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SexxxyJade
08-20-2005, 02:14 AM
Last nite I had the most firghtening experience of my career. Starts like this.....

Im in Dtroit, MI, mind you, a city I have never been to I a city where i know no one. I recieve a call, from a client of course, brief chat. He sets an appointment for 6pm, i tell him to call me when he gets to my hotel because I never give out my room # before they actually arrive. He calls back a half hour later and tells me he is here, I give him the room number,l check myself in the mirror, and post by the door, waiting for him to knock. 1min pass, 10 min...1 hr passes and still no knock. Im pissed because I hate when people break appointments, and even more pissed because he lied and said that he was here. But oh well this sort of thing happens all the time. I save this guys number in my phone in, something I always do with no-shows and I undress and start to bath Pickachu ( my doggie "Pomerainian"). The evening paases as normal, I have a couple of clients, normal day. Around 10pm my cell phone rings. Its the guy from earlier that didnt show up. I quickly answer the phone with a nasty tone ready to lash out at him if he doesn't have a good excuse. He says " Hi, where are u located, and how much is an hr". I'n shocked, almost appalled that this guy would call me like a new client, like he had never called me before, like he hadn't broken our appt. I say " the same price it was earlier today when u called to set your appt. and broke it. He was like oh my bad, I call alot of girls but I'm ready to see you now. I say "hell no" and hang up the phone. He calls back about 5 times in a row, I dont answer of course and after a while he stops. The night moves on and i get ready for bed. Fall asleep around midnite. An hr after im sleep a knock is at my door, this panicks me only a little, cause maybe its someone with the wrong room. I ignore it until they knock again, then again and again. I get up put on my rob and pull bak the curtins, to see a heavy set black guy. " Can I help you" I say he just stand there gawking at me. " why are u knocking at my door at 1 am?" He says..." Oh i think i have the wrong rooom is Tony in there" i say no, pull bak the curtins and get bak in bed.l After about 10 min I fall bak asleep then my phone rings. Its the number of the guy from earlier, it immediately registers in my mind that this is very possibly the guy who just knocks at my door . I answer the phone, " hey baby your sure looking good in those pink panties" he says. I say " who is this". He goes " lemme come in there and lick u all over" I lash out at him, in sum very vulgar words and i hang up the phone. He calls back, over and over and over again, to the point where I have to turn off my phone. Its kinda strange tho because at this point I'm still not scared, just angry and ready to go to sleep. After a while I fall asllep.
I wake up the next morning around 10:30 am, turn my phone on and I hve 5 messages. Alll of them are from this guy, he had sat outside my room from 2 am to 7 am leaving me messages every hour on the hr. Nasty messages about all of the things he wants to do to me. The last messages said that he had to go to work at 7 but he'll be back. At this point I'm a little scared. I try to brush it off,still shocked that sum guy would actually sit outside my room for that long. I have my first client around noon. When the client leaves I get a phone call...Its the guy again, he goes " hey baby u ready to see me now, I just saw that white guy leave ur room, i know i can freak u better than he can" I hang up. OMG I ant believe this guy is outside my roomwatching me, watching my every move. At this point I am totally angery, scared, upset!!!!! He calls about 2 more times after that and I turn my phone off. Im pacing the room bak and forth bak and forth, I dont knoe what to do. My phone rings again. Its Madison this time. As soon as she answers I tell her what is going on, about this crazy guy who has been stalking me. She asks for his number and I give it to her. She clcks over on three way and dails the number. When he answers, Madison changes her voice to the deepest voice Ive ever heard...she says " hey man, why in the fuk r u messing with my lady, let her handle her business before I come over there and handle it for her homeboy"...the guys says " ok sorry" and hangs up. Madison clicks him off and tells me to calm down and if he comes or calls bak then I should change hotels immediately.
That has been about 4 hrs ago and this guy hasn't came back or called. I even went outside to walk Pickachu and didnt see anything outt of the ordinary. Im just gonna see how my nite goes and if the saying is true " freaks come out at nite" hopefully this freak will decide to stay in and leave me alone.
I posted this thread to let you guys know what sum of us girls go thru, what our circumstances are sometimes. True I choose this lifestyle and choose to be i n this business, but no one deserves to be harassed like that. I have heard sum stories from other girls similar and even worse than mine. So keep in mind guys that IT AINT EASY! You all widh me luck and hopefully I wont have to show this guy my karate moves tonite.
Kisses
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Sexy Shemale Jada

boejonger
08-20-2005, 02:29 AM
Now that story is terrifying. You should notify the police if he calls again... you shouldn't have to live in fear because of one desparate fool.
I'm glad that you are OK
Much love
.:boe:.

geekmeat
08-20-2005, 02:50 AM
Thats rough.
I guess its an occupational hazard I guess.
Thats why you girls should NEVER go anywhere alone.
So many bad things have happened to transgender women and no one even cares.
When you go off by yourself your taking a chance.

boejonger
08-20-2005, 02:57 AM
When you go off by yourself your taking a chance.
Too bad that so many tgirls think they have too....

~*MoNi*~
08-20-2005, 03:00 AM
Jade i told u my story on the phone a month ago but i'm gonna tell it in here for those who don't know cuz i fell u and what u are saying in ya story as i went through something similar.

I was Downtown in Baltimore on Lombard Street chillin' on the front porch of my good girlfriend Vanilla's house. Me, her and like 5 of our friends were just laughing and talking and enjoying the nice weather (this was last summer mind you). We were out there for 2 hours. Anyway I think I had a call so I left for home and 1 of my other homegirls came with me. So I am on the beltway and my phone rings. It's a blocked number which I usually don't answer but for some reason I did. When I answered much to my disarray I heard a grown man sobbing. He began crying uncontrollably and mumbled that he's been calling me from a blocked number all year and he always hanged up and that he's sorry but he just likes to check on me and make sure I'm okay. So my reaction i'm thinking to myself whoa this guy is NUTS cuz I have never met him for him to be so emotional. I was like WHAT!?? DON'T BE CALLING HERE WITH THAT CRAZY SHIT!! Then he let me know he was in the Chevy Avalanche Truck behind me in Traffic and that he had followed me from Vanilla's house. THANK GOD I HAD A FRIEND WITH ME CUZ I PROLLY WOULDA BEEN REALLY SCARED. I immediately panicked ran the light we were sitting at and the chase began. I was running red lights to get away from this lunatic and he was running them right behind me almost causing car accidents n everything. We cut through parking lots and back on the beltway and when I got to my exit where I lived I tried to fake him out at high speed and and not get off until the last second so he couldn't follow. MY PLAN WORKED and he sped past, I was relieved but then this mutha fucka had the balls to throw his truck in reverse ON THE HIGHWAY!! and proceeded to follow me. I called my boyfriend of 3 years n let him know to come down stairs with the baseball bat n meet me in the parking lot to beat this dude's ass. I managed to lose the guy n my baby was waiting for me in the parking lot when I got there. I WAS SAFE. whew!

Later the nut called my phone again and said "you never got any of my emails?". it turned out he had been sending emails to a screename I haven't used since I was 17 and when I logged in I found that he had sent me an email EVERY SINGLE day for a year talking about all the nasty shit he would do to me. I forwarded it all to the police. I now am a registered gun owner, I go to the range and practice and I also own a 75 pound pit bull who is trained perfectly. BE CAREFUL LADIES!!! Protect yourselves. I have been to a few funerals and I have also heard about a few ladies I know. These nuts kill us more often then you think SO BE PREPARED!!

Jordan
08-20-2005, 03:21 AM
Wow!! Thanks ladies for opening up and sharing your stories. i think alot of girls will identify, and hopefully your stories will make them more alert and they can stop it before it starts!

08-20-2005, 01:12 PM
I found both Monica's and Jade's story pretty scary, and the sad part is, I have heard this type of story alot. I have been a bisexual MALE escort for the past twelve years. While in the male racket, you usually get closeted guys, women, or couples who don't want a problem, you get a few loonys there too. I have not been stalked to the extent of thetwo of you, but there are plenty who "fall in love" or want to see you and don't have the money and are quite persistant. They can cause problems and at the very least it becomes a problem.
It is easy to turn down the clients you don't feel comfortable talking to, but you can't plan for stalking. Moni's advice is very good, put it out there that you are protected. When I felt a little funny about a client or had one calling all the time and not booking, I would tell him that he is waking up my partner or ajust an appointment fifteen minutes, telling him the guy I work with is getting done a call. This way they always think you have someone with you. Always plan ahead and have an escape plan if possible.
BTW, why are there only men stalking escorts? I have had plenty of female clients, but was never stalked by them?

08-20-2005, 04:36 PM
That is me above who posted not logged in.

08-20-2005, 09:10 PM
Man, I hate hearing stories like this. Some guys should be neutered! Or worse! There are some crazy people in this world. Be safe, girls. Travel with a buddy, call security, do what you have to do to protect yourself. I am sooo glad nothing bad happened to either of you, Jada and Moni, in these incidents.

Ecstatic
08-20-2005, 09:11 PM
Oops, thought I was logged in when I posted the message above.

2pert4ya
08-22-2005, 03:12 PM
people are crazy here in detroit fa real sorry you had to go through something like that

Transsexual702
08-22-2005, 03:38 PM
GIRL YOU BETTER BE CAREFUL

edgeoflife
08-22-2005, 07:09 PM
Be careful

tsluver247
08-23-2005, 03:05 AM
Being in your field of work can be dangerous. I recommend a buddy system call a friend before an appointment and call after the appointment to ensure your safety. If you do not call your friend back in 2 hours, I suggest the friend calls to check if you are OK. If you do not pick up, I suggest the friend looking for you if you do not pick up after a second call 15 minutes from the first call. I suggest traveling with a friend and to apply the same system. I do not suggest a gun. Reasoning: you have to have it on you and you have to search for it if something comes up when you less expect it. Carrying a gun will get you in trouble with or hassled by the cops even with the proper paperwork and firing it can cause more problems. In my opinion, a gun carries more risk than reward. A person is more like to kill oneself or someone they know (friends and family) than to kill a stalker, rapist, etc. by 33 times. That is just my 2 cents on the topic.

wmlover4u
08-26-2005, 12:51 AM
We are not all like that and I am so sorry that happened to you Luv.

angel_glow
09-10-2005, 11:13 PM
dont go out alone with a louies vuitton hand bag unless you want to get chased by a bag snatching maniac,it would scare the living daylights out of you 8) make sure you dont glow too much depending where you go of course :wink: avoid going out alone or make sure you bring a louie vuitton handbag with spikes attached on to them :P just in case the robber needs some bdsm action...

seanchai
09-11-2005, 04:41 AM
...post their numbers here... :twisted:

seanchai

(ok bad suggestion but the threat of doing that could be there).

KaMiLeUnGuRl
09-11-2005, 02:45 PM
Now im not really prepared for something like an encounter like that but bieng the fact that Im transitioning my own way, im not a weak gal. But they may have weapons, Moni im out here in Salisbury, I heard that its different ou tthere in Baltimore, but i live in the bad part of Salisbury and cant really go out in EITHER mode without getting harrased or almost into a fight. I dont like this area and i want to go back to VA Norfolk/Portsmouth area where i KNOW the area and been around there enough to know whats safe and whats not. Until i feel totally comfortable, i dont think im gonna escort. I want to start though. As for protecting myself, i have NO problem calling the cops on assholes like that, or hotel main desk Gurl thats what i would have done.

My suggestion is, you claim him as a deranged minded stalker to the front desk if that happens tonight gurl. Be careful though make sure they personally escoprt him out the hotel.