Dead Giveaways

[MsDazzler]

We discussed this briefly in another thread but I thought I'd start a new one since this is obviously a new topic in itself (the other thread talked about silicione injections)

What s a dead giveaway that you can tell in Tgirls? especially fledging or newbie ones..

As for me, i dont know if you recall or knew already, I m deaf (I mentioned this in my TGPIXEL profile). I was born that way and never learned how to speak. I use American Sign Language. Anyway, I think my dead giveaway is my voice. A friend told me that if I use my voice, I sound deep and masculine. Since I m deaf, I have no way of altering or practicing my voice until it sounds feminine and high pitched. Oh well. At least I can just turn my voice off around men until in bed, then I can let out a moan or two. LOL

[NoOne]

Sorry to hear that Dazz. I had no idea but your only missing out on bigmouths talking shit all around the world. If anything some might interpret your disability as privelage. lol. Nevertheless always remember it could be worse. Thank god for being able to see and for the other gifts he has blessed u with.

[Jordan]

In newbies, before any kind of hair removal procedure, i think the extra thick base, gives a mask appearance that you do not see on gg's, gets ya clocked

[SexxxyJade]

too much make up in the daytime.
What ladies need to realize is that being a woman is not about addind addind adding to ur look. Work with ur natural featires. Most of us are already cute boys so sum hair and a little gloss will blend u in with the average woman. Its not until we start putting on base and all these colors at the wrong times, that we start getting stares.
Most women dont pile their faces with make up all day..only when going out or special occasions. Lets try doing less and maybe we can fit in more. Try it, I promise it works.
Kisses

[NoOne]

i agree. although in my opinion i don't have the best skin i've never been into foundation. i stick with some powder, mascara, n lips. no eye shadows, eyeliners or rouges during the day. it's just a no-no. after living in los angeles for 6 months back in the day i have grown accustomed to lining my lips but i never do it in black. i have seen some girls use black and on top of that use it during the daytime. at night on the right girl black can be lovely but during the day on the wrong girl it can look like you were sucking on a piece of charcoal. stay away from black around the lips ladies cuz there is a whole spectrum of colors u can use...

www.MACcosmetics.com <---The only makeup i use.

and while i'm at it let me reccomend my favorite moisturizer... it's called "lem'er" they sell it at Neimans. it's a moisturizer that was developed by NASA scientists for burn victims. it cost 100 bucks for a 1 ounce jar but if used properly the jar can last 2 months. J-Lo, Madonna and Mariah Carey are some of the people who use it.

[DessiLu]

when they act TOOOOOO feminine. When I see a newbie or something they take it over the top. It's just makes them look like a gay fag. GG's don't act that feminine.

[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[Harajuku Tgirl]

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[KaMiLeUnGuRl]

Im gonna go on me for this one.... Lets see I went out duing the day once to the mall alone... the thing is some said i didnt get clocked (i asked people in the store lol) and some didnt... im a latina and they said i looked like a black girl... Well when your aroiund them when you start, your gonna dress and act like em ;) fuq wut they thought... I would not say i was CLOCKED but i got looked at and stared... I mean its not everyday you see someone in Calf high Fuck me boots, Full body fishnets, Tight skirt and top thats 6' 2" after heels lol i mean ill say about ALL the men were too busy drooling (as my friend said) and none of them pointed and laffed like some stories ive heard.. So what im saying on my part i think its what you wear on some girls

[tonyballew]

But instead I'll just have to do it here. :D

[Ecstatic]

As a guy I think the biggest giveaway is the voice. Many girls have pleasant voices that I would call passable, but still noticable. I've only met a few who truly sound unclockably female, so that I would never guess by hearing them.

I don't think most guys would notice the legs, thighs or hips as much as you might think. We're too easily distracted by a pretty face, nice (especially sexy) outfits, and natural-looking boobs. If we stop to think about it, or if a tgirl is standing next to a very shapely gg and both are wearing bikinis, we'll notice, but I don't think we would so much otherwise.

If you know what to look for, of course there are clues, but most people are unaware of these clues. A pronounced Adam's apple is clockable, but about 10% of women have Adam's apples, and not everyone knows it's a masculine trait. Not one person I've talked to about it knew that for most men the ring finger is longer than the index finger, while on women they are the same length (though they are surprised when I demonstrate this biological curiosity). Other clues, like hairlines, feet, knees I think are neither known that commonly or observed that carefully.

Torso shape however is a giveaway, as are boobs that don't appear natural to your shape. But I think you're all onto something about makeup and behavior being more obvious giveaways to most guys. At least, that's this guy's perspective.

[seanchai]

You've missed it all....I've been around 1000's of TS's on 4 continents and no matter how passable, how much hormones, how perfectly coutured they are...they still swish.
You can spot a TG walking through a crowded mall or down a beach, it's the walk girls. Spottable.
seanchai

[NoOne]

if anyone would know it would be the hugh heffner of shemales himself.... the one, the only, SeanChai

ie I think my dead giveaway is my voice.....

hi mz dazzler,i would suggest if you could try this..just do ur normal voice next time but try and let most of the air comeout through the nostril without sounding like you have a blocked nose :D as well as the mouth and at the same time try and talk soft and lightly..no loud shouting lol..or grunting, if you can do that for whileand practise that should automatically soften ur voice,, or try high pitched singing it worked for me::lol: and a small dose of hormones would help too but not necesary,its all practise and living it fulltime.

Even some tgirls who looks really attractive can get noticed cause people tend to look at attractiveness alot,some with lots of surgeries makes them look too dolly and un natural,if they have a good radar and notice a little flaw or something or something un natural , could be anything,im sure theyd give you some kinda vibe...ive hung out with unpassable girls who were really obvious its funny,they looked at her weirdly then they would try and look at me longer :shock:

[MsDazzler]

ie I think my dead giveaway is my voice.....

hi mz dazzler,i would suggest if you could try this..just do ur normal voice next time but try and let most of the air comeout through the nostril without sounding like you have a blocked nose :D as well as the mouth and at the same time try and talk soft and lightly..no loud shouting lol..or grunting, if you can do that for whileand practise that should automatically soften ur voice,, or try high pitched singing it worked for me::lol: and a small dose of hormones would help too but not necesary,its all practise and living it fulltime.

Even some tgirls who looks really attractive can get noticed cause people tend to look at attractiveness alot,some with lots of surgeries makes them look too dolly and un natural,if they have a good radar and notice a little flaw or something or something un natural , could be anything,im sure theyd give you some kinda vibe...ive hung out with unpassable girls who were really obvious its funny,they looked at her weirdly then they would try and look at me longer :shock:

thanks for the advice but I m deaf, so how would I kno wwhen my voice becomes "feminine"? i cant hear myself. LOL

And also, I dont agree about the makeup... there are lots of GGs who wear eyeliner and eyeshadow in public during the day

[NoOne]

i wouldn't say lots Dazz. i'd say maybe 1 out of 9 do. that's not the majority therefore it's not common which makes it stand out. when u draw attention to yourself people will look closer.

to ms dazzler again,
just refering to what you said,about being deaf..thats why i was saying to you try concentrating by speaking through the nostril and mouth area softly you dont need to hear how you sound to do that...but try to avoid speaking using air thats coming from down the throat area,if you get what i mean, that would practise the pitch of ur voice to be higher like a girl.

[Sonia]

To Miss Dazzler, I can help you with that problem. It's simple. Get a very good friend of yours to help train you with your voice. Start on some basic techniques. Speak how you normally would and have your friend arrange a scale from 1- 10. From masculine to feminine. When you practice speaking. Have your friend listen to your voice. They should be able to tell you if the technique your using is the right one. Hence, 1- for masculine sounding. 10- for feminine sounding. You can use this to help you figure out which voice technique makes you sound more feminine. This might be frustrating at first, but over time with a good friend and faith in yourself. This will no longer be a concern of yours. Your technique will improve significantly if you know which technique to use. 1 thing that I know for sure will help you. Women normally do not have a rumble in there throat. It usually takes more wind and projection of voice. It's simple when you catch on. Remember, No rumble in your throat. Wind and Voice Projection you should focus on. Place your hand on your throat and practice this. Do this with your friend. Hope this helps you out. I know my classes in speech pathology were well worth being able to share this with someone who can benefit from it. I believe in you.
Sonia

[rvince]

To me, it's voice and (to a lesser extend) forearms and hands.

[MsDazzler]

How bout grrls who dress sexy all the time?

[Lola]

too much make up in the daytime.
What ladies need to realize is that being a woman is not about addind addind adding to ur look. Work with ur natural featires. Most of us are already cute boys so sum hair and a little gloss will blend u in with the average woman. Its not until we start putting on base and all these colors at the wrong times, that we start getting stares.
Most women dont pile their faces with make up all day..only when going out or special occasions. Lets try doing less and maybe we can fit in more. Try it, I promise it works.
Kisses

yeah girl, exactly that why when i go out i don't use any make up at all. if any, i'll use some lipgloss. but that's it. i also agree with MsDazzler about always dressing sexy. See, me being a "newbie" to the scene. i'm always dressing sexy. I didn't know that was a give away. but damn, now that i think about it. that's prolly how they be finding out. oh well, it's good for them to know so i can feel comfortable when we are about to get to it. Just recently I was on a date with this guy, and i don't know where he got the idea that i was a transsexual, but he asked me "are you a real women?" i was like "yeaaah" but i didn't know how to react to it. Yeah, that night went all bad. and he ended up taking my cell phone instead of beating me up. but you know what? sometimes i really just feel like i'm a real female. Like when i'm out in the nightlife and people approach me. I feel just like a girl, and it's hard for me to just tell them i'm a TS. I usually tell them when i'm on the phone with them. and I tell them. before things get heavy, some accept it, some don't, and some of just curious. but yeah, Thanks for the tips ladies. I'll try to dress down for now on. I didn't know that was too much of a give away.

[MsDazzler]

I m so sorry to hear about tht guy confiscating your cell phone!!! Why would he do that? That s unusual retaliation!

[Arianna]

yeah girl, exactly that why when i go out i don't use any make up at all. if any, i'll use some lipgloss. but that's it. i also agree with MsDazzler about always dressing sexy. See, me being a "newbie" to the scene. i'm always dressing sexy. I didn't know that was a give away. but damn, now that i think about it. that's prolly how they be finding out. oh well, it's good for them to know so i can feel comfortable when we are about to get to it. Just recently I was on a date with this guy, and i don't know where he got the idea that i was a transsexual, but he asked me "are you a real women?" i was like "yeaaah" but i didn't know how to react to it. Yeah, that night went all bad. and he ended up taking my cell phone instead of beating me up. but you know what? sometimes i really just feel like i'm a real female. Like when i'm out in the nightlife and people approach me. I feel just like a girl, and it's hard for me to just tell them i'm a TS. I usually tell them when i'm on the phone with them. and I tell them. before things get heavy, some accept it, some don't, and some of just curious. but yeah, Thanks for the tips ladies. I'll try to dress down for now on. I didn't know that was too much of a give away.

Women wear sexy clothing, just not all the time. But if you're out clubbing, just like makeup, that's a better time and place. Now if you're at the supermarket, well, that might not be the best place to wear a mini-skirt, fishnets, and fuck-me pumps. ;)

And I'm sorry to hear about that guy taking your phone too. Some guys are going to cool with it, some won't. If they guess about you correctly, and you're interested in getting to know them better, I think being honest is best. Whether you are aware of it or not, you might be making them question their sexuality and manhood, and that can be real trouble. It's bad enough sometimes even when you are honest. But if you have no interest in them, it's none of their business. Just always be smart and careful. Guys are so worried to be labeled a "fag". Insecure motherfuckers SUCK!