What is Feminity to you?

[MsDazzler]

My brother has dissed me for having some so "un-feminine" actions or characteristics. so it got me wondeirng what would be feminine or not in your view.

Is there a feminine way to sleep?

If you cross your legs the half of the time you sit down, is that masculine?

Silly questions, I know, but my nbrother is silly then.

[Jordan]

i think for me it's personally my mind set, the rest just follows and seems natural

[Quinn]

I don't think there is a particularly feminie way to sleep. I have never noticed any difference between the way a GG or a TG woman sleeps when in my presence.

Regarding the crossing of the legs when sitting thing, I would think that crossing your legs at the knee is more feminine, whereas crossing your legs at the ankle (resting an ankle from one leg atop your other knee) is generally a more masculine way of sitting.

Just my rather untrained observation; others may have a clearer notion. Hope this helps.

-Quinn

[rvince]

I don't think there is a particularly feminie way to sleep.

there definately is an "un-feminine" way to sleep through: snoring loudly...

[Quinn]

I don't think there is a particularly feminie way to sleep.

there definately is an "un-feminine" way to sleep through: snoring loudly...

Good point... Heavy snoring certainly isn't the most feminine or pleasant behavior that I have ever witnessed in a woman. Still, if you date enough women (of either type), you will run into this issue frequently. It's no big deal.

-Quinn

[kalina]

My brother has dissed me for having some so "un-feminine" actions or characteristics. so it got me wondeirng what would be feminine or not in your view.

Is there a feminine way to sleep?

If you cross your legs the half of the time you sit down, is that masculine?

Silly questions, I know, but my nbrother is silly then.

After reading your messages about you brother, I think you should give him a good slap in the head. :D

Sleep is sleep. What the heck is he doing watching you so closely anyway? :)

The previous poster is right, though. Snoring is bad.

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[MsDazzler]

Well, yeah, you see those buthc lesbisans who dont exhibit any feminity at all.. so it makes you wonder..

[TSMorena35]

there definately is an "un-feminine" way to sleep through: snoring loudly...
My mother is a GG, but someone forgot to give her that memo.....she snores, and snores loudly. It's annoying, but I could not say that's it's not feminine.
i think for me it's personally my mind set, the rest just follows and seems natural
I agree with Jordan

[angel_glow]

i agree with jordan too,

[Arianna]

My behavior, and desire to be what the world calls "feminine", goes back to my earlist memories; before I even understood what the hell gender was. It was my parents that pointed it out to me. People have called it lots of things, but I just call it "being me".

[Ecstatic]

The question about crossing your legs reminds me of the classic scene in Huckleberry Finn where Huck dresses like a girl to find out some information (hmmm--just realized this was probably my first encounter with cross-dressing, lol!). Huck goes to Mrs. Judith Loftus' house. She invites him in, they talk, and she fixes him a snack before he leaves. She tells Huck that she knows he is really a boy because she tested him on the sly by making him thread a needle, catch something in between his legs, and throw a bar of lead, and in each case he performs the act as a boy would. For instance, when she drops something between his legs, he closes his legs to catch it, rather than opening them to let it fall through as a girl would.

Reminds also of what seanchai said in another thread about the key "giveaway" being the way girls and tgirls walk, with most tgirls walking like men, not women. So your walk could be unfeminine if you don't adopt the feminine style of walking.

[MsDazzler]

Reminds also of what seanchai said in another thread about the key "giveaway" being the way girls and tgirls walk, with most tgirls walking like men, not women. So your walk could be unfeminine if you don't adopt the feminine style of walking.


Do you think it s because of the biology that women walk the way they do (because of their hips) or is it because of society conditioned them to sway their hips (to tempt men or because of high heels)?

just dont walk like a man then youll be fine lol

[Arianna]

Keep in mind that a man's hips and a woman's are different. I think that Moni pointed this out in a previous post. Look at an anatomy book and check out the skeletons of both genders. Also men have a ridge to their brow and women don't. The brow bone can be shaved, but the hips are wider for child birth. Nothing can be done about that, except to walk differently than what comes naturally. Butt implants are done same as boobs, but there is no such thing as a silicone hip implant. And it wouldn't really help the walk if there was.

You can get liposuction and have the fat re-distributed to other areas, which is safer than silicone injection pumping. But, as Moni pointed out, I haven't heard of them using it on the hips yet. Only boobs and butts so far, and as an alternative to Botox in the face. That's what I'd like to do eventually. Even though I don't have too much fat to work with, what little I do have won't be rejected by my body and it's not known to migrate.

[Ecstatic]

I agree, it's definitely the biological difference with the hips and pelvic area. However, I think that society also conditions girls to promote the feminine difference, so that what's natural is exaggerated.

Try this at home: a fun test, what a woman can do but a man cannot. Stand up next to a wall with a chair nearby. Take three steps back from the wall and then take the chair and place it in front of you so that the back of the chair is to your left. Then bend over so that your head touches the wall and your back is parallel to the floor. Lift the chair just a few inches off the ground before returning to a full upright position.

Can you do it?

Because women have a different center of gravity than men, women can easily lift the chair, but men cannot.