hetero vs bi...

how can you tell if a guy is into transgenders or not? can they be pretencious,and decieiving too?
if so would rejection upset you cause he found out you're tg,or would you take the compliment of him liking you cause he saw you as a woman and didnt know,but still managed to get reject you since you told him that youre werent geneticaly born the way you feel..

[Arianna]

I like compliments and being found attractive by men but ,ultimately, there are only 3 people's opinions that really matter to me about how I look: me, myself, and I. 8) If a man finds me attractive, but can't accept me for who I am, that's his loss. There are plenty of fish in the sea. ;)

[Dolce]

I like compliments and being found attractive by men but ,ultimately, there are only 3 people's opinions that really matter to me about how I look: me, myself, and I. 8) If a man finds me attractive, but can't accept me for who I am, that's his loss. There are plenty of fish in the sea. ;)

Just wanted to agree. The best way to find out for sure if to ask and be up front. Nothing ventured, nothing gained . .and yes, there's plenty of people out there. If I'm not sure how to approach someone, I always ask myself . . . "would I want them to do the same if they were interested in me?" Usually, it's yes . . and off I go. lol

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[angel_glow]

i would take the rejection as a compliment and accept the rejection than to be decived,"pretending hes not into tgirls but willing to try lol"pickup line....,i do crave for a hetero mans attention,but i also do know that id never be able to have any opportunities with them ones they find out, but ones i know hes bi its not so much of a challenge since most bi guys will tell you anything just to make you feel agood and get in youre pants lol,i dont believe in anything what is said from the scene i can only belive the truth is from someone that dont know im a tg.

[Scott]

i would take the rejection as a compliment and accept the rejection than to be decived,"pretending hes not into tgirls but willing to try lol"pickup line....,i do crave for a hetero mans attention,but i also do know that id never be able to have any opportunities with them ones they find out, but ones i know hes bi its not so much of a challenge since most bi guys will tell you anything just to make you feel agood and get in youre pants lol,i dont believe in anything what is said from the scene i can only belive the truth is from someone that dont know im a tg.

I might be reading this wrong but it seems like you are saying a hetero man would only approach a tgirl if they thought the tgirl was a geneticly born one. I know that a large percentage of guys are like that but still not acurate.
Now just my opinion but I think the reason those guys are hard to find is because many of them have a hard time convincing "involved parties" that their intentions are truthful and that they are actually hetero.
It's always gonna be a battle to find the right person. I personally think those are the battles worth fighting.

Scott

[Arianna]

i would take the rejection as a compliment and accept the rejection than to be decived,"pretending hes not into tgirls but willing to try lol"pickup line....,i do crave for a hetero mans attention,but i also do know that id never be able to have any opportunities with them ones they find out, but ones i know hes bi its not so much of a challenge since most bi guys will tell you anything just to make you feel agood and get in youre pants lol,i dont believe in anything what is said from the scene i can only belive the truth is from someone that dont know im a tg.

Exactly. I take it as a compliment. Because once they know, then it's obviously the guy who has issues if he can't accept what his little head is telling his big head. Why deny yourself of what you know you like? You're gonna go through life all torn up inside over what you've been brainwashed is "normal"? That's just sad.

[lisaparadise]

god thats a tough one to answer.i meet alot of people everyweek for the most part they have no idea what the hell a shemale is in the first place,can ya tell i live in a smalltown.i pass very well as a gg thank god but when its time to tell them i was born a boy the reactions are qiute never the same.ive never came across and one that wasnt kind to me about it.they ask alot of questions.but r very kind for the most part.i thinks its alot easier to transition in a smalltown you never have to worry abiout,what if they find out who i was well because i live in a smalltown,once one knows, everyone knows.but i have to admit i wouldnt have wanted to do my transition earlier in life,i hear too many horror stories back when trannies just started into the mainstream,thanks to moni and others that paved to way for me and the others ,thank youu its girls like you that made it possable to blend in and be accepted,cya

[MsDazzler]

Wasnt this thread debated in another thread? it s getting tiresome

yes i think so miss dazzler but im talking about the guys who has no desire to be with transgenders or who are totally into genetic women only

[slayerpsp]

i would never have sex with a man but have been with a couple of ts i dont like men at all they dont turn me on but yet i dont want to be with woman either been there done that a thousand times i only want to be with ts who want to keep ther penis and use them thats what i like so i dont know what i am i dont want men i dont want woman i just want ts so what am i :?

[MsDazzler]

you know, with comments like those, it makes me wonder if those trans lovers are so fixated on the Tgirls' cocks, why dont they just become chicks themselves? lol

[slayerpsp]

you know, with comments like those, it makes me wonder if those trans lovers are so fixated on the Tgirls' cocks, why dont they just become chicks themselves? lol its not like that i dont want to be a woman i just like ts i dont even care if it works because im the man so ill be the top maybe its the anal sex most woman wont let you do that but with a ts if she is a pre op were else do you have sex just a thought

[Hugh Jarrod]

Wasnt this thread debated in another thread? it s getting tiresome

As I said in those other threads, where's that dead horse?

[scsu2469]

What about all those guys that like their girlfriend put on a strap-on an do them analy. Are they gay, do they like tgirls and can't admit it? I know some people would say they are gay, some may say they are bi. I say they are straight, I was at that point once, I had a girlfriend that would was bi and she liked to do me, I barely knew about tgirls then, but thanks to the internet I am much more informed. Yes I would have sex with a tgirl if I came across the right one, and I am defenatly straight. I have had many men hit on me and poeple think I have had sex with men, but no chance in hell, (I like boobs way to much!). :wink:

[edgeoflife]

Basically, I am a str8 male who like Ts women. I dont like men.. they nothing for me. I like Ts women for thier feminine attributes.

There was a time where i was at a bar waiting to meet forends and saw a pretty girl sitting at end of bar. I offered to join her as comopany and buy her a drink. She said yes and then as we talked for hours; she revealed to me she was a ts. I was younger then so i didnt know what that term meant. I was totally cool with though. I felt comfortable.

So as far as all the labels:

gay.. dude likes dude
bi.. one likes both male and female
lesbian.. girl likes girl

slayer a penis is a masculine genitalia which naturaly comes from a man sooooo if you like a penis just because youre going out with a tgirl that really looks like a girl then youd still be called bi luv im afraid,

[scsu2469]

That guest is ALL wrong I am not gay nor bi, I like women and TSs only. Yes I would sleep with a TS as any other of the men on this website, and I have sleept with many women (they are much easier to find, not always to get allong with). I do not like to give oral to a women, I think it is the smell I don't like, I think I would have no problem having oral with a TS. I would never think about doing that with a man! HELL NO! So I say I am a str8 man that likes anal. I DONOT consider my self bi by my standerds. There are tons of men that are just like me, and alot of porn with guys getting it from women. Although I have to say I don't like that type of porn.

[MsDazzler]

That guest is ALL wrong I am not gay nor bi, I like women and TSs only. Yes I would sleep with a TS as any other of the men on this website, and I have sleept with many women (they are much easier to find, not always to get allong with). I do not like to give oral to a women, I think it is the smell I don't like, I think I would have no problem having oral with a TS. I would never think about doing that with a man! HELL NO! So I say I am a str8 man that likes anal. I DONOT consider my self bi by my standerds. There are tons of men that are just like me, and alot of porn with guys getting it from women. Although I have to say I don't like that type of porn.

Umm, sorry, honey, but you are not making sense here. It sounds like you are attempting to layer and mix your points to make it sound like you have a valid rationalization for your thought processes.

you know, with comments like those, it makes me wonder if those trans lovers are so fixated on the Tgirls' cocks, why dont they just become chicks themselves? lol

Really, i think we have better things to listen too besides you posting how another guy wants your cock.....like u intentionally do it "Ohh..umm.....someother guys want my cock now".

Why not try cutting it off...that'll help.

[Arianna]

you know, with comments like those, it makes me wonder if those trans lovers are so fixated on the Tgirls' cocks, why dont they just become chicks themselves? lol

Really, i think we have better things to listen too besides you posting how another guy wants your cock.....like u intentionally do it "Ohh..umm.....someother guys want my cock now".

Why not try cutting it off...that'll help. Maybe you should suck one, so that your mouth has something to do other than talk shit as an unwelcomed "guest".

[Hugh Jarrod]

slayer a penis is a masculine genitalia which naturaly comes from a man sooooo if you like a penis just because youre going out with a tgirl that really looks like a girl then youd still be called bi luv im afraid,


At least you ended that correctly, you're afraid.

[Hugh Jarrod]

That guest is ALL wrong I am not gay nor bi, I like women and TSs only. Yes I would sleep with a TS as any other of the men on this website, and I have sleept with many women (they are much easier to find, not always to get allong with). I do not like to give oral to a women, I think it is the smell I don't like, I think I would have no problem having oral with a TS. I would never think about doing that with a man! HELL NO! So I say I am a str8 man that likes anal. I DONOT consider my self bi by my standerds. There are tons of men that are just like me, and alot of porn with guys getting it from women. Although I have to say I don't like that type of porn.

Umm, sorry, honey, but you are not making sense here. It sounds like you are attempting to layer and mix your points to make it sound like you have a valid rationalization for your thought processes.


Not sure what didn't make sense about that post?

[scsu2469]

Thanks for havuing my back hugh. I am just stating the way I am.

[Hugh Jarrod]

Thanks for havuing my back hugh. I am just stating the way I am.

All good, I have respect for people who state in their post "My opinion", "My two cents", "That's how I feel", "You may feel different", etc. or when people break down definitions and make educated statements. Those I have less respect for are the ones who tell others what they should called or are, or those who tell others they're wrong or in denile.

hang on for those of you guys that think you're str8..who sleeps with ts cd tv....how many cd,tv,tg are there who are not really passable and is very obvious that its just a man with a wig covered in make up.... i consider my self as passable and femmenine who really looks like a woman and gets away with murder, and i do know majority of us tg are not so passable some still look like men(face and body) :lol: ..no matter how much make up or hairstyle or hair piece they have, you can still see a man,now if youre really str8,if a str8 man notice that manly look,str8 away he'll know its a man, hes going to get turned off and run away.

most of the guy ive picked up in the clubs who had swore to god and said that theyre 100%heterosexual and had never been with a thing like that(unpassable cd,tv,tg) still managed to sleep with them :o little did they know i knew who the unpassable cd,tv,tg were they slept with 2 weeks later heheh,since there are possibly more unpassable tgirls than there is passable,what do i call those kinda guys then???

and if youre one of those guys that has slept with an IT i call unpassable(cd,tv,tg)does that question youre sexuality at all :?