What constitutes a tranny chaser?

[Juliana_Dominguez]

how are they like?

are they dangerous people?

what do they want?

and why?

[WillowQueen]

I believe tranny chasers come from all walks of life so it's really unfair to say what they are like. They are all different.
Dangerous? Like I said, they're all different. Some can be dangerous and some won't even hurt a fly. Some will lash out if they get rejected, and some will just move onto the next girl.
What do they want? Aside the obvious? That's pretty much it. The just want us, and want us for sex.
And they reason they want it from us... well, we have dicussed at great length why men are attaracted to tgirls before. But feel free to make your own conclusions.

[Juliana_Dominguez]

hmmm, so these are the men who wants sex.... hmmm ok... now this gives me the idea, thanks for the insight willow you're the queen! hehe

[BigTex]

Although I don't like the term, I would probably be considered one by most girls. I can say that Willow pretty much nailed it when she said that we are all different.

I mean, I would much rather meet a tgirl in a bar have some drinks and some laughs and see what happens then go spend my hard earned money just to have sex and nothing else. Not saying I don't do that too but just not my preference. There have been many times where I have sat at a table with more than one tgirl, had some drinks and had a blast and then thanked the ladies for a good time and left without any mention of sex and been perfectly happy. Even though I probably started the night looking for or "chasing" sex, the time had was too fun to worry about the other if one of the girls didn't mention it.

I guess, what classifies me as a chaser is that I am not looking for a longterm relationship and I am in the closet for the most part. As much as I wish I was strong enough to expand a relationship with a tgirl, right now, it has to stay discrete.

Just my 2 cents.

Oh, and for the record, in my experiences, I have seen some creepy, pushy, rude, and could be considered dangerous charactars out there "chasing". Just like some girls give you ladies a bad name, I have to jump through hoops to prove I am not a total creep.

[Ecstatic]

WillowQueen, you as usual hit the most salient points, plus Big Tex I agree with you on the closeted part. Those are the two underlying features of a tranny chaser: a guy who pursues tgirls solely for sex and is otherwise in the closet about his attraction.

[Juliana_Dominguez]

now im really getting... and now, i have to be really careful!

[LeoraMoore]

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[BigTex]

I think a female who likes tgirls wouldn't mind the name because she would not have to fight the creepy assumptions that go with it when talking about a male. She could swoop in stealthlike. :lol:

Ecstatic...
Remember though, for some of us it is not always sex only. I very much enjoy the conversation and companionship that I share with many girls. If sex happens then so be it but I am always honest and upfront with girls. I think that is the main concern for Juliana and other nice ladies looking for Mr. Right. A lot of chasers will lie their ass off to get in a girls pants and then they never are seen again. Those are the guys that make having a innocent good time hard for a guy like me who just wants to be honest and let things take there course from there.

[BigTex]

For the record, I have had a number of times where I have had drinks with a girl and been honest with them about not wanting a relationship and they were fine with that. After having a nice chat, I did not feel attracted to them physically (the spark was just not there but I enjoyed the company) and just wanted to have a few drinks. A few of them got really pissed when I didn't want to go home with them and they were not escorts looking for money either. Should we call them "Chasing trannys"? :wink:

One made a huge scene in a bar calling me a faggot and pointing at several gay gentlemen in the club and telling them I wanted them to fuck me because I was a fag. I just laughed and had a few more drinks. That was crazy stuff. I did not know that me buying someone drinks and talking to them meant I had to be "their's".

[MrGemini]

Tranny chaser? Maybe if she runs and i dont want her to get away!

Seriously tho, its quite the ugly word, but I guess its supposed to be.

i dont really wana reply to this tread cause it may offend some guys i like in here il skip to the next thread..

[Texxx]

the closeted aspect is interesting...i never thought of that as criteria, but i suppose you are right.

i always view it just as i would any guy who goes after any woman for sex only. in any bar or club there are those guys who do whatever they can to get laid.. if they are chasing TG or GG doesn't really matter in my opinion.

[Ecstatic]

I think a female who likes tgirls wouldn't mind the name because she would not have to fight the creepy assumptions that go with it when talking about a male. She could swoop in stealthlike. :lol:

Ecstatic...
Remember though, for some of us it is not always sex only. I very much enjoy the conversation and companionship that I share with many girls. If sex happens then so be it but I am always honest and upfront with girls. I think that is the main concern for Juliana and other nice ladies looking for Mr. Right. A lot of chasers will lie their ass off to get in a girls pants and then they never are seen again. Those are the guys that make having a innocent good time hard for a guy like me who just wants to be honest and let things take there course from there.
Exactly, BigTex: that's why I wouldn't classify you or me as a tranny chaser. We don't meet what I see as the two main criteria: a guy who pursues tgirls solely for sex and is otherwise in the closet about his attraction. I don't chase tgirls purely for sex (though I unabashedly love making love with a tgirl), and I'm not in the closet about it. I don't tell everyone--it's not their bizniz--but a lot of my friends know, my wife is fully aware (and supportive), and that's all that matters to me. And the most important thing to me is friendship with the girls I see.

no i dont classify the guys who gets turned down but moves on with life,as a chaser,guys in this forum id classify as supporters but some maybe chasers as in stalking them im shopping centre or finding out everything about them or calling in anonymous number not revealing their identity ,now thats a chaser to me not all the guys in here are chasers.
There are genuine guys here and id love to meet those kind,the chasers only act the way they do because they know that we're very rare you dont see the same amount of tgirls as you would in any niteclub do you? so idont blame them for acting that way but when it turns into stalking or not respecting and accepting rejection then thats not on,dont expect me to get attracted

[kalina]

The term "tranny chaser" definitely has negative connotations to it. Some TSs and CDs don't like being called "tranny" (I don't know why, I guess it sounds like slang to them). Pair a somewhat negative word with "chaser" and you have something that hints at being taboo (which makes the description of being a closeted person who wants sex all the more accurate).

Probably a better term for guys who like tgirls without wanting to necessarily sleep with them is "tgirl admirer," but I am sure there will be people who hate this term, too. The term almost has connotations that the person is also in the closet and will never act out his admiration (such as guys who say they want to meet us and never show up or lurk in the shadows).

Maybe... tgirl appreciator? tgirl afficianado? tgirlaphile?

I think there is no good term for this. People like what they like whether it be vanilla, chocolate, or everything in between. Maybe this is what some people are talking about when they say they hate labels, but labels can help us understand people a little better sometimes.

(I'm feeling loopy because of my allergies :D )

[BigTex]

Good post Kalina. The only thing I disagree with is that Labels help us understand people better. I think labels stereotype people for the most part. Descriptions and discussions help to better understand people. My fear is that we have become so dependant on labels that I may miss a golden opportunity to meet a very special person because someone calls me the same label as a guy that has no good intentions.

The good thing about my situation is that once someone knows me, I believe they would never label me. I think their description would be very positive or at least I hope it would be. I just know what the first impression usually is and I would hope that most ladies would give me the benfit of the doubt. I don't have a creepy appearance or give off that type of aura so I think most do. Actually, I am very shy and 99% of the time, I am approached by a lady ( tranny chaser chaser? :D ) before I make an effort. Sometimes, I may have some drinks and mind my own business and sit alone the whole time then leave. I just don't like making anyone feel uncomfortable so I avoid the true signs of a chaser. Like the staring, following, harrassing, etc. I have seen guys that do all of these and it is very unattractive, even to some escorts. I have had escorts tell me that those are the guys that they fear because they seem desperate and creepy. One girl told me that most guys like that end up wanting to talk for the thrill and then once money is brought up, they leave and probably go jackoff because they talked to a tgirl. That's just wierd.

[WillowQueen]

I never liked the word "admirer". Because people would call themself that even if they were a tranny chaser, just because it's sounds better. And they're not really admiring us.

[Guest]

No Willow, you have to be an admirer initially before anything else can happen...

to me every guy in here are tgirl admirers/supporters a chaser to me is someone who would wait outside a trannybar and follow you around and stalk you in shopping centres or bug you in all sorts of ways prettymuch thats a tgirl stalker/chaser i wouldnt call guys in here specially the ones i like as chasers thats a turn off.. :shock:

[syntax]

are they dangerous people?

I'm pretty bad azz.

I crossed the street on a RED walk signal once.

8)

haha actually I don't know how to classify myself. Am I tranny chaser? hmmmm but then again I chase any woman!

One of my best friends was a tgirl, and we started dating. That was a year ago...was the best relationship I ever had. Haven't been with a tgirl since then...but am open to a relationship for sure.

Does that make me a tranny chaser cause I like tgirls? haha I really don't know.

[Dabaldone]

The thing that bothers me the most is all men have a preference. Some guys like BBW's, others want the small size 4 model type woman. I prefer TS women and that makes me a chaser? Hell, I "chased'" women all of my life, TS or otherwise.

Think about this, while you are dating to find a LTR, you don't go out with one person and delare "she is the one". I've dated a ton of women before I got married. Does that make me a bad guy? Look, as long as a guy isn't closeted (only wanting to see you after dark :twisted: ) and not just looking for sex and prefers the company of a certain "kind" of woman, what's the problem? That makes him a chaser?

[flombago]

There are guys who incessantly chase women, whether paid or free, and there is also a rare group of men who get chased by women. I guess all these are the analogs of tranny chasers, but there is a difference: unfortunately, there is a stigma associated with transexualism, at least within the USA. This stigma produces a barrier against open commitment to a Tgirl. Some men probably exploit this barrier. In addition, I think TGirls tend to have a higher sex drive than GGirls (but I could be wrong about that). So, some men use TGirls to gratify their short-term sexual needs, or just to try something different.

From what I've learned in this forum, and from my own experience, the TGirls generally want to be treated as women and to compete for men on an equal basis. And I've come to believe that we should either treat them as women and be fair and respectful, or else leave them alone if we lack the courage.

[Jasadin]

IMHO I don't think it's about one being a chaser.I think every guy here is on some level.I just think it's more about what degree is his pursuit.I mean you have the well mannered nice guy on one end and the guy who's tryin to stick everything in the middle and the psycho on the extreme end.

plz not all the guys in here are chasers i like most guys in here who has the time to be here and supports us girls...and treat us with respect.xx

[Jasadin]

plz not all the guys in here are chasers i like most guys in here who has the time to be here and supports us girls...and treat us with respect.xx



It's not a put down.I guess "chaser" has a bunch of meanings to different people.Like I tried to say earlier it's how you look at it.I imagine if you see a tgirl you like surely you're gonna have to make some move.In my view that advance is a chase.It can be classy or unwanted vulgar behavior but it's still chasing imho.Girls are chased for a bunch or reasons like for a quicky and sometimes wifey.By using a umbrella sterotype phrase"trannychaser"we fail to acknowledge the vast spectrum of people who may be feeling a tgirl for a honorable intent.

[Ecstatic]

Or a combination of honorable and, umm, less honorable, eh? IOW, I think of a chaser as being soley about the dishonorable (that is, only wanting the quicky and having no greater depth of interest in a girl).

[kalina]

Or a combination of honorable and, umm, less honorable, eh? IOW, I think of a chaser as being soley about the dishonorable (that is, only wanting the quicky and having no greater depth of interest in a girl).

That's why tgirlaphile should be the new word. You love tgirls, maybe you're even a tgirl expert (I know you are :D ). There's nothing dishonorable about someone who loves tgirls.

[Ecstatic]

That's why tgirlaphile should be the new word. You love tgirls, maybe you're even a tgirl expert (I know you are :D ). There's nothing dishonorable about someone who loves tgirls.
tgirlaphile: I like that. Also mixes English and Latin (in English it would be tgirllover, but that doesn't sound as good, and in Latin maybe transgendophile? awkward).

[Jasadin]

That's why tgirlaphile should be the new word. You love tgirls, maybe you're even a tgirl expert (I know you are :D ). There's nothing dishonorable about someone who loves tgirls.
tgirlaphile: I like that. Also mixes English and Latin (in English it would be tgirllover, but that doesn't sound as good, and in Latin maybe transgendophile? awkward).

Shall we see if it'll catch on?

[kalina]

That's why tgirlaphile should be the new word. You love tgirls, maybe you're even a tgirl expert (I know you are :D ). There's nothing dishonorable about someone who loves tgirls.
tgirlaphile: I like that. Also mixes English and Latin (in English it would be tgirllover, but that doesn't sound as good, and in Latin maybe transgendophile? awkward).

Shall we see if it'll catch on?

Let's all use it! :D

[Ecstatic]

Well, I'm proud to be a tgirlaphile!

[christoronto]

tgirlaphile is a good term to describe oneself

[WisdomInfinite]

Maybe "transgenophile" without the 'd', since the 'd' is epenthetic, and from French, not the original latin. Anyway, that still mixes Greek and Latin, which is pretty bad (there was a lot of controversy over naming "Tyrranosaurus Rex" back in the day because the name mixed Greek and Latin, which some thought was uncouth), but it sure sounds impressive! Either that, or like the diagnostic term for a fetish...

[Ecstatic]

I like transgenophile, and hang mixing the Greek and Latin. I did wince a bit at tgirlaphile mixing very informal English (tgirl being a contraction) and Latin, but let it slide so as not to appear too pedantic (something I'm guilty of all too often). However, there is a bit of a problem with transgenophile as well, as it doesn't specify MtF or FtM, and while I fully support all people realizing their true nature, whether FtM or MtF, I am a lover of MtF transgenders. But then again, we glibly use "transsexual" when we usually mean "male to female transsexual" so maybe that's a moot point.

I most definitely prefer the sound of transgenophile over tgirlaphile. No question there.