
After all......GG escort too and make outrageous amounts of money doing it.
I saw this girl on ET from NYC that said she charged 2000 and hour!
She was not all that in my opinion.....above average is all.
I dont know of ANY transexual making that kind of bank and some of them look better than her!
I know one thing for sure.........on the point of escorting I will not be the one throwing stones at these girls.I put up with ALOT of crap to get a tattoo apprenticeship. I MOVED 1300 miles for the first one. After 2 in person interviews and portfolio reviews($600 worth of flights), that asshole casually BLEW ME OFF! That motherfucker should rot in hell. It turned out that he's actually a Hells Angel, so I guess I'm better off. I'll spare you all the other details of how I managed to finally get a good one, but it was NOT easy. It was obvious that I was in a very trans-UNFRIENDLY environment, and could not be open about who I am. I had my moments of doubt on a very regular basis. But, fuck it. That's what I want to do, and I worked damn hard to get it. Now that I have that, I'm up against a whole new problem: getting a job. My plans are to open my own shop, and bypass all the bullshit. But in the meantime, I don't plan on biggie-sizing value meals for minimum wage. I also have 6 years of experience as a sales rep. I'm currently the top sales person for the company that employs me; no bullshit. Yet I have to go into drag-king mode 32 hrs a week for that. It SUCKS! I know that cutomers try to read me as gay from time to time, but I just keep going. My point is, I'm not going to pass up escorting and/or adult entertainment, if that's what it takes. I've already started transitioning and I am NOT going to let an ignorant world hold me back and force me to live in poverty. I've worked too hard.

honeybabie
10-02-2005, 10:36 PM
This has just been a back and forth thing so this will be my last post on this topic. But ur misunderstanding what I'm saying and I just want u to get it.LOL. I'm not gonna turn into drama queen and go into detail about how both of my parents were junkies, and how i would eat out of kids luchbox's at school cause I was hungry...Um, I this everyone has dealt with some form of mental abuse in their life.But at the end of each day when your facing the challenges of life, how you choose to deal with them is your choice. Your problems are your problems. Not society's. I understand that everyone is different and everybody ain't able. But that's not society's problem. I'm not being all critical judging :D or grand like I never sucked a dick before. But thats not society's problem. Sooner or later you have to be an adult with your shit.Thats all I'm sayin. Thnx. Peace out!lol.

Arianna
10-02-2005, 10:48 PM
This has just been a back and forth thing so this will be my last post on this topic. But ur misunderstanding what I'm saying and I just want u to get it.LOL. I'm not gonna turn into drama queen and go into detail about how both of my parents were junkies, and how i would eat out of kids luchbox's at school cause I was hungry...Um, I this everyone has dealt with some form of mental abuse in their life.But at the end of each day when your facing the challenges of life, how you choose to deal with them is your choice. Your problems are your problems. Not society's. I understand that everyone is different and everybody ain't able. But that's not society's problem. I'm not being all critical judging :D or grand like I never sucked a dick before. But thats not society's problem. Sooner or later you have to be an adult with your shit.Thats all I'm sayin. Thnx. Peace out!lol.It's all good, girl. :) You have my total respect, and I do understand. Are you still on MySpace? I deleted that old profile. Mwuaz! ~ Ari

40 Calibur
10-05-2005, 06:35 PM
Hey u Gurls seem like you all have the know how but not the how to do. One thing i will say that all of you should take into consideration, DO NOT GET DISCOURAGED, and stop being ashamed, with a little guidence from a smart person u will be ok, not guidence from a JOHN or a trick , but someone who really cares about your well being!! My ex-wife was an escort (TRUE STORY) she too had the same thoughts as u all. its up to you if u wanna make a change , no she attends NC State and works full time in NC univerisity Hospital as a M-F transexual , so keep ya heads up ladies

sarats
10-08-2005, 11:12 PM
i work for a biotech company i love it ,its awesome
but ill tell yeah if i was a GG id be all set with $$$

but transitioning maintaing and surgeries are killers

so i also started to escort on the side whatever "O.F.W."

http://www.tgirllovers.com/sara/
(notice the dont call til after 5

anyways hi everyone first post as a member =)

ciao bella

sarats
10-08-2005, 11:16 PM
another thing im in the operations unit
they know im a ts and everyone loves me for who i am..........

never had any problems at all
and thats not just "on a hi -bye" basis, talking lunches after work things, ball games and traveling etc etc

Ecstatic
10-09-2005, 01:36 AM
Welcome to TgirlTalk, Sara. Great to hear you have such a great work environment. Boston is a great city, isn't it? I live about 40 miles outside Boston myself.

Your photos are lovely, thanks for sharing them.

sarats
10-10-2005, 02:27 AM
yeah great til its gets cold lol
burrrrrrrrrrrrr

Liz010Zil
10-24-2005, 05:43 AM
Lynn Conway has compiled a site of sucess stories from TS women. Though when one transitions in life does make a difference as some have carears to begin with. It seems that especially transexuals of color are misrepresented in the success stories of transexuals. I think a big part is due to a lack of role models and a great deal of them transition young be.

Xander maddoX
10-24-2005, 01:39 PM
Im sure ill get chewed out for this comment but here goes..... personaly I would love to see a girl who has goals of "making it" in mainstreem entertainment biz, IE: acting or music. sure we got Ru Paul who is kick ass no doubt but I mean a "fullime" girl who never brings up her sexuality as an issue or gimmick. maybe I'm a lil over sensitive about this but I get soooo tired of Transgenderd people being the but of a joke, you know what I mean. how many shows or movies have you watched whe its revield the the hottest girl turns out to "be a dude" and evryone has a big laugh. I'll admidt that I do laugh at a lot of those jokes, I guess mostly cause I love TS women and Im cool with admidting that, who knows, not the point. My point is if thailand and the phillipens and other parts of europe have transgenderd Superstars, why can't USA??? I mean I KNOW why but lets change that

DJ_BeaST
10-24-2005, 09:32 PM
good luck from DJ BeaST

:lol: :oops: :P :D

WEBGODDESS
10-25-2005, 06:27 AM
I own my Adult Entertainment Company (Cyber Angel Entertainment) We promote and produce adult websites and you know adult bizz is good, sex always sells...and honestly I see this like a hobby, currently studying and trying to get into the Fine Arts and professional Show Bizz...You probably thinking a showgirl...na been there done that when I use to promote parties here in Tx like the Notorious Shows and the Papichulo Party.
As an artist I want to do it all, perform,model,paint,design,music,write I actually got my own comic so is really just a matter of time the Notorious Dream becomes a REALITY...so far so good.
Now what is so bad about doing Escort or Adult Entertainment for a living?
If you got it and they pay for it...why not? If you listen to the bullshit of these losers trying to make you feel less of a human being, because you get something out of it while having fun meeting people, looking sexy...well...sorry but you care too much of what people think, as longest you don't hurt anybody and keep it real to yourself...theres no shame on playing this game...
Honestly you can be anything you wanna be, is a matter of how bad you want to achieve those goals, or if you just wanna live a fantasy, yeah if you a t girl things can be a lil harder because people can be so ignorant, but no 1 said life was going to be easy...
So if you want to be the President, A Teacher, even a hooker ...go for it
but be the best god damn hooker you can be...da best you hear :?: :wink: capisca?

11-19-2005, 01:09 PM
I have only been with one ts and it wasn't about sex with her, i really liked her. she wanted to start escorting and she needed my help. I feel really bad about it now because i was the one that got her started and now i feel that she will not stop. she is a real sweet girl and i just fear that this will ruin her. I can't help but think that it is my fault, if I hadn't gotten her on her feet maybe she never would have done it.... :(

MsDazzler
11-19-2005, 02:09 PM
ha ha yeah... maybe i ll have to go into porn too

Shelby Wylde
11-19-2005, 03:41 PM
I've had the same job for many many years. I transitioned full time last year and still make the same money. It isn't that much, but at least I didn't get a pay reduction being female now lmao :P

Perhaps it is slightly easier to have a traditional job in Canada then the US or perhaps other countries ( i am not sure ). You won't make the same money as in the adult entertainment biz unless you have a degree.
The choice is always our own. If you want it bad enough you will find a way.

Whats important is stay away from drugs, booze and looser boyfriends. Invest in yourself. Don't live only for today, think of tomorrow as well. Set a little aside when you can for your future.
No one wants to be a escort forever do they?
My plan is to help pay for my ops and then leave it behind.

Shelby

DessiLu
11-19-2005, 08:50 PM
taco bell!!! lol

Shelby Wylde
11-20-2005, 12:29 PM
Actually DessiLu I work for a airline.
Coffee, Tea or me
:wink:
Shelby

11-20-2005, 04:02 PM
I work at Wal-mart and im also in cosemetology school on the side.

Kendall
11-21-2005, 01:28 PM
Unfortuantely, this is only in Canada, more specifically Ontario, our company is basically all over the phone, fax and email. Anothger gf of mine works for a telephone resaeller company and almost the same idea, although the money is better in mortgages. . They are always hiring. Be glad to give more info, drop me a line

Britchlins
11-23-2005, 08:07 PM
my hubby transitioned on the job, in a very male oriented work setting, think cars, paint, big machines and shit. anyway, they had a few issues at first, but now after a few years of getting used to the new look thier his friends. they look out after him, hang out, go camping drink beers and smoke weed and the like.

for myself, no matter what job i've applied for i've been hired for. from taco hell to market research, from managing a tony roma's to networking and doing consulting to waitressing at The Keg. even while sportin a nifty adams apple ($5600 i dont have yet, make me rich please?) and i've yet to be called on it. its always been "excuse me miss" or when i'm wearing my rings Mrs or when my grandson and i are shopping and he's yelling "NANA NANA NANA can i have" i have gotten "Ma am" freaked me out but whatever...

i like my newest job the most, housewife/grandmother (i'm only 30 btw but i look more like 25 thanks to my best friend estrogen) and i do network/computer consulting from home. even considering opening my very own business.

i read another thread where some useless shithead said that all tgrrls are dumb and the only thing we can do is fuck for money, well i beg to differ. alot of us do have educations and we do apply ourselves. lots of us even have surgeries and have marriages and families and own homes.

shows some of even wind up happy.

thanks for letting me post, i'll prolly sign up for an account here tomorrow, right now i'm off to pick up my hubby at work.

peace and be nice to each other.

Juliana_Dominguez
11-25-2005, 11:41 AM
Nurse